im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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16/f my boyfriend of 1 and a half years is 17. My boyfriend gets grounded for the most stupid things ever. for even having an opinion on anything. I am so sick and tired of him being grounded. we never get to hang out. well last week he was ungrounded. (shock!) and wednesday i went over to the house that he stays at throughout the week. after school, he called his dad to check in with him. I could hear their convo. his dad said you need to get your stuff done and he said he would after he ate dinner. then yesterday my boyfriend gets grounded because his dad said he came home on tuesday and his stuff wasnt done. when his dad said wednesday to get it done after he ate! ughh it just makes me so mad that he is always always grounded and i have to go all weekend and not even speak to him. last wendsay was the first time weve even gotten to see eachother outside of school in nearly two months. he has tried talking to his dad but it just makes his dad even more mad and he grounds him for longer. what can he do to make his dad chill out a little. my boyfried turns eighteen in four months he is almost an adualt and he still gets grounded so frequently its insane. (link)
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ok well then if his dad is a bad influence then he can report him and move out now. theres nothing he can really do. like i said if thats the way his dad is then thats the way he is. if his dad wont let him get a job thats dumb but if its just because he doesnt have a car to get to his job tell him he can take a bus. its not fair yes but what can you do for now until wait for him to turn 18 and maybe he can move in with a friend or you. or with another relative.
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I really need to know because I am having some problems down there! If I am a virgin can I have an STD? Is there any way at all? I have had oral sex and given oral sex and anal sex and I have been fingered but you can only get STDs from losing your virginity and having sex in your vagina right? (link)
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wrong. if someone was eating you out and had like a cold sore that is a type of STD. you get it through there and if the guy has an STD on his penis and you give him head you can get an STD. you can get if from anal too.
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I was dating this guy for like 3 and a half years, we broke up but still hung out all of the time, still had sex, the whole thing. We basically broke up because of money I was raised rich and he was raised poor he doesnt work but he gets disability income meanwhile i believe in working im in college and have always seen myself becoming well off like my parents. but we broke up because i was no longer willing to help support him, so he's moving back home to the west coast next week. And now I'm so confused. Now I'll have the chance to work and save my money, spend it on myself, not have to worry about him- but im devistated. If I had my way I'd drop everything put school on hold and move with him, which would devistate my family and I'm pretty sure I'd never be well off. I don't know what to do I know that if we were to get back together we'd have the same stupid money fights, but if i can accept and make peace with the fact that we will never be rich together it would hopefully make the fights less frequent. Is it dumb to throw away oppurtunity for love? I see myself graduating and going over to be with him later in life but I can't even imagine life without him at this point. But I'm 22 I'm not old but I'm not that young anymore and I feel like I need to hurry up and decide what to do with my life. So... now what. (link)
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you already know the answer to your question. life is hard as it is with money you need to think for yourself if your boyfriend wont get a job then thats his problem. you want a house someday i suggest you stay in school get a job and live your life hell still be at his parents house so no worries you can go back to him then, but i would think you want someone who would supposrt you as well and you deserve everything tell him he needs to get a job or you and him wont be together. as always its easier said then done. you guys have major history i bet. at the end of the day though u should think of your self and how you want to end out. rich or poor.
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I have rewritten this over and over again, re-read and re-read trying to add in every bit of detail to make the story clear and try to answer any questions about whats going on. I know it's long, but please bear with me as I feel its important in knowing exactly how everything plays in.
Pretense:
I guess you can say my story begins as a typical relationship, but things really turn strange. It started two years ago, the summer before my senior year of high school. I met the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. She had a boyfriend that shes been dating for two years so I figured I didn't have a chance in hell. She even thought I was annoying, but I persisted in trying to get close to her. One day she broke up with her boyfriend, and there I was. Really out of nowhere we started to date, and I was in love. Things moved pretty fast, constant texting, hanging around each other all the time and calling each other every night. After about a month or so though, she ended it with me and she got back together with her ex. I felt sick to my stomach.
