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why do girls shake their legs?
im sitting in class and im looking around and five of he girls in my class arre shaking their legs really fast
why do they do this?

I do it all the time. Usually I don't relize I'm doing it. Most people [not just girls, some guys do it to] do it because they are bored, or very active & kind of can't sit still.

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I am 13/f all i think about is sex, when i see i guy im like i wanna have sex with him, for example chris brown. But is it normal i feel weird and when its time for me to do it im so scared, so why do i wanna have sex so badly but scared of having sex? is that normal? or good? or bad?

You are normal, don't sweat it :) You are 13 years old and lots of chemicals are flowing through your body, don't worry your perfectly normal :)

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how hard is it to dye your hair black by yourself and are there any tips or brands that anyone could recommend?

I just dyed my hair black :)

I used whatever was on sale [bargen shopper if you will] haha. If you have dyed your hair before, use whatever brand you are most fond of.

Only things I recommend is put a towel over your sholders & wear an old shirt. Read the instrucions before you start and make sure you uderstand what to do. Take your time to. People tend to rush when they get excited. Make sure you are taking your time and getting all the parts of your hair covered. When you're all done, make sure the water runs clear. If not, keep washing your hair out until it runs clear.

The next to times you wash your hair the shampoo will have a purpleish tent too it, its normal.. and it will stop after the like first 2 washes

Hope this helped & good luck :)

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okay well me & my friend havent been really talkng because she hangsout with someone i dont like & so ive been hanging out with this o1. girl & know she is realy popular & shes hanging out with 8th graders & the boys say i`m annoying but ive never talked to them before. but what should i do? because they make fun of me. should i stay friends with her or should i try to get along with my other friend .

Aw, its not a stupid question. No question is ever stupid :)

Why can't you be friends with both ? There are going to be alot of people in your life, you dont like that you are just going to have to kind of deal with. If your friend has a friend you dont like, try getting to know that person. Maybe you'll end up liking them a little bit more. If that doesnt happen I'm sure you have friends that that friend doesnt like, but shes your friend and she respects who you hang out with. Just try hanging with them and finding something in common with the girl, that you guys could talk about. Not saying you have becomes like BFFFFFFE&E&E&E&e or anything, but she could end up being someone you could talk to.

As far as the 8th grader friend goes. I'm sorry, but 8th graders DRIVE ME NUTS. They think they are sooooo cool [which yes, I was an 8th grader too last year, but they still drive me nuts] Those guys are dumb. They don't know you, yet they talk about you ? Oh wow. they are sooo cool, but no, they are being immature, they shouldn't stop you from making new friends. Having a friend in a different grade shouldnt matter. Friends are friends, no matter what grade or age they are. Just remember those guys don't know you, they are judging you before they know you. Once they get to know you, Im sure they will feel different about you.. but until then, ignore them. Guys tend to be mean to girls, why I don't know, but its stupid ;) Also, it shouldn't matter if that girls is [popular]. [Popular] is such a wide word. It can mean many things, but it doesnt mean they are better then you. She's not better than anyone. She just has the skill to make more friends and is more well liked by others. That shouldn't have an effect on your friendship & if it does, then she's not a friend you need to have :)

So, all in all, be friends with both girls. What could go wrong ? All youd have is more friends & there is nothing wrong with that :)

Hope this helped.

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ughh i got braces today. they dont hurt because i dont have wires in yett, but they are soo annyoying! from others exceprience, how long till they feel normal? and what are some good foods to eat?

and any suggestions on how to make it look like your mouth isnt bleeding metal when you smile., if you know what i mean.

thanks in advance :)

Ah, I had braces for 3 years, I know just what you mean. It took me about 2 weeks for my braces to feel normal. Longish time, but thats how it was for me. Everyones different. I ate soft foods at first. I admit it I was scared to eat something hard. I hate things like : jello, soup, pancakes, ice cream, bread & foods like that. I didn't bite into the foods like bread. I would wrip of the pieces.. until I was comfortable with the braces.

& about the smile... Im a dork :) and I praticed smiles. Your mouth wont look like its full of metal to other people, it's prally just your own mind. Yeah stupid idea, but I say pratice smiles. You'll find one you like & if you have a dorkie smile its okay :) Laugh it off, lifes to short to worry about a smile :))

Good luck with the braces.

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Well, this question is kinda random but...

So, I call my mates different names for example. Lovlee, Darling, Babe.
But, i can't think of any others, does anyone have any ideas??

Thanks xx

Haha :)

love
darling
baby
babe
dollface
sugar
sugar plum
sweet cheeks
lovly
sweety
sugar love (?)

Hope that helped you some.

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theres a song By eminem called Just Lose It and in it it goes
"whats your name girl? whats your sign?"
what does that mean??????????????
i tried Urban Dictionary but they dont know what it means

Its a pick up line. A bad one, but its asking baiscly whats your zodic sign.

