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I am straight to the point, My advice is given based on my opinions of what YOU write. I may not always tell you what you want to hear but I am not here to sugar coat shit.
I am honest, I am blunt, At times an asshole but one thing I can promise, I'll never lie.
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Well there was this girl that i like, and i told one of my friends. He then decided to have her over to chill. So supposedly they had a thing, but we did too but didnt go telling the world about it and nos he wants to go out with her, even though i originally liked her before him. SoNow when ever i hear about her, or their relationship i feel so crappy and depressed. My friend really screwed me over. Like today, they were gunna hang out, but the girl wanted to come to my place with my "friend". She texted him to ask if he wanted to come here instead. She texted me back saying she was just gunna go to my "friends" house. So obviously she wanted to chill with me but the other kid said no and to chill with him. What should i do? My friend is being an *** and i just feel so angry and betrayed. I really cant stand it. Ay advi\ce would br great.
Your friend betrayed your trust, Honestly I wouldn't really consider him to be a friend. If you can't tell him anything then what is the point of trying to be friends with him?
Sometimes it's best to let things go and move on
Hey everyone, My mom is finally letting me get my cartlidge pierced after about 4 years of asking btw 14/f. Well I am really scared actually. Does it hurt worse than your earlobe? I have finaly came up with the courage because if girls my age can go and get their nose and belly button pierced this should be simple. I'm still scared though I mainly wanna know though is does it hurt that bad and does it hurt/ feel the same as just getting your earlobles peirced? because all my friends that have theirs pierced say it didnt hurt at all! Please help. Thaks(:
It doesn't hurt but keep in mind that piercings aren't always for everyone. Make sure you clean it daily until it heals or it could get infected and would need to be taken out.
Cartilage piercings can take up too 6 months to fully heal, At first it will sting and yes, It will hurt more then getting your ears pierced. Your ears are just flab, Your upper ear is a more sensitive part. If by any chance during the time after your piercing you experience pus or swelling. (These are signs of an infection) It would need to be taken out. Just make sure you clean it, You should be fine. Whatever you do, Do not touch it and do not play with it!
Ok 1st of all I would like to say that I am overweight and hunchback. I tried doing a diet with my family and it went well for about 3 days. I just cant do it because I love sweets and other stuff but I dont like veggies other than carrots and celery but they have to be in soup!!!!!... I dont eat salads.... I go camping every week in the summer and I told everyone that I would be half the person I was 2 weeks ago. If you have any siggestions of dieting and getting rid on my hunchback problem please help. Thanks for everyons support!!!!! :D
just to let you know I will tell you wat I do eat and what I dont eat....
here is what I eat chicken, pizza, steak, clams, ham, burgers, carrots, celery, spegetti, rigatoni, garlic bread, roast beef, fish but only at certain resturants, soup, subway, mcdonalds, burger king,mr heros, and alot of resturants.
here is what I dont eat veggies other that carrots and celery, rice, shrimp... There are lots more things that I eat and do not eat but I cant think about them right now. Please help if you can.
ere is what I eat chicken, pizza, steak, clams, ham, burgers, carrots, celery, spegetti, rigatoni, garlic bread, roast beef, fish but only at certain resturants, soup, subway, mcdonalds, burger king,mr heros, and alot of resturants.
That is all what you said.
How do you prepare your chicken? Whatever you do, Do not fry it. Fried chicken is greasy and unhealthy! If you make Garlic bread skip the white bread and go for Wheat. White bread is not good for you. Also, If you eat out a lot try to cut back to once a month.
Exercising is very important, The best way to do it is to do it in a fun way. Do you like to shoot hoops? If you do, Maybe you and your family could plan a day to go to the park. Winter is coming up, If you don't usually shovel then go out and offer to help people shovel out their driveway. Shoveling is a workout and you can burn off calories this way. Skip the pizza, If you want pizza you can make your own.