Lucky for me her bf is crazy possessive, and eventually pushed her away again. I love her so much I took her back. For about a year we grew together and became best friends. However as our love grew, so did my jealousy and insecurity, and my fear of losing her. We were dating, everyone knew it, we did everything too had the most amazing sex, but we never had a title. And that was one thing I always fought about, her argument was we were already together so what was the point, just a name? I loved her too much to continue to argue, so I was okay with it. During our relationship she was still talking to her ex, never hooked up with him or anything, but always remained in contact. One day she left her phone unattended, and I saw his number and saved it to my phone. I didn't know exactly what I was thinking or what I would do with this number, but it would later prove to be my waterloo in the fight for her heart.
College: Early September, everything goes wrong. We both got accepted to ucf. Over the summer before we moved up she said she wants more space, and wanted to be alone during college. I was worried at first because I wouldn't be living on campus, but she would. And so would her ex, right near her. She was still close to me though and was always around, so my fears slowly slipped away. But then we moved in. I got a run down apartment off campus, it smelled like mold and had roaches galore. I was broke, home sick, and miserable. I grew desperate, and wanted to cling more to the only person I knew up in college with me. She however, was hanging out with her good friend/roomate at the time, and some big black kid that lived on her floor. He had helped her moved in and they were hanging out a lot. I wanted to hang out with her but she insisted she needed her space. Days went by and I didn't see her. My classes were all online, and I was in my room by myself all day. My thoughts and dreams haunted me. I had to call her. I kept calling her, and each time she never answered. She was out hanging out with her new friends, while I was home alone missing her, driving myself crazy. I dunno why I did, but I took her exes number and called him. I asked him for advice? I dunno why, it was the stupidest thing I've ever done. It only made me seem more crazy, and shocked her how I got his number. I told her, and she just couldnt trust me anymore. So here's where the strange part comes in. Long story short, her mom eventually called me and asked that I stop bothering her. At that point I realized how alone I really was when the girl I cared for most asked her mom to tell me to leave her alone. I told my buddy who went to a different school about what was going on, and like a "great" friend decided to play a joke on me. He had our other friend text me and say to leave her alone, shes texting me saying your harrassing her. I freaked. Of course this was untrue, but I panicked nonetheless. So I called her mom back and promised her I would leave her daughter alone if she could please tell her daughter to stop telling my friends Im a stalker. I realized I had been acting really irrational, and wanted to put an end to the madness before things got out of hand. But unsuspectadley...things did go out of hand, in the worst way possible.
The police involvement: That same day after speaking with her mother, I went to a restaurant on campus with an old high school friend. I didn't hang out with them much, but I figure since Im on my own now its best I start making new relationships. Well, remember that big black kid that was helping my "ex" move in? He appears at the restaurant with his buddy, and they approach my table. I have to add that I was online earlier on instant messenger and put where I was as my away message, which ill explain why its important later. So this kid storms up to my table ready to fight and says "why the F*** are you talking shit about me to *******'s mom??" I said to him "woah, are you crazy?? I don't even know who you are I didn't say anything about you I was talking about someone else" He said "bullshit i'll kick your ass" And I said "f*** you psycho" and as i turned away to ignore him and pick up my hamburger out of nowhere he decks me in the face. I was stunned. Everyone in the restaurant was watching at this point. I got up, but my friend that I was with insisted I call the cops. The black kid teased me and said "yea call the cops bitch!" and walked out. So I did, I called the cops. They come, ask what happened, and asked why this person I did not know hit me. I told him he was friends with my ex, and that they might have known I was at the restaurant because of my away message on the instant messenger. I give the report, and I go about my way. About 30 minutes later I get a phone call from the police asking me to go to the station, the story apparently is more complicated. So I arrive and from there on I quickly turn from the victim to the criminal. The police told me they had the kid who hit me in custody, but now I was in trouble. They had with them cell phone records and all the emails I had been sending my ex, and they were now ready to press harrassment charges against me. I was so shocked. They said they went to question her about why that kid came, and apparently she turned it around on me and wanted to file a harrassment complaint. By the end of the day, I was told that if I ever make contact with her or any of her friends or family I'd be arrested. My world fell apart and my heart sank to a low I couldn't describe.
September passes...the longest month of my life. I never really dreamt before, but everynight was a nightmare. I couldn't sleep.
