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Hey my names kayla and im 14 years 0ld...i will answer any questi0n y0u ask me because chances are im g0ing/went thr0ugh s0mething similar. i have realized that i am best at giving advice t0 pe0ple 0n what t0 say t0 0thers 0n a given situati0n. If theres ever s0mething urgent y0u need t0 ask me feel free t0 im me 0n xoredskittleox...if y0u have any pr0blems regarding my advice...like s0mething i might have said that 0ffended y0u 0r anything like that.
Much0 l0ve
Kayla
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14/f...my friend told me that she was going away this weekend so i didnt invite her over..bu then i saw her profile on AIM and it said she was at her other friends house..so basically she lied to me and i now i dont know what to do..i am afraid to ask her about it..and i really dont want to..=/

Hey well evidently you dont know the whole story...maybe she went to boston for some of the day and her friend's house afterward. Or maybe her friend called her and she decided she didnt want to go to boston and stayed w/ her friend...you can ask her about it but she might get mad because i mean you didnt invite her over so she kinda has the right to go somewhere else...


also...if you do talk to her if shes a good friend she will understand why you feel that way...tell her you feel bad that she lied to you and hopefully everything will just be a misunderstanding...

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Im not yet either but Im scareed I will become. Earlier this night i tried to make myself throw up. Im 14 5'1 and wiegh about 103. Most people think Im crazy because I think Im fatter than most people, but I do. How can I overcome this feeling, and actions. I know that if i become either it will be very hard to stop. please! I need help very bad! Im not afraid to admit it. so please if you read this, answer my question! please!

♥ scared

talk to a doctor about it and get help before it gets serious...your lucky your catching it ahead of time..

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Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..

Chris or Steven??

well i would have to say go out with chris...maybe your friends have different oppinions than me because they know both of the boys...but this is the reason for my descision...going out with your ex is always a bad idea...especially if you went out with him 6 times and it never worked out..7 times isnt gonna help anything either...give chris a chance...you've never went out with him so go for it...

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How do u get a girl to kiss you? Or find out if she wants you to kiss her? or let her know that u want her to kiss you or be kissed by u?

Thnx 4 da help!

look her in the eyes and if the moment is right you will both naturally go for it...its like magnets i guess you would say...well thats wut its like for me when i kiss a guy...i like it when they randomly kiss me without saying anything..

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Okay I really love to swim and cheelead but next year I will be a freshman and I will need to chose.. I love both.. but which one would be better for me?? I am 14 and I have a pretty busy life.. my sister is also a cheerleader and she quit swimming.. plz help me out.. but now i got to go to 7th hour in school.. thank you..

Kaydee

well ask her if shes happy about her descision to quit swimming for cheerleading...maybe that will help you out with yours...ask if she has any regrets...

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ok i want to hook up with my one friends cousin.. hes hot.. but he thinks hes ugly.. he has a girlfriend but he seems pretty interested in meeting me.. but im afraid of what hell think when he sees me.. i mean if hes hot and thinks hes ugly what will he think of me? im not very confident with my looks.. and i really want him to like me.. how do i get him to like me and think im hot?

hey,
everyone thinks their ugly...i think im ugly but people tell me im pretty all the time...i still dont believe them but w.e if you think hes interested in meeting you then without he most certainly is...or atleast he might be l0l. You wanna know the most successful way to get him to like you...BE YOURSELf...i mean you would rather be loved for who you are then someone your not...right?
hope i helped...and everythin works out
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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ok ive had a crush on this guy since school started and we were working on a project togetherand he is always trying to comfort me when im crying and crap.but he was ticking me off so i freaked out and said why do you hate me soo much and he said i dont hate you im tying to help you improve and ive had some bad runin with guys and i wasnt having a good day and having a lot of memories and i toatally freaked out and said you dont want to help me you just want to hurt me.h thinks im a toatal freak what can i do to make him like me again?

hey...just be like...o my gosh i am soo soo sorry i totally flipped out on you back there...i was having a bad day and i couldnt hold it all in any more...well thats what i would say...hope it helps!
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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I'm 15/f, and I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been kissed either. I wouldn't say I'm ugly. Everyone tells me I'm really pretty. I really want a boyfriend, but I'm kind of shy. How do I get a guy to like me.. and then make him feel comfortable enough to ask me out? Basically, my question is, how do I get a boyfriend??

heyy
first of all it is not unusual that you are 15 and never been kissed...everyone has there time...and to tell you the truth it isnt anything special...believe me...dont get yourself worked up about it...i had my first kiss when i was in 3rd grade...i was a little rebel and it was the fourth of july and i threw this kid on the ground and kissed him...i was a tomboy so that was how i showed my effection..well theres a little background information for ya...it doesnt sound too romantic huh? ok well i dont know how to explain how to get a boyfriend....well this is what i do...i go through my school pictures and i find a boy i find appealing or one that catches my eye...i get his screen name and then i im him...when you im him you say somethin like "hey your on my buddy list but i dont rele know who u are who is this?" and they will tell you and then you will get into this whole convorsation....it works pretty good...as long as you dont make a fool of urself and stuff you will get to know eachother and he might just end up liking you...
i hope i answered ur questions...
if you need nethin write bak to my column
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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ok so the kid i like just came online. and my friend was talking to him, telling him to go out with me, and its like he wont listen. why do u think hes doing that?

hey
well i hate to say this but maybe he doesnt feel the same way...or maybe he does like you but he doesnt exactly like to show how he feels...thats the only reasons i could think of...
mucho love...
kayla xoxo

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does anyone know any good products or home remedies to get rid of dark circles?? thanks... i rate high

hey,
you cant really get rid of them but you can cover them up...put like a foundation where they are...thats what i do and it works fine...also try to get more sleep that definitly helps...
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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ok. theres this boy in my 2nd block class and i have never talked to him before, although i think hes waay hott. sometimes whenever the teacher says something funny or they play some weird music on the bulletin, we always turn around and look at each other and laugh. its like we have known each other for a long time and we're friends...but we have never talked before! The other night I dreamt that he talked to me and the next day he actually did talk to me for the first time! i joined in on the conversation he was having with my friend. he didn't say much to me, because I hadn't said very much, but it was a start. i don't know why though me and him look at each other a lot! and we laugh too! we don't even know each other, hes a complete stranger to me, but when he do that and look n laugh, i feel like i've known him forever! my friends think he likes me...is that even possible? i'm terribly sorry this is soo long! i'll rate VERY good i promise! sorry again!