Try this:
Wheat Dough, Low fat cheese, Tomato sauce (Don't over stuff the pizza with toppings)
Also, Portion size is important. When you eat only eat one plate. Here is a trick: Instead of using a large dinner plate try using a smaller plate. Also, Try eating with the opposite hand. If you drink soda, Then skip that and go for water and if you feel the need for flavor you can buy the water packets and put it in a bottle. (They come in all flavors) The best thing is walking. Get off the couch and walk just 20 minutes a day will it off too.
For a while now I have been selling pills to some of my friends but I have been the "middle man." If my friends ever need pills I normally charge them about $10 or so more because I have been getting them cheap from my big dealers.
Today one of my friends that I have bought pot from a few times asked me for $1,000 worth of pills and I said sure. When we went to my dealers house I went inside to get the pills but I noticed it was kind of sketchy because a lot of people were in their cars outside of my dealers house. I went through with the deal and gave the pills to the guy asking for it and went on my way.
After leaving that location, I was pulled over. The cops searched me, I had nothing. As well as searched the guys I was with, they had nothing. The cop took me in (because I was the guy who went inside and physically got the pills) and questioned me. He asked me about the dealer and all the pills and whatnot and suggested that I snitch on other dealers I know of.......this is where the big question lies so pay attention...... they then said that I had until next wednesday(it is now thursday) to come and snitch to them or else they would send me to jail. When I asked how they could send me to jail they said "they know who I am" and they "knew I was a middle man" and that they "had enough to put me away for 3 years."
Now, is it really true that they can put me into jail because they've "seen" or "heard" my name as a middle man? THey have no proof/evidence and when I was pulled over I had no drugs on me.
ANY HELP IS GREAT. THANKS GUYS.
Yes they can
You are in possession of selling drugs, You are dealing drugs, You are buying drugs. They want you to rat out the other dealers because you are involved with them, Sounds to me they are looking to do a drug bust. Selling pills and buying from others of course isn't a smart idea......and I would stop now before your ass ends up in jail. You are already heading down that road
Okay so a few weeks ago, I felt kind of wet in my panties. I thought it was my period. But when i went to the bathroom to put a pad on, there was white gooey stuff in my panties. I have it everyday now. Is this normal?
It's likely discharge, It's normal for women to experience this. If this has been an on going problem you can make an appointment with your OBGYN
I need to know where I can go to put up a babysitting flyer for free online? I Googled it and things popped up like "Do you need a babysitter" and "Put your flyer up for just as little as $399.00" I do not have the money. I put one up in my neighborhood, but my apartment manager took it down and I need money. If you need a babysitter and live near Bearden Middle in Knoxville, Tennessee I am available!!!! My name is Stephanie and I'm 15. Just call me if you are SERIOUS!!! 865-200-4052! Thank you :)
Do not put your fliers online, You don't want to give the wrong people the wrong information. Also, Anyone who offers to put up a flier on the internet for 400 bucks is a flat out scam. If you want to babysit go through friends and family,. Not online where you were get thousands of creeps calling you daily.
This girl in my high school (Who nobody likes because she's a complusive liar), had her pictures taken and somebody was pretending to be her on Tumblr.
Like they used pictures of her face, but with a completely different name, age, life story, etc.
Well she freaks out and she was telling everybody how she was on the phone with the police for 3 hours with the police until 2am the night before because of it.
And I was thinking, "Really?"
Like, can you even get in trouble for that? I can see somebody getting in trouble for using the same name and stuff, but really?
Seems a little over-the-top when you can easily report the account with a proof picture and get in deleted.
Btw, she's not lieing about the fake profile because a bunch of people saw it, including myself.
She may be thinking of getting the cops involved but no cop is going to take the time to sit and talk about someone's fake profile for 3 hours on a phone. Can the cops get involved? Yes. This could be classified as identity theft and generally is a very serious thing.