October comes, I had already deleted her number and everything out of fear of being arrested, but I still had her as a buddy on aol instant messenger. I think we were both afraid to talk to eachother, because she began to communicate to me...through away messages. We begin by saying how sorry we are for everything. Long story short, after weeks of this weird communication, we agree to meet. It started with lunch, and before you know it I was sleeping over her dorm and we were having sex. No one knew we were seeing each other, it had to be secret. This part of my memory is quite fuzzy, because after that we began to fight again. And literally a week later she was dating that ex of hers. I was shocked. Apparently, during that month after the incident she found comfort in being with him. And apparently he was being an ass again and she decided to see me again. Seeing me only lasted a week, and then it was back to her not making any contact with me, and she was back with her ex.
October passes...as does November, December...January..all the way through April. Each day I fill my heart with more hate, my eyes with more tears, and my mouth with more alcohol. I tried to occupy myself, and get over this bitter situation. Just drop it I kept telling myself, its over, she screwed you over so hard. So I drank, and hung out with trashy people. I could tell myself I was having fun...but every night I put my head on that pillow, and my thoughts would haunt me. Everyday I missed her, wondered about what she was doing. I still loved her. I was miserable. I hated everybody and everything. Months went by and I never heard from her. I was nearly failing school. During a lot of this time I had been going to counseling. It helped somewhat, but the answers I was getting didn't seem to help. Everyday I grew more hateful, and more miserable. To say the least, I was not myself anymore and I turned into a completely different person. Anxiety attacks were constant, and I was in a constant state of panick. I really didn't know how I could ever survive. I hadn't had a good day for as long as I could remember. It was the worst I had ever felt, and was losing the will to live.
So sometime earlier this year we make contact again. I don't really remember how, but apparently she had been dating the same kid all year and had eventually broke up with him. She still didn't want to see me, but slowly but surely we started talking. The summer went on and we were like peas and carrots again. She moved back home for the summer while I remained in school. We talked all the time, and things were going great. This fall semester started and we were with each other 24/7, sleeping over each others houses. I was the happiest I had ever been.
My current dilemma: Last week, I made a huge mistake. She wanted me to help her with something on her computer, so while she showered, I worked on her computer. I finished early, and while I was sitting there I couldn't help but notice something. I don't know how I stumbled upon this document, but it was a conversation between her and her ex. I read it, then closed it. I made no mention of it. That night I slept over her place, and then later the next day while at work she texted me asking to be honest with her and asked had I gone through her computer. I panicked. I knew what was coming. I told her no. She said thats funny, under recently viewed documents something here was opened that I know I didnt open. So I told her. And then she cut me off. She said I'd never change, it was just like how I took his number out of her phone. I was really miserable, and my anxiety was driving me crazier than ever. How could I fuck up what I tried so hard to fix?? Our relationship was already so fragile because of our past. A couple days later she starts talking to me again. We take it slow, no more sleeping over of course. We go to the gym, and she even comes over to my house for dinner. I had to go home this past weekend to get my car ( I had none for the past month ) so she drove me to the bus station. I talked to her online that night while I was home, and then said goodnight. The next day we were talking and I made mention of how tired I was. And she said what time did you go to bed last night? I said right after you did. I wasn't really thinking about exactly what happened because I was wrong. She said I was full of shit because she went on later on and saw I was online. I was still online for a bit longer but didnt really remember. To me this was no big deal, but she called me a compulsive liar. She ignores me again. The next day I'm on the phone with her and talk about plans of going to disney world, I had already gotten tickets. She said thats not a good idea. And I kinda freaked and said why not?? We had been planning this for a long time. At this point she didnt even want to speak to me and said ill talk to you later and hung up. A couple hours later I texted her...no response. I texted twice more and still no response. The next day I made no attempt to contact her. Today comes...I drive back up to school, I text her. Still no response. I texted again and said I need my parking decal because it was in her car. She finally responded and said shed leave it at the front office of my apartment building. So she did. No conversation, she doesnt want to talk.
