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What are some things I could do to my boyfriend while we're making out? I don't want to do anything past first base at the moment, but is there anything I could do to turn him on while/instead of just kissing him? (link)
Move your hands around, grab on him, play with his hair, move your hand up his thigh (or up his arms if thigh is too scandalous--don't want to get him too excited). Basically just touch him. You can also do things like arching your back so your chest is closer to his.


i dont know how to zoom on my phone the zoom is on the screen but its not highlighted. i dont know how to make it highlighted does anyone know how to zoom on the verizon juke?
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Read your manual.


what does it mean when he says he still loves me but doesnt know what to do??
15/f (link)
Well..honestly...

Most guys say things like that when they want to end things in a "nice" way.


Hi, i haven't started my period yet, and i am really worried it's going to start in the middle of a school day, or even worse PE!!! I know to carry a pad with me, and i do, and i were thin panti-liners just incase, but i was wondering if there is any signs i may be starting soon? I have a feeling i might be starting soon, but i dont know whether it is just me being silly! Also i get a monthly discharge, just like a period, but it's not blood. I'm 13 (link)
You are being prepared, which is really good. If you get it, and you kinda feel it, you might have gotten it. If it feels extremely wettish down there, then chances are you could have gotten it. So then go to the bathroom. It wont just bleed through it right away. You need a big amount of it. But if your wearing pantiliners, you should totally be finee :). You are more likely (however not completely likely of courseee) to start your period at home, or in your sleep, which is what happened to me. You will probably get it soonish, so its good youre prepared.


What are some cute and funny ways to flirt with a guy.
I have this thing going on with this guy, and since we're always joking around each other and so on, then I want some tips.

Thanks! (link)
http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt-with-a-Guy
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_flirt_with_a_guy
http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/features/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy-yours (this ones for married people, but it has a few good ones!)

those are really good websites
have fun with your boy toyy ;)


youre not supposed to wash your hair everyday, but what if you exercise every day? (link)
the reason your not supposed to wash oyur hair everyday is to keep the healthy natural oils in it. but if you excersize, then you should because it puts on more oils, makin your hair oily. im reaaaally active, and if i didnt then that would be pretty gross. dove has a shampoo that keeps the natural oils in your hair, so you can try that! anywaaaaays if you do it before you go to bed, by the next morning youll get the oils back on your head, so i would deffinantly wash you hair.


i have a question about shaving your legs. my friend said that you shouldnt shave your legs till the hair turns black and i have blond hair on my legs but i am embrassed in gym class and summer is coming up so i was wondering if i should start shaving my legs now. also i shave my armpits and im 13. Thanx =) (link)
noo dont listen to her. it wont turn black UNLESS you shave it. the more you shave, the thicker and darker it gets. everybody's is blonde at first. :)


ok. i'm young. 14. and i have considered having sex with a boy that is a year older than me. he refuses to have sex without a condom. but i know even with it, it could break or whatever. i want to have sex with him. i feel ready. the only thing is i want to go on birth control, but my parent can't find out. 1-i live in a rndom place, the closest planned parenthood is pretty far. so where can i buy it. like wal-mart, walgreens ? what is a good kind that isn't that much. like i can pay like up to $40, maybe $50 a month for it. and do you need to have a doctor's ezam or whatever first ?
thank you so much for anyone that helps. :] (link)
You know those little girls running around pregnant? Don't let that be you. Any guy that refuses to use a condom is just a flat out dickhead. Specially a 15-year-old that probably thinks too highly of himself--which is usually the case when guys say that. But anyway, birth control isn't over the counter--you need a doctor.


I'm sitting at this table for prom and theres this one girl that hates me. she wanted me out of the table but i talked to the other people at the table and they said that i should stay.. so im gonna. but if that girl were to say something to me what should i say back? (link)
Don't be afraid to tell her that you're not going anywhere and if it bothers her that much then she can be the one to switch groups. Don't be mean to her but don't let her get to you. It's Prom and you should enjoy it--ignore if she tries to say anything but if she acts okay with it then be friendly towards her. goodluck :)


why do colleges waitlist people instead of just outright reject them? i know they accept more than apps they should just in case theres enough room and ppl decide to go to another school.. but like :( so is waitlist most likely a no? (link)
They do accept more applications than the amount of students they take but there are the students that might get accepted and theres the flat out nos. As the students that got in deny going to the said school, the students on the waiting list get accepted. It depends on how low you are on the waiting list because I've known many people who have gotten accepted after being wait-listed but it took a awhile to find out.