I've known this gal for 4 years...and we get along tremendously. We have kissed passionately many, many times and she lets me suck her boobs once a week.She always begins by yawning which is the sign she wants me to suck her boobs. I feel sometimes like she only wants me to give her pleasure & attention. Always wears provacative clothing,always smells nice. She will not touch me or give me any sexual pleasure...A friend of mine told me that he had gotten several sexual favors from her, but she won't accomodate me. She says she loves me, but I'm beginning to wonder. My friend says she has asked him to do anal sex and eat her pussy. She has given him 2 bloww jobs recently, but shows me absolutely no attention there. Runs like a frightened school girl. My friend is 55. I'm 60 and she's 40.
This women is using you for her sexual gratification, Her actions say that she isn't in love with you, She is love with the attention you give her. If someone where in love with you, They would respect you and show intimacy towards you in a respectful way. If you want someone that loves you for who you are then I would suggest looking for someone else, This women doesn't sound settled she gets pleasure out of messing around that's it.
I really love this guy that I even got scolded by my mom because she knows he is my boyfriend. I am not allowed to have boyfriend yet but I think I am responsible enough to have one. I am hopefully graduating next year in college.. What can I do? My mom believes I have changed because of him and I truly believe that I became different because I want to experience things I haven't done before but I know my limitations. I really cant; understand my mom. Why can't she be like other moms who are like friends with their daughter. Im trying so hard that we will be close, I tell her secrets but it turns out that it got worst.
Okay you stated you will be graduating college next year, Assuming you are at least 18 years of age your mother cannot tell you can and cannot date. If you live under her roof, You must obey her rules. However, Outside of her house you are free to do whatever you want as you are legally an adult and you have the right to make that sort of choice on your own. Your mother is looking out for your best interest, This world too many people are making poor choices and your mother scolding you is her way of trying to keep you in line. Again, You are an adult and you are free to make your own choices in life. Just respect your mothers house rules.
can u please tell me that when sperm is injected in ass hole a girl can pragnent in this case
It's possible, If semen leaked down into the vagina then yes.
i gave my boyfriend head he put his semen all over my chest, alot of it. i took it all with my hand and inserted the semen into my vagina, what is my chance of getting pregnant?
Chances are still possible, If you don't want to become pregnant then use protection at all times.
I had my car at the house my father lives. His girlfriend's/wife's brother owns the house. My car was on their property and it's gone now. I'm not sure if it was stolen and sold or if car repossesion came to tow my car off their property. My father claims he was at work when my car's disappearance had taken place. He gave me a story that a friend from his girlfriend's/wife's brother's work was about to lose his home and my car was sold to help save his house without my knowledge or consent. Then his girlfriend/wife gave me another story: it was towed because it had an expired license. I told her that was not true, it was up-to-date until this month(this as I was told happened 2-3 months ago). She then told me: no, I meant it was towed because it's not drive-able. That was true because I hydroplaned and the axle was bent. Yet, I'm not sure if that is legal action. I don't believe her story because she altered it during conversation. I left my car on their property with my father to protect since late December/January this year. I own the car, it is fully paid. My adoptive parents had tranferred it all in my name and I kept all the car facts in the glove department. I canceled my insurance March, 3 motnhs after my accident. My name would be on the car title. I still must contact the owner of the house and get his story, however, I know his character and I am certain he will lie if he had done wrongful action. Now I am only left with questions and I'm not aware enough of legal actions. I live in the state of Georgia. Can my car be towed without my knowledge if it was towed? Can it be towed for being immobile? Who should I believe? I am very wary of anything his lady says and I am wary of what he says because it's a second time around story. I was surprised to find my car gone, I trusted it to be there. I've asked time after time regarding my car and this happening, as I recall, was never brought to my attention. I was in the process of making plans on fixing the car's axle and having a mechanic from my church look at my car. I had no idea my car was gone until I visited my father a few days ago.