So this is me now. I find myself in desperation, looking for any sign that things will be alright. My anxiety is keeping me up all night and all I want is for her to know how sorry I am, and how much I regret going through her computer. I don't want her to not trust me. I care so much for her. If only she could know how sorry I am and how much I want to correct the wrongs I've made. I fear I may have lost her again and it will kill me if this happens again. I can't go on another year beating up on myself, being alone, being miserable. At this moment I am the most miserable I have ever been, more so before because I was given a chance at redemption, and I ruined it. I don't know what to do. I want her in my life so badly. I ask you out of desperation for help, I never meant to hurt her. What do I do?
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well its always easier said then done. but im saying that looking at the situation she is just flinging you around as she pleases and in truth she cant be trusted if shes with you why is she still talking to her ex? on the other hand looking through poeoples stuff is wrong. you either have to wait for her to talk to you or move on this situation is screwed up so much who knows if itll be ok. youll always fight over the same thing everytime and obviously you guys have. it would be healthy to end it and maybe move. now if someone were to tell me this id tell them they have no idea what they are talking about take your time and let her talk to you first.
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i'm 14 years old female. i had sex with my boyfriend 4 days after my period we did it with a condom then i gave him a hand job and about a hour later we did it a little without a condom and he didn't cum in my though. is there still a chance i can get pregnant from when he cumed before the 2nd time? (link)
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listen chill out you will be fine. this time but next time you should prob find a way to get on birthcontrol and always use a condom when your going to have sex without birthcontrol i would guess that the thrill of haveing sex without a condom is great but in the end is worth geting pregnant over do you want to go to school hang with frieds when you want and party and sleep in and not have to get a job.
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I'm 15 and have recently found out that I'm pregnant the guy wants nothing to do with it and i've been really stressed out about it, people keep saying you can hit yourself in the stomach and make yourself miscarriage is this true ? and what are the symptoms of miscarriage.. thank you (link)
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excuse me but i dont think that is the greatest idea in the world you need to right away go to ur parent or to planned parent hood and talk to them about it. i think hitting yourself in the stomache is NOT a good idea you could not only hurt the baby but you in a serious way. so go to some adult now.
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Okay I currently have a boyfriend. Juts to make that clear. Last night I hung out wit one of my guy friends josh till like really late, n I ended up passign out on his bed and I woke up wrapped in my own blanket up wit him passed out 2.he woke up and grabbed some of the covers and right then his sister walked in. His sister goes to my school and everyone in the house assumes that we did something but nothing happened at all, I just fell asleep. I feel really guilty that I stayed the night considering I do have a boyfriend and I know he would be pissed if he found out. Did I do something wrong and should I feel guilty. It was like 4 in the morning when I passed out and I left at 8. I know I should have left but since nothing happened and we really stayed away from each other until he needed covers did I do something wrong and should I feel as guilty as I do (link)
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well you did nothing so your guilt there is nothing. BUT, you are feeling guilty beacuse you knew it was wrong. not that what you did is wrong you know but that if your boyfriend found out he would be very mad of some sort and if he did that you would be mad but hopes that if you do tell him you would be understanding. you just dont like the idea of what hapend and i know keeping secrets from your boyfriend is hard. thats why i cant lol its to hard for me. but it was an acciedent of what happend you didnt do anything so whats the deal.
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I know Valentines Day is still a couple of weeks away, but I've got no idea what to get my boyfriend.
We've been together for almost 4 years so I want to get him something special/romantic but I really suck at gift buying.
I would be greatful for any ideas!! :)
Thanks, Sarah (link)
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hello! well heres what you do buy a bucket of cookie dough and make it so its in the shape of a heart. when its done cooking put his name on it with frosting. my mom does that for me every year and i do it for my boyfriend he loves it lol if you want him to have another thing make or buy him a cd or get him a hollister shirt with a card.
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so last night i was at a party, and i ended up hooking up with this kid..we were both kind of drunk, him more so than me. i drove him home after, and we had some fun in the car. The only problem is, he has a girlfriend that he has been dating for over a year. He called me last night and we talked for like 2 hours, and he wants to continue hanging out and doing things, but wants to keep it a secret. is it bad to be that other girl? i do like him and we hooked up a few times in the past before his girlfriend, and he is very sweet and charming, but i dont know if i want to risk being that other girl, and having his girlfriend find out. what should i do? (link)
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i think this is a bad idea its disrespecting the other girl too. if you cared at all you would say that he needs to break up with his girlfriend before you guys do anything and if he would do this to you when you guys eventually go out if you ever do hes going to do the same thing. and even if he does break up with his girlfriend hes not going to want to be with you. so its a bad idea.
