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Does she love me or Is she using me?


Question Posted Thursday October 20 2011, 12:32 pm

I've known this gal for 4 years...and we get along tremendously. We have kissed passionately many, many times and she lets me suck her boobs once a week.She always begins by yawning which is the sign she wants me to suck her boobs. I feel sometimes like she only wants me to give her pleasure & attention. Always wears provacative clothing,always smells nice. She will not touch me or give me any sexual pleasure...A friend of mine told me that he had gotten several sexual favors from her, but she won't accomodate me. She says she loves me, but I'm beginning to wonder. My friend says she has asked him to do anal sex and eat her pussy. She has given him 2 bloww jobs recently, but shows me absolutely no attention there. Runs like a frightened school girl. My friend is 55. I'm 60 and she's 40.

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DearAbby92 answered Friday October 21 2011, 12:37 am:
Why would you want to be with a woman who also does sexual activities with your friend? Do you think she is a loving, moral woman if she gives her body away to multiple men?

So obviously she does not love you. Her not offering you pleasure means she doesn't care about your feelings or needs, and just wants to be pleased.

She may just see you as a friend with benefits. She doesn't want a equal relationship.

If you want more, I would vocalize that to her. If not, it is what it is.

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Xui answered Thursday October 20 2011, 4:37 pm:
This women is using you for her sexual gratification, Her actions say that she isn't in love with you, She is love with the attention you give her. If someone where in love with you, They would respect you and show intimacy towards you in a respectful way. If you want someone that loves you for who you are then I would suggest looking for someone else, This women doesn't sound settled she gets pleasure out of messing around that's it.

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