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continue hanging out with this kid??
so last night i was at a party, and i ended up hooking up with this kid..we were both kind of drunk, him more so than me. i drove him home after, and we had some fun in the car. The only problem is, he has a girlfriend that he has been dating for over a year. He called me last night and we talked for like 2 hours, and he wants to continue hanging out and doing things, but wants to keep it a secret. is it bad to be that other girl? i do like him and we hooked up a few times in the past before his girlfriend, and he is very sweet and charming, but i dont know if i want to risk being that other girl, and having his girlfriend find out. what should i do?
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i think this is a bad idea its disrespecting the other girl too. if you cared at all you would say that he needs to break up with his girlfriend before you guys do anything and if he would do this to you when you guys eventually go out if you ever do hes going to do the same thing. and even if he does break up with his girlfriend hes not going to want to be with you. so its a bad idea.
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If you want to eventually be more, don't do it. Right now all he sees you as is a hookup. If you want to be with him you want to be exclusive. Why share your man? I understand if you like him but this is not the way to try and be with him. Your going to hurt your self as well as this other girl. You would hate it if he was cheating on you.
Bottom line, bad idea!
Let me know if you need anymore advise!
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You should stop and seriously reevaluate your morals, values, and rationality.
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