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Problems With Mom ='(
hii i'm 18 and a girl. okay so me and my mom dont get along. recently we got in a huge argument. it all started because she says im addicted to texting and bcuz of it im out of it. its true but i mean whats the problem? i dont go out or bring friends over or party im always home so why not text with friends. its stupid and when i ask her to give me a ride to chill with people she never is happy to do it so why does she bitch if i text with friends. so yeah she disconnected my phone and today in the morning she woke me up bitching at me and my lil sis pissed me off so i was a jerk to her then my mom came in the bathroom yelling at me and said that i could leave the house. so then i slamed the door in her face. she opened with the key and starting slapping me i was crying so hard and almost hit her back. i dont feel like apologizing shes been an unfair bitch to me. because my 20 yr old sis always goes out and my 12 yr sis too. she brings people home party's downstairs and goes out way more then me! but at the same time i want my phone back. help! should i apologize even though i dont want to? and if so how? shes not talking to me either. i stay in my room all day. and can the relationship with my mom get any better someday? it seems like we will never understand each other...
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you need to sit down with your mother and explain to her how you feel. Maybe she feels you spend to much time text messaging. Instead of texting all day long do some chores around the house or ask your mother if she would like to watch a movie with you. tell her you like text messaging since you dont go see your friends all the time. tell her when i ask you to drive me some place you seem very un happy to do it.
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its your choice honostly i used to say sorry to things all the time so that they wouldnt be mad at me anymore and i could get what i want and then i was done with it and i never said sorry for what i thought i didnt need to say sorry to. and they (meaning my stepmother) never forgave me for never saying sorry for one thing i was done i thought it was unfair and it wouldnt happen my mom always said to pick and choose your battles and if getting a relationship with your mom is one than you need to say sorry talk it out tell her what you feel. or you can get a job and pay for your own phone honostly id go with pay as you go with the plan you have b.c with verizon you can put a 10 dollar payment for unlimited texting to verizon people and your money last forever. same probally goes with other networks.
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Yes i do think you should aplogize to your mother she deserves a apology if you do say sorry it will be one step closer to you possiblity getting your phone back you can't hold a grudge aganist her because you won't feel right that won't help you and your mother's relationship give her some space to calm down then once you think your ready sit her down and say your sorry for how you acted and for slamming the door in her face and for almost hitting her and say you'd like more freedom to do the things you want and to not be in the house you could also help out around the house and maybe if she see's that she'll consider giving you your phone back you should think about getting your license with that you'll have tons of freedom and you'll be able to go where you want yes i do think it's possible for you and mother to get along given time(:
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