I'm going to prom for the very first time soon and I was wondering if you had any prom advice? Like any advice in general? I always hear girls talk about humiliating things that happen because they weren't well-prepared. I always hear, "Ohh i wish I did this" or "Oh i wish I had when I needed it..."

so to anyone who has had a prom experience, what advice can you give me? (link)
The answer below me is totally right. The less stressed out you are about it, the more you'll have fun. Things will go wrong but don't make anything into a big deal. I do want to tell you to bring safety pins though--just in case something happens to your dress lol. Ive seen many rip and if it happens, you'll want smoe safety pins. :)


what is the best rating you can get, what is the worst, and how do you give them one??????????? (link)
Read the FAQs--the "start here" at the top of the page.


im not really asking you a question but im 16 your hottttt and wanted to know if u have a bf. (link)
yeah


i bought this prom dress but i have 30 days to return it. i am not sure if i like it or not.

http://img404.imageshack.us/img404/7526/img4458yo3.jpg

that is a picture of me wearing it. do you think it is formal enough? does it even look good? please be honest. (link)
Honestly, everyone has different opinions and tastes when it comes to Prom dresses. There's a great diversity among them. It's a cute dress and you look good in it but if you're having doubts then return it. The dress you choose shouldn't make you double guess your decision. Although I personally like the dress, I probably wouldn't wear it to prom.


so im able to send and receive songs pics ect... if i buy the headset. (link)
Yes--I'm almost positive but I would ask them just to make sure. :)


how do u use bluetooth to get other songs on the juke cell (link)
If you mean like connecting to someones phone through bluetooth, I'm almost positive both Verizon and Sprint only allow you to use bluetooth if you buy the headset attachment. I believe they run around 50$


I'm getting a few facial piercings soon and I'm really excited! Piercings are so hot..okay anyways.

I want to get one on the right side of my lower lip, and one on my left eyebrow.

I have a question, though. I'm looking for a job, and most places don't like facial piercings, but once you get something pierced, it has to stay in for like 6 months for the hole to heal. I heard of putting a small circular bandaid over the piercings. Would that work? If it won't, then how would I hide it or whatever?

Also, how badly does it hurt?

Thanks! (link)
Many places will ask you to take it out and yes, you might be judged by whoever interviews you. What you want to do is get a spacer (or retainer--whatever you call them). It's clear and not very noticeable. I doubt you can use one right away though so you might want to wait until you secure a job before getting the piercings. You can do the bandaid thing but it might be obvious.


for whatever reason i have a bunch of plain hanes white t shirts that are a little big, but should be tight with one wash

anyways im looking for some good things to do with them/good ways to wear them

if theres a cheap way i could tie dye them with like things around the house

or how to cut them into an off the shoulder shirt

anything would be appreciated! (link)
For one you can make a cut straight down from the center of the neck line. Make it about 5 inches--or however long you see fit. Layer it with a tank top. It'll look great.


I'm 15, and my bestfriend is turning 15 next month. I've decided to make her a cute little book from this company that will publish it for me to make it look liek a real book. I'm bascily writing the story of how we became friends and how we're still friends since grade schoool. What I wanted to know was what would be a cute title for this book? I was thinking something along the lines of :
How We Became Friends
Bestfriends
Our Journy as Bestfriends

But all of these seem so boring and corny! Can someone more creative then myself help me out please? haha THANKS. (link)
i'm a writer so i tend to go to a another place when it comes to things like this. i don't know details of this book or the depth of your friendship, but here are some ideas...

when life was easy
from then to now
before yesterday... and after today
imagine: where were we eight years ago today?

these probably aren't that good, but run with whatever you choose on here or off. its nice what you're doing. cool.


I have this friend who says that he likes me and he wants our relationship to move forward. He's a good guy and I do like him, but I am in a complicated long-distance relationship. We decided to try to have an open relationship, but I know he hasn't been with any other female because he's not like that. He's a one woman's guy and I respect that a lot and me... I want to be with just him. I should've known this distance thing would eventually catch up to me. Now, I'm stuck trying to figure if I should just tell this friend "I can't", "no" or if I should give it a try. We really like each other, but somehow I still feel like I'd be cheating eventhough I was told it was alright. I just don't know what to do.

18/f
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i wanted to make something clear - the guy from ny that i have a long distance relationship with, i know him very well and its not like we just met online. where that came from in the last advice answer, i don't know. but its nothing like that. we really do like each other so mauch, we just live in different places. for the friend, i know him good enough, but him i don't know as well as the other but we're here together. i don't want someone where we're contanstly around each other, but i want to see him often. thats my problem. maybe its big - maybe its little, but thats it.




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