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Okay i have a boyfriend but i like these 2 guys an dthey like me and im just confused and i dont know what 2 do should i stay with my boyfriend or pick one of the new guys (link)
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okay i dont know much of your situation but if i were you i would sit and think what does your boyfriend have that this other guy doesnt and other way around. who do you like more is my question. it shouldnt matter if its becaause who ever looks better or not its their personallaty. its all up to you.
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hii i'm 18 and a girl. okay so me and my mom dont get along. recently we got in a huge argument. it all started because she says im addicted to texting and bcuz of it im out of it. its true but i mean whats the problem? i dont go out or bring friends over or party im always home so why not text with friends. its stupid and when i ask her to give me a ride to chill with people she never is happy to do it so why does she bitch if i text with friends. so yeah she disconnected my phone and today in the morning she woke me up bitching at me and my lil sis pissed me off so i was a jerk to her then my mom came in the bathroom yelling at me and said that i could leave the house. so then i slamed the door in her face. she opened with the key and starting slapping me i was crying so hard and almost hit her back. i dont feel like apologizing shes been an unfair bitch to me. because my 20 yr old sis always goes out and my 12 yr sis too. she brings people home party's downstairs and goes out way more then me! but at the same time i want my phone back. help! should i apologize even though i dont want to? and if so how? shes not talking to me either. i stay in my room all day. and can the relationship with my mom get any better someday? it seems like we will never understand each other... (link)
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its your choice honostly i used to say sorry to things all the time so that they wouldnt be mad at me anymore and i could get what i want and then i was done with it and i never said sorry for what i thought i didnt need to say sorry to. and they (meaning my stepmother) never forgave me for never saying sorry for one thing i was done i thought it was unfair and it wouldnt happen my mom always said to pick and choose your battles and if getting a relationship with your mom is one than you need to say sorry talk it out tell her what you feel. or you can get a job and pay for your own phone honostly id go with pay as you go with the plan you have b.c with verizon you can put a 10 dollar payment for unlimited texting to verizon people and your money last forever. same probally goes with other networks.
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Okay, so me and my boyfriend of 3 months got really into it.. Like he is my first, fingering, eating me out, and hand job and almost sex. Well he came over the other day cause i was home alone we did all that like almost naked, im 14. and he's 16 i am thinking about having sex with him? Should I? I like doing that stuff, im kinda a freak in the bed sorta say, but i just dont want it too hurt. I could care less about being called a hoe cause no one would find out. I just want yall opinion. (link)
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in the long run no matter what anyone tells you your going to do what you want to do but im telling you now that if you go through this with a guy that you have known for only a lil while you might regret it your next boyfriend or w.e you might fall in love with and he prob will find that you would want to loose your virgintiy to the first guy you see is sad. i say save it for someone you love im glad i did i almost did it with one boyfriend when i was 14 and i have to say even that almost made me sad and regret it. but its your choice. i say dont do it. and stick with the little things now.
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I found out today that my ex-boyfriend from a couple years ago was invited to the same small new year's party as me. I haven't been able to stand being around him since we broke up, and every time I'm in a room with him, we end up fighting. I would love to hear anyone's suggestions as to how I can work through these bad emotions. I really don't want my new year's eve to be ruined by negative feelings for one person. I get really worked up every time I even think about being around him, though. How can I stay calm? (link)
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well just think how embarrasing it would be when everyone around you would be hearing you guys fight. or you could not go to the party. or you could stay only around your friends and if you see him ignore him you dont have to go up to him to say anything dont even stare at him long enough becasue if he is the type where you look at him he will start the fight and say it was your fault beacase you were looking at him. just keep distracting yourself tell your friends to help you out.
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This may be in the wrong category. I wasnt sure which to put it in.
So here is my problem. My friend is 19 and she is married with a one year old girl. Her husband is a total jerk. He is abusive toward her and in fact, he was arrested last week for almost killing her. (Accidently) He was bailed but he will be going back after court. We cant convince her to leave him, but we are hoping she will come to realization when he is gone.