~ Wondering if there's a "connection" ~

Hey!!
He might like you...if he doesnt know you and he looks back and stuff...hes definitly interested...and if you two ever really do hook up then you would definitly hit it off cuz your so comfortable around him...like you said you seem like you've known him forever...thats awsome!! theres deffinitly somewhat of a connection...keep up this whole smiling and laughing thing and try to talk to him more...
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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well there is this guy...he tells me that he likes me but he always uses the excuse "i dont want a girlfriend right now" i really like him and i have for 2 years now...am i suppose to just forget about him? i dont know what to do i could really use some help...thanks

hey..well obviously you need to find another guy...he doesnt seem worth your time...i think he is definitly using it as an excuse...maybe he has commitment issues...you cant just forget about him...thats gonna be really difficult...your gonna just try to get by w/o him and wait till you find someone *special* l0l
mucho love...~kayla xoxo

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my best friend has done "things" with a guy that i never thought she would do i mean shes only 14 and i have known her for about 8 years and she has never done anyhting like this before...i know its like none of my buisness to what she does but i just dont know what to say to her or what to think of her anymore...what do i do???

It is sortof your buisness and sortof not...like...im sure you wouldnt want someone critisising you about how easy you are and stuff..you can have a talk with her about how you think it isnt right...make sure you tell her you arent trying to tell her what to do your just suggesting she settles down a bit...hope i helped...mucho love~kayla

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Me & my boyfriend have been going out for 4 beautiful months. Neither of us have ever kissed anyone before, not even each other. We're both too scared to make the move but I really want to kiss him. I'm really shy so how do I let him know I want to without seeming too obvious. I don't want to make a fool of myself. Please give me some advice on how to overcome that fear.

heyy...kissing isnt that much of a big deal..you should definitly go for it and once you do you will be liek "i was fretting over that?!!?" l0l its really not that bad...hehe i wish you two the best of luck...mucho love...kayla xoxo

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I really really really want a plain white hoodie...but i can't find one! it has to have the big pocket at the bottom and also a hood with drawstrings. it has to be PLAIN WHITE! i have checked all the websites i can think of...but i cant find it! please! if you know where i can fing one...please tell me! thanks!

you can probably get one at old navy??

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ok well there's this guy and he likes me and 3 of my other friends and he's obsessed w/ me and i don't mean to sound conceited but its so annoying and all he talks to me about is how hot i am and one of his favorite lines to say online is "you love me wut?" and he always does this and he's always like "i want you hardcore on the bathroom in the shower" and stuff like that and its really sickening and i want him to stop..but i mean he's one of my friends..and i hate when he does that..and he's just the most annoying person ever..and i'm sick of him saying that stuff..but i don't know how to say it..how should i tell him that he's so annoying and i want him to stop saying that kind of stuff to me..?

i hate it when guys do that...they think they can say anything to you and get away with it...next time he says somethin be liek...'no offense but i dont liek you sayin stuff like that to me it creaps me out..." be totally honest with him...be liek "im your friend and everythin but thats just weird..." it may sound like really brutal but if you want him to stop...u might have no other choices...good luck...keep in touch...mucho love ~kayla

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i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14?

if you dont have a straight answer about wether or not you want to have sex with him or not then you are obviously not ready...i dont think its a good idea to get involved with stuff liek that when your only 14...
hope i helped
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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ok.... my "so called friends" r blaming me for an email that I didnt write but they wont belive me. they were calling me names and crap then they wrot me emails that were really mean.. Everyone wants out of this expect the ppl blaming me!! so i have ICQ then this girl of me so called friens was cussing me out!!! then on the bus they were throwing paper at me now they really hate me... and the worst thin about the fight is that one of my friends r my science lab parenter!!!!! then she acts liked everything is ok but it is not

what should i do

i rate 5's!!!

signed
confused

confront them one by one when they are alone and be liek " hey i dont know why you would think that i wrote those emails but trust me i didnt" dont talk to them when they are all together or they wont take you seriously
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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Hi! I'm having thoughts about marriage, I'm a 19/f btw. I recently viewed the film, Romeo and Juliet and was wondering on what other people's opinions are. Do you think Romeo and Juliet got married too soon? Why or why not? I'd like to talk to someone about this. I gove good ratings. Thank you in advance. =)

i think that everything happened too quickly for both of them to realize right from wrong...i do think they where both too young...i mean think about the ending they both ended up dead..but it is a shakspere play so what can we expect...but dont base your thoughts on marriage on a movie...
hope i helped
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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what can i say beside "sorry" to make my friend forgive me for lying to him??? can some one help me please???? i really need to talk to him again but he will not listen to me and he will not even look at me any more!!! i cant take it!!! i really want him back as a friend!!!! thanks to anyone that can help me! and see i didnt mean to lie to him thanks anyway!

well why did you lie to him?? tell him you made a big mistake and you feel horrible about it and you never meant to hurt him...or something like that...most of all tell him oyu miss him as a friend and you want things back to the way they where...
hope i helped
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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