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guilty concience
Okay I currently have a boyfriend. Juts to make that clear. Last night I hung out wit one of my guy friends josh till like really late, n I ended up passign out on his bed and I woke up wrapped in my own blanket up wit him passed out 2.he woke up and grabbed some of the covers and right then his sister walked in. His sister goes to my school and everyone in the house assumes that we did something but nothing happened at all, I just fell asleep. I feel really guilty that I stayed the night considering I do have a boyfriend and I know he would be pissed if he found out. Did I do something wrong and should I feel guilty. It was like 4 in the morning when I passed out and I left at 8. I know I should have left but since nothing happened and we really stayed away from each other until he needed covers did I do something wrong and should I feel as guilty as I do
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well you did nothing so your guilt there is nothing. BUT, you are feeling guilty beacuse you knew it was wrong. not that what you did is wrong you know but that if your boyfriend found out he would be very mad of some sort and if he did that you would be mad but hopes that if you do tell him you would be understanding. you just dont like the idea of what hapend and i know keeping secrets from your boyfriend is hard. thats why i cant lol its to hard for me. but it was an acciedent of what happend you didnt do anything so whats the deal.
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If you reread what you put, you said you have a guy FRIEND. How I see it is, you guys are just friends, and if you fell asleep in his bed, and didn't do anything but sleep, you shouldn't feel guilty at all! But some guys get REALLY jealous, i had a boyfriend who was REALLY jealous all the time, i had a really good guy friend, and he would always say i 'cheated' on him when i hung out with him, because he didn't think guys and girls could just be friends!! But then he said he trusted me? (he was a liar anyway, so i just broke up with him, after a year!!)
Anyways, if you did more than SLEEP in the bed, then you have something to be guilty about, but if you all you did is fall asleep, its fine. You might regret it. But you shouldn't feel guilty!
Good Luck!
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You should only feel guilty if you did more than "sleep" in that bed. I read your story and to me all I see is two people who slept in the same bed as friends. DO not let others' evil minds make you feel guilty about something that never happened. Like I said, you know what happened, do not let other people shame you with their dirty thoughts. If things were as innocent as you say, you are in the clear, and have nothing to hide. Let it go, move about your life and get back to being young and happy.
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I don't think you should feel gulity or feel like you did something wrong seeing as you didn't do anything with him you just slept and were tired it
was 4 in the morning it's not like you could of left but you could if you wanted too..you'd have a
reason to worry if you did something with him that
you weren't suppose too but you just slept if you know that nothing happened between you two then i
wouldn't listen to what the family thinks because only you know the truth and his sister just walked
in & saw what she saw she doesn't know the truth like you do(:
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i personally don't think you did anything wrong. as long as you guys don't have feelings for each other and you guys didn't do anything that night, then why should it matter? my boyfriend doesn't like it when i spend the night at my guy friends' house either, but he knows that they're like my brothers and he trusts me. maybe one day you can talk to your bf about it! don't worry, you didn't do anything wrong, it was an honest mistake!
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