Thats not the problem. The problem is she is not a good mother and this poor baby lives in this horrible and dangerous environment. I really want to call Child Services (or whatever its called) and keep it annonymous. But if she finds out, her and many more people will give me such a hard time with it and she may pass inspections. If I call anonymously will it be kept annonymously or is there a chance I will be found out? What do you think I should do? (link)
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i think you should keep out of that whole situation it has nothing to do with you and unless the baby is in poor condiotions as in doesnt have a bed doesnt get fed and is abused itself then you should call other than that dont. it really has nothing to do with you and if you were in that situation would you like one more thing to go wrong in your life. its her child and taking that away from someone can mess them up for life.
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Im 14/f. So, everytime I shave down there I always get like razor burn or little red bumps. Ive tried shaving in a diffrent direction, just water, soap and water, shaving cream. But it still happens, do any girls know a way to make it stop doing that? (link)
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try not going to hard or wait like a week or till its really grwon maybe u need anew razor.
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Hey! I woke up like a week ago and my boobs hurt. They hurt a lot! This is almost a week later and my boobs still hurt. What does this mean? Do I have cancer? :'( (link)
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mine hurt a week before and during the week i get my period thats a huge possibility
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Okay well a few weeks ago I snuck out. And I got caught, and punished. About a week after, I snuck out again, and got caught and punished. I had my parents convinced that I wasn't like that, and that I wanted to change. But a couple nights ago, I snuck out.. and got caught. I am being badly punished now.. and I don't even think my parents like me now. I have no idea what to do, I need their trust! please help.. (link)
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so lets put it in a way you will understand better. your bestfriend or your parents told you a lie. promiced to never lie again to you but the next day they lied about the same thing. then they promcied they wouldnt do it again then the next day they lied agian. how are you supposed to feel when someone you love or trust with everything lies to you not once or twice but three times about the same thing. its hard to trust someone after that. it will take a lot of time to earn your parents full trust back but they will always be paranoid that your lying and may not let you go out or do whatever. theres really nothing you can say or do to make their trust for you to happen in a week or a couple of months. im sorry you got caught.
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ill just get right to the point ......... how do you do the best bj to your boyfriend cause hes saying i need to buy a book about it!
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hes a jerk. u cant do it wrong or bad dont bite thats all. id youtube it watch a video on someone practicing on a dildo its funny but helpful
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Hey ,
Okay I was watching a video on msn.com right , and then it automatically or maybe I pushed a button , but my writing is double the times biggere then it was... how do I fix this?
Thank you ,
Betty (link)
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if you have a PC in the bottom right hand corner there is something that says like 100% or 175% maybe how ever big u made them just click it make it 100% then your good if you have a mac i totally forget you have to play around or google.
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My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me last week. At first it was almost unbearable and I was a total wreck. But the second day I knew I had to talk to him, so I did. The number one reason he broke up with me is because he said that his love for me had disappeared. He was in love with me at one point, but somehow he just doesn't feel that way anymore. He just sees me as a friend. This part I understand.
BUT i don't understand what he means by me not "really acting like a girlfriend". I mean, I would try to. I kissed him in public, hugged him, told him I loved him, made him gifts, held his hand, and spent most of my time with him. I thought I was doing an okay job, but apparently he says that I'm "not capable of having a relationship". But he says that he doesn't want me to change for him. But I'm still wondering what he meant. Any ideas? :/
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wow as far as im concerned u sound like an okay girlfriend too. im my boyfriends best friend thats how our relationship works i tell him everything share everything laugh and joke around we play fight like wrestling go to the mall sometimes go out to eat to the movies watch movies at home bake cookies and stuff like bonding. im sure you have done all of that im just showing examples. but everyone does it except we do do some stuff that people would find weird mind you i have been going out with him for almost 2 years so im pretty comfy with him. your guy was just an ass you so deserve more he doesnt really know what he wants yet and probally just doesnt want a girlfriend. if you really need to know i would ask i would be like fur real why did you break up with me, how was a i not a good grilfriend? what kind of girlfriend would you want. but you might have also asked those questions but really all you can do is move past this maybe stay friends with him and find someone else that will really love you!!!
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