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Well, I am about 4'10" and it is mostly legs. I have really long legs and I'm skinny, maybe about 83 or 84 pounds or so. I am under 14 yrs. old if that helps. Well it is really hard to find pants that fit right. I just want some pants that fit me in the thighs and butt and are long enough so I can atleast wash them and they will still fit really well. Because I used to wear 10 slim put they are way to short in the length. My thighs are pretty small and so is my butt. I am trying to gain weight but it isn't helping.
I just want some jeans that are long and fit nice. So if anyone can help me in anyway with that, or if you have tips that would be great!
Will rate good.
abercrombie kids and american eagle will have a type of jeans that are called "petite" or "slim" this is the type that you need to get for your body type . if you havent had your time of the month yet then you are still growing so have no fears =)
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
Everyone in my family has true blue eyes except me! My eyes ARE blue, but they just don't always look it. When I wear blue, they look blue. When I wear green, they look green. When I wear white and yellow they look grayish. How can I make my eyes look blue ALWAYS without wearing blue everyday? I don't wear contacts or glasses.
omg i have the EXACT same eyes as you ! but anyway i love mine, but eyeliner and mascara will deffinetely help your eyes to stnad out, but putting a little bit of gold shimmer on your lids might help them to appear more blue, but i havent tried that yet . there isnt a way to make your eyes blue all the time without contacts, but the liner and mascara will deffinetely make them stand out .
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
I'm curious about something. If a person has been a smoker since they've been 12 years old, what long term effects would it have on the person? I'm asking because my friends wife is 54 and has been smoking since she was 12. She smokes about 2 packs a day. I think he is worried about her health. I already know that it has prematurely aged her from the outside. She has a very wrinkled face and horrible black and yellow stained teeth. Also does anyone have any solutions as to how she could quit? I hear it's very hard but possible.
she could get cancer in her lungs and possibly die !! nicotine smoking patches and their gum can be used to help her quit . my grandma had this problem and she gave my grandpa second hand smoking ! but she had a surgery and she ahs stopped, but also put on a lot of pounds because she quit . if your friends' wife quits then make sure she still eats properly and exercises .
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
I like this guy but i am not allowed to date till i am 18 and i am 13 now. all my friends are dating and this is the most i've felt for a guy. what should i do or say?
you should talk to your parents and convince them that you're not the little girl anymore you are a big girl who can handle a boyfriend and is a mature young adult . plus and all your friends are dating so why leave you out of the excitement ?
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
what was the code forthe google search box? how do you do it? and will it work on myspace?
thankkks
[ search ] good search terms here [ / search ]
just take the spaces out and youre good to go =)
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
Ok here it goes..
I really like this guy, I'm 13 and in 8th grade and i really like him. the problem is, he's in 7th. but i see him beause our yougner brothers are on a basketball team together. I don't know if he likes me, but i like him and i want him to notice me. We have a dance coming up on Feb 9th or 10th, so how couldi get him to notice me. like...
What are some tips to get him to notice me and stuff?
.:rate 5's:.
thanks
Kate
talk to him after his games or wave to him . flirt with him when you see him or if he comes over to hang with your brother then theres a good oppurtunity to get things moving . you can try to get a guy to like you, but it doesnt mean he will . if you're nice and beautiful on the inside, but he still doesnt care, thats his loss . he doesnt deserve you !
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
I'm an almost 15 year old girl. There's a guy I like in two of my classes, and I'm not sure if he likes me or not. We were randomly partnered up for an in-class assignment. After we'd finished, he started to ask me something, but then stopped. We barely know eachother, but he's always nice to me and sometimes I see him looking at me. I really like him, but does he like me?
P.S. I've never gone out with a guy before.
it seems like he may like you .. talk to him a bit more and this looks like the beggining of a beautiful relationship ♥
Many people on AIM with profiles iv'e seen say "via Hiptop"
any reason what that means? or does anyone know why they say that?
later
(real answers get 5s)
it means that they are on a mobile device, such as the sidekick or a cellphone .