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well im kind of too shy to ask my friends so i guess id ask here i kno wat a boner is like i kno its when a guys thing stands out but what does it come from? why does it happen?? jus wondering and confused lol

I happens because blood is rushing to the guys penis. Usually happens when a guy is [happy], but yeah blood rushes to the penis area and makes it hard and thicker.

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what does it mean when on the orange juice cartons it says "not from concentrate"?

Its all natural. No special sugars or anything added, basicly just water :)

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hello you are very pretty ! =)
i likke your haiir i waant a loook like thatt. what did you have done?

Aw thank you :)

What did I have done ? hmm, I got side bangs & tons of layers. I have really super thin hair, so the more layers I have, the thicker my hair looks. Thats basicly what I got done, and I straighten my hair. Thats it :)

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i would like to tell you all, that you are beautiful. everyone on here are the greastest among people. for we are all hear to help and be helped. and this is no question. and if i get suspended or deleted from advicenators for it or something, so be it. but the main point is, you are all wonderful people and every one of you are making this world a better place by signing on here everyday and helping someone half way around the world that you don't even know. that's what's gonna change the world. if everyone was like the people here, the world would be a better place. but sadly it's not. but maybe someday, it will be. so if you see a struggling man or woman, do not laugh, stick out your hand to help them. do good in the world, more than you already have. and maybe someday you can change the world. and i write this becuase someone answered the boy from pakistan in a way that really moved me. and it makes me appreciative of what we do here. and it makes me aware of how good i am. compared to some people in the world without homes, money, food. or are young parents. and their last hope in the world is here, and when everyone gives a helping hand, it's something beautiful and unreplacable. God bless all of you!

Thank you :) That was nice of you to say.. I wish everyone could understand why we sign on here everyday

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how come no one gives you "feed back" on your answers anymore. like serouisly.

I say people have gotten a little bit lazier ; I personally liked feedback. It helped me know that I helped or that they still need help.

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You know how most popular people have been popular since they were little?

And most popular people hit puberty at the right time, not too early, not too late.

And most popular people have perfect sized chests.

Why is that? I mean, I know that the good bodies are part of what makes them popular, but if they were "chosen" before puberty was an issue, then why does it work out that way?

I hate that word : popular. It makes it sound like they are better then EVERYONE else, and they arn't. No one is better then anyone else. Sure some have more friends, but that doesnt make them [popular]

Some people arnt [popular] since they were little. They have just had the skill to talk to and make new friends. Some people don't get that skill untill a little later. You don't known when you are going to hit puberty. There is no "time line" for it. They might happen to go threw it, but they all are not going through puberty. Everyone is different and what your social status has nothing to do with when you are going to go through puberty. I`m guessing that people have stero-types. That to be [popular] you have to look this way, have this big of a butt, these big of boobs, and this hair cut. That shouldnt matter. Not all people that are well liked have nice chests. Some do, but not all do & it shouldn't matter what you wear or how larger you are in the chest area.

You anr't persay.. chosen to be popular, you are just well liked. You talk to people and you get along with everyone. Stero-types make the [popular] people the mean ones and the most pretty girls, and the hottest guys, when in the real world, most people can't stand those people..

Hope this helped some.

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likke plastic or like blah or something weird for screenname . for toasterstruddle yah sorry i dont know allot

Haha, don`t worry you gave me some good ideas. THese might be pretty random but they are fun :)

P l a s t i c x
plastic dork
blah blah stfu
blah x me
haha blah
plastic blah
toaster struddle
struddle love x3
random blah
ta da blah
keep talking x
x im cool x
plastic smile
plastic doddle

Sorry if thats not what you are looking for, if you need more.. just send one to the INBOX :)

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Thanks :)
i`ll try it.

- alexandra.

Welcome :)

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Hi :)
Okay, so do you know any websites or something i can download so that i can make my pictures look cool & change the colors & stuff ? & thats free & that doesnt cause virues :)

thanks.
- alexandra

I use (www.mytheme.com) & at the top of the website youll see something that says ANIMATION STUDIOS. CLick that & upload the picture you want to change & then have fun :)

They have alot of neat stuff you can do to your pictures, and you can UNDO anything if you dont like it :)

Other then that, all I know of is PaintShop Pro, and I don't use it, but I know you download it, and its only a free trial, if you are wanting to use it for a long time, youll have to pay for it.

mytheme, is free.. no viruses and its easy :))

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i want a new s.n i dont care what there abouut

you gott any ideas?

If you send me something with a little bit more, id be happy to help. I`m super bad with just random screen name..

so send me something like maybe :
your name, something you like to do, favorite sport, favorite saying, something that can help me think :)

But Id be happy to give you some ideas, once I know a little something :)

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do girls fart?
or anything else among those lines?

Basicly everyone does & if someone says they have never.. they are lieing. Everyone does, its normal, you can't stop it really.. Yeah its not "lady-like" but everyone does it.

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