Additional information: His lady said 2 of her cars were taken, also. I don't know if that information matters but I don't know or am concerned about those cars. They weren't drive-able and are likely to have expired tags. Also the family in that house, including my father, all smoke weed daily. They spend a good bit of their paychecks on cigarettes, weed, alcohal, and lottery. Then they always have the gall to speak of their poor living stardards. One more thing, recently they had tickets for their dogs getting loose and brought to my attention there were going to be pressed charges. They also mentioned they had added a new luxery to their home tv entertainment: netflix. I have only came to visit that one day, it was the day before my birthday. One last thing, my father doesn't come across to me as one to be responsible for something deceitful but the others, I can't say the same.
Something sounds fishy, I would call the police report it stolen and tell them what you told us. If they sold your car they could be charged with grand theft auto and larceny. They did not have your consent, Also if your car were towed the towing company would notify you as the cannot tow your car without giving you some sort of notice as that is against the company policy. Call the police and if it turns out they sold your car then press charges against them and for future references I wouldn't be parking your car anywhere nor with someone who can't be trusted. Honestly, It sounds like someone sold the car for money and is lying about it. If you own the car, Then yes they very well can be charged and I wouldn't hesitate to do so. Also, You can verify if your car has been towed or not by simply calling the towing company.
I'm 17 years old and female obviously.
This is really embarrassing but it's never happened to me before so I don't know if I should be worried or not..
I was just on the computer online shopping when I moved my leg and felt more wet 'down there' than normal. My first thought was my period. But when I checked it was just normal whiteish fluid, like from arousel. Slightly gooey. And it smelt like I was aroused, but I wasn't at all.
It was so bad it started dripping down my legs when I wasn't quick enough to wipe it away. It also coated the crotch of my underwear. This has NEVER happened to me before so I don't really know what to think. Is there something wrong?
I'm a virgin and the last time I masurbated was like three days ago, if that could help any possible answers.
More then likely you are experiencing discharge. Nothing to be worried about.
haha mmmkkkkaaayyy drizzy drake rogers is the love of my life but he doesnt know i exist im 15 and he is bout to 25 i think an the 24 of oct. well i plane to have 2 kids with him when im 18 ...what do yall think... btw for hallowen im going to be an over obsessed drake fan :D
Get over it, That's what I think.
My teacher is 27 and Im 18 and he always asks me do I like him if I'm alone with him. I do have a crush on him, but I never tried to do anything with him and I never will. Sometimes I blush when hes around but that's it.If I go to the restroom and Im tardy to class, he will take me to class and he acts weird, he asks weird questions, like he asked me did I love him in front of our class. He will get really close to me and ask me do I love him and if I say no he just says that he loves me. I cant tell if hes serious sometimes or if hes just playing. Sometimes he makes me go in the hall so he can talk to me about nothing that's important. He calls me his girlfriend in front of teachers and students and they just laugh at him because they think hes joking. I don't know if hes playing or what. He'll be in class teaching and put his arm around me. I don't think he'll try to do anything but sometimes he gets close to me and its really uncomfortable, even when I back away. He just stares and smiles at me a lot. Or he'll walk over to my desk and stand there for a while. I'm a pretty strait forward person, so after a while I turn around and ask him what he wants. He'll ask if I need help or something. One time he looked up my schedule and took me out of PE class because I was mad at him and someone told him that I didnt like him, he took me out of class just to ask me if I didnt like him and he looked seriously hurt.
Maybe I'm just overreacting but I just wanted to know what somebody else's opinion was about the situation. Sometimes I just can't tell if hes joking because he knows I have a crush on him or if hes being serious. He has been doing this before I turned 18. Please answer, thanks
Your teacher is out of line, You are a student. Teacher, Student relationships are not tolerated by the school system and if he ever were to get caught he'd be fired. The school has a strict policy, As a teacher his job is to set an example not to seduce his students. Back off, The next time he makes a comment you report him. That is the smart move, You don't need to be a victim and if you feed into his wrong doing you will be just that. It's creepy, This guys actions are pedophilia, You get uncomfortable because you know it's wrong. Report him to the school and let them handle it
Does anyone know where I can download music for free? Not frostwire or limewire..