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
I am an advicenator and i am new so i didn't know what to do. i pushed random quesion for me to anwser and i got one about a girl and she said her friend started cutting himself and she said he might commit suicide, i told her to get an adult now! did i do the right thing, please help i am new!
yes you deff did the right thing . but anyway, advice is your opinion .. just like funnycide said . even though that question may have not been the best one to start out with, its fine because you gave mature advice . but remember : practice makes perfect, so the more advice you give and the more questions you read, the more comfortable you will get reading the questions and become better at answering them .
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
im f/15 (almost 16). i weigh about 120. my height is 5'4". is this average for my age? please dont try to be nice, just tell me the truth. im trying to lose 10 pounds, any tips on doing this?
http://www.seventeen.com/health/bmi/spc/0,,665141_665142,00.html
that will tell you if you are average or not .
as for losing weight ..
http://www.seventeen.com/health/nutrition/spc/0,,658544_662727,00.html
this may help you .
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
i just got a tampon in for 1st time. but it wont go in all the way, like a little less than half is out. also it hurts a tiny bit to walk and to sit straight up. i have to sit forever in school tomorrow. what to do? please help quickly and thanks!
you probably didnt insert it correctly, because if this is done properly then you wouldnt even know its in there . using the juniour or lites might be a better way to start out because theyre smaller . worst comes to worst, if it still doesnt work then a pad might be what you would want to go ahead with because of all that sitting .
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F.
its completely normal .. as teens we all do it . dont feel bad about it : )
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
Anyone know a good way to stop a habbit of biting my nails? I keep biting them w/out realizing it for a few minutes. My family keeps getting mad at for it. It's driving me crazy! Plese help. I'll rate high for god advice. Thanks!
biting your nails is always annoying to others around you, but painting your nails might help because then you will taste the lacquer and it will taste so gross, or maybe putting bandaids on your fingernails because then you would taste rubber and would stop being so tempted .
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
how come i see most girls on myspace are chaning there myspaces to private then changing there age to 14, when they are like 16, 17, 18? why is everyone doing this?
its because they dont want people that arent their friends to be able to see their pages . they also cant see all their pictures, only the default one . its just a matter of privacy, hence the name "private."
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
kay i have a couple questions
one
could u get pregnant for making out with someone while your on your period
two
is a wet dream when a boy cums in his sleep?
three
what arre ways of masturbation
four
what is the average size for a boys penis at age14
please respond as soon as you can
thanks =)
1 - you cant get pregnany from making out with someone while on your period unless you actually do have sex which is a different story ..
2 - yes a wet dream is when a boy ejaculates in his sleep
3 - i reccomend you seeing http://www.puberty101.com/p_masturbationguys.shtml if youre a boy and http://www.puberty101.com/p_masturbationgirls.shtml if youre a girl
4 - penis size growth typically doesn't start until around 11-16 years of age (average: 13-14). normal penis size covers a wide range, and the average size is probably smaller than you think: about 3 to 4 inches (about 9 cm) in a non-erect, mature male. As there are boys with penises larger (perhaps twice that size), there are also boys who have smaller, and still normal, sized penises. When you're an adult, you'll learn that size doesn't matter so much, but it still can be very frustrating! Try not to worry about it if you think you're "too small" -- appreciate what you have! If the other boys tease you, just say "heh, it's not the size that matters, it's what you do with it!"
i know that was kinda nasty but its the facts !
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
(I'm 13/f)There's this guy (lets call him M) and I thought I liked him so I told him I did and now he's my boyfriend. But the problem is I don't anymore. And I don't think I ever really did. He likes me a lot. Another problem is I like another guy (let's call him S) and I know he'll never like me back because he's really cute, and I'm, well, not. (He's into really pretty, really skinny girls)
So, what do I do?
1) How do I let M down easy and not hurt him too much?
2) Should I forget about S and move on?
(P.S. I know it said only to have 1 question per thing, but I thought maybe it'd be okay since it's the same topic?)
first of all, to let M down easily you should tell him that you think its best for both of you to be just friends and nothing more . then about S if you know you cant have it then hes not worth chasing after . boys are the ones who are suppossed to be chasing after girls, not the other way around .
also, if M is sad or whatever dont feel guilty . just remember that you dont like him anymore slash never did so its okay and you are going to be friends . everything will turn out just fine .
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
how do you make your myspace acount privite, so only your friends can view your myspace?!? plz help i will rate you high
just set your age to 14 or 15 years old, which is under the standard of 16 .
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
How do I get MySpace off of private? It's doing it because it thinks I'm underage. I accidentally let someone mess with it and they changed my age. When I changed it back, it was still private and wouldn't let me change it.
if you have it set to 16 or older, it should switch back . but sometimes it takes a few minutes or even hours to completely register the action . it will make your myspace un-private soon, dont worry be happy =)
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
I have a boyfriend and one time he said "I love you" And I really wanted it to say it back but like the thing is idk if I really do or not...can you really tell if you love someone or do you just know?
trust me on this one, you just know it if you love someone . dont say it back if you actually dont . its the kindof thing where you know that you are meant to be together no matter what anyone says . when youre with him and the only place you wanna be is closer, and when you hear his name you get chills down your spine . you will deffinetely feel it in your heart and soul : )
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
What are some ways to calm down and relax? School is making me CRAZY. I'm extremely stressed out and I just feel like giving up. HELP PleaSE.
- Take a "vacation." Close your eyes and envision a place where you feel safe and relaxed -- it could be your favorite beach or under the covers in your bed. Allow yourself to really "be" there, experiencing what makes this place special to you. Breathe it in, open your eyes and take it with you.
- Keep a bottle of ylang ylang essential oil in your makeup bag. Take of sniff of this anxiety reliever when you start getting twitchy.
- Roar like a lion! Scrunch up your face and squeeze your whole body tight, then release everything wide with a sound, sticking your tongue out as far as you can. This alleviates tension big-time, plus you'll feel so silly you might even laugh.
- Decorate your space with fresh flowers. Symbolizing life and beauty, flowers are a perk for all the senses. If you feel like getting more ambitious, buy a plant. Gardening is very therapeutic in the treatment of depression, and although one plant isn't exactly a garden, it's a start.
- Give yourself a neck massage, rolling your knuckles over any painful spots. Better yet, get your mom or a friend to do it for you.
- Meditate on the breath. As you inhale, think "breathing in," and as you exhale, think "breathing out." Try this for five minutes. When your mind wanders just return to the breath.
- Try a mudra when you meditate. Mudras are symbolic hand positions which channel the flow of energy. The chin mudra, in which the thumb and index finger touch while the rest of the fingers are outstretched, is intended to clear the mind and bring peace.
- Stretch your legs. If possible, go outside and take a brief walk. The change of scenery, the fresh air, and the circulation of blood in your body will perk you up instantly.
- Try reflexology. The point on your foot which corresponds with your nerves is right smack in the middle, below the ball of your foot and in from the arch. Give it a good rub. If it hurts, that's normal. You're stressed out, after all.
- Press play. The power of sound to alter and elevate our moods has been widely documented. If you put on your favorite song, or any song for that matter, you will feel differently at the end of that song.
- Chant "om shanti shanti shanti" ("all is peace peace peace"). If it works for Madonna, why not you?
- Get steamed. Brew a cup of peppermint tea and place it on a table in front of you. Lean over and create a tent around the cup with your arms and head, breathing in this invigorating natural decongestant. Then, drink up.
- Roll your eyes. Tired eyes can cause mental strain, so give those babies a break. Roll both eyes to the left and right, up and down, and then in full circles, repeating in each direction. Close your eyes, rubbing your palms together until they're warm. Place gently over your closed eyes.
- Knock knock, who's there? Sit upright in a chair with your feet flat on the floor. With closed fists gently tap around your head in circular motions. Breathe slowly and deeply. This improves concentration and relieves headaches.
- Brew a cup of chamomile tea with two teabags. Chamomile has been used for centuries to treat nervousness and insomnia. Drink the tea, and when the teabags cool so that they are just warm to the touch place use them as eye compresses.
- Light a candle. If you like the scented variety, try lavender, which is a natural relaxant.
- Take a shower. The water pounding on your head stimulates your brain cells and literally gets you into a new "head space."
xoo hope this helps !! ♥