It is almost impossible to find illegal music nowadays. Also, If you find anything you should be aware that if it is illegal it comes with viruses and a shit load of them. Encase you aren't aware.....They recently been doing a crackdown on piracy I would skip the downloading.
Two weeks ago when I was in school the stairs were wet and I slipped and landed on my upper back. I say slipped but I really mean I fell straight on my back and really hurt it. I didn't hit my head so that was good. But I did hurt my back really bad but my parents still won't take me to the hospital or at least the doctors. They just tell me it's not that bad and to stick it out. I know that if that happened to anyone elses kid they would take them to the hospital. I'm still in pain and they won't. The sport that I do really works the upper back especially the special part I play so it hurts sooooo bad. Should I just try to stick it out and in 6 months it still hurts then it's obviously not a bruise or should I try again with my parents? I just don't know what to do.
If you need to see a doctor and your parents refuse to take you then that is wrong, If you go to school go visit the nurse and tell her that you fell two weeks ago you are in pain and your parents are refusing to take you to a doctor. In the meantime, I would lay off the sports until your back is healed playing will only make it much worse then it already is. Also, You don't know if you really fucked up your back or not.
what names should i call him if he doesnt like to cheesey but not resembeling girls names too...
Seriously what is with the pet names? Just call him by his first name. If you don't want to be cheesy.....Then don't
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I really don't know how I got to this point, where I had to buy a pregnancy test. I've never really been a rebel, in fact I'm a good kid was a virgin until 2 weeks ago. I guess I got too carried away when my parents gave me liberty and let me sleep over my friends house whose brother is my boyfriend..bad idea. We ended up having sex. 2 times. Unprotected.( I know, I know that was stupid!) He said he never cummed inside of me, but precum can get you pregnant. I got my period last month sept 13. And its the 18th and it still hasn't come. I took a pregnancy test (E.P.T.) With my friend (she helped me, because I know nothing about stuff like this) and it came out negative . So I was off course thrilled. But that was 3 days go. And now its the 18th and I still haven't gotten my period. I'm extremely nervous. The way I took it was I peed on a cup, then put the EPT stick inside and waited 2 mins. It came out negative. I mean could my period just be irregular? Wat are some early pregnancy signs?
Something that scared me so much was what my mom told me this morning. She said she had a horrible dream that I had a baby. And she followed it with "I know that wouldn't happen, I have such a good daughter" go figure. I really hope that's just a coincidence. I pray that it is. Please don't say go to the doctor because my mom has my insurance and she will suspect if I just ask for it. Also, If I am pregnant (which I pray I am not) I heard there is a pill you can take if its early enough? How much is it? Ahh!! I'm so nervous and scared. Please any information would help me. Thank you.
If you are this nervous, I highly advise you to take precaution at all times. Getting carried away doesn't cut it.
You could very well have irregular periods, You could very well just be stressing the possibility so much to the point where you are causing your period to delay. Seriously, By your statement you aren't ready for a baby right now in your life. Maybe later down the line but I really would start using protection. Wait till the end of the month and see if it comes and if it doesn't take a pregnancy the proper way......Still don't get it then make an appointment with your OBGYN
Umm...where do i start? Well im tweleve and Im a male. I have a boy friend who is 12 too (and yes im gay.) I love the sex but I don't know if I should stop or not. And is it okay to be gay?
At 12 years old you are too young to be having sex, Also, While it is okay to be gay considering your age you are more than likely just going to a phase in life and are exploring your sexuality. The law of most states generally say in order to legally consent to sexual intercourse you have to be at least age 16. Seriously, Stop having sex. You are way to young for that and you don't want to fuck up your youth because some years down the line you could end up regretting what you are doing.