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hi,

in a few days i will be going on vacation with my family. the only thing that will be stopping me from having a good time is that i sweat. i sweat a lot. i have certain dri but that doesnt work so i wanted to know a few tips that you can give me, besides the doectors because i will be leaving soon, thanks!

Don't wear dark clothes.

My sister says that keeping wetnaps with you will help a lot because they are quick and convient.

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Hey, I know you hate love questions but this is extremely important to me so if you could help.. it would just be highly appreciated =] =]

So, I'm planning a get together with a few of my friends this Thursday. One of my girl friends and one of my guy friends. I also wanted to invite my crush, Calvin, who I've liked since September. We've went out one before(January), and I've liked him since September.He lives up the street from me and I want to invite him, but I'm very shy and I dont know if I should call him or just walk to his house on Thursday. Help please?

Thanks

I don't think you should walk to his house on Thursday since the get together is on Thursday.

I think you should call him up before then and invite him.

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ok, stupid question.

do you think 14 is too young to get your upper ear peirced? my parents say i'm too young for a peircing like that...i don't know why... but i was just wondering if you think so?


i don't know. just wondering.

No, they are your ears.

edit: I meant since they are your ears you should be able to do what you want with them, including getting your upper ear pierced.

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I am a 15 year old girl who is confused. Real rare huh lol. Anyway, my boyfriend is 17. he told me, the only girl he would go to prom with would be some really close friend who is,you guessed it, another girl. he kind of has a history with her. He's told me he's known her all his life.He also told me that he wouldn't go without my permission and he wouldn't try anything with her. I wouldn't believe this in a minute.I forgot to include that 15 year olds are allowed as long as their parents approve and sign some paperwork. Well that's besides the point. The fact that he said this kind of hurts. I really don't have any idea what to say to him. I like him a lot. I want to stay with him but not if he's going to say things like this. Should I confront him on it and if I do what should I say?

Yeah you should tell him how you feel.

After all, it's not like he can read your mind.

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what are some good job that a 16 year guy can work for? a good paying job..

p.s. in san diego california

I'm a lifeguard in the spring/summer and I started when I was sixteen. But I just recently found out that you now have to be atleast seventeen to be a lifeguard.

For lifeguards that's just starting the pay is okay.
But when you start giving private lessons and stuff is when the pay gets much better.

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i need to eat heathly because i need to lose weight in less than a month, plz help me what should i eat?

Its unhealthy to loose more than 2-3 pounds a week.

You should cut out the sweets and caffeine in your diet.
You should exercise more.

You should visit these websites.
http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/hbp/prevent/h_eating/h_eating.htm
http://fi.edu/biosci/healthy/diet.html

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what does it mean when a guy wants to "get his mack on" w/ girls? thanks. ill rate for good answers =]

It means when you are going to try to get some girls.

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There is this guy who used to like me. He flirts with a lot of girls. But out of all the girls he stills flirts with me the most. He gets so jealous when I flirt with other guys and do stuff with them. We also talk on the phone a lot. But he is one of the bad boys who breaks girls hearts so I'm not interested in him. I want to know does any of you thinks that he may still like me?

He might still like you but he's probably just playing.

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im 15 and girl. lately all my friends have been comin out and saying they're bi. and well i have had incounters with girls before like on dares we've kissed. but now im findin myself checkn them out all the time and i have had a encounter were i was makn out with a girl and wanted more but now my feelings of wantin to be sexual with them is disappearing and im lookn. so is it just cuz my friends are or am i?

Don't crack under the pressure.

Since your friends are bi, you may have feelings of wanting to experiment and see how it is.

I guess you are just finding yourself or seeing what you like best.

I think you should make out with a boy and make out with a girl (not at once) and see which one you like better.

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My mom workshift has changed, so she is no longer able to take me to school. So now I have to ride a bike to school. And I just feel so embarrased. People in the car when they drive by sometimes laugh and point. So I just want to know how does everyone else get to school. You know do you take the bus, ride, walk, bike, etc.

I drive to school.

edit: I drive a Ford Expedition.

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My guy is mad at me because he thinks it's fun to be mad at me . This is totally not cool by my rules. What can I do?

THanks soooo much !

He's immature. Leave him.

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im really afraid that my boyfriend will act weird if he knows im on my period. but he told me to tell him just so he will no incase i have PMS or im in a bad mood, or dont want to do anything sexual.. but im really afraid that he is like, not gunna want to get near me.. do you think that will happen?

please help! ill rate high!

That would be really wierd.
I wouldn't really want my girlfriend telling me that. I think that's to much information. But if she did I wouldn't go crazy, I would just rather not know.

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ok me and my bestfriend lets call him hrmm bob well bob and me uste to like each other and now we don't now he is such a jerk to me now i felt like punching him seriously he always flips me off, spits on me, cause me a stupid retard and makes fun of my but.. it really pisses me off! how could i get him to not be jerk? i can't talk to him cause all he does is make fun of me for everything little thing i do i thought about gettin him for harassment but i don't want to do that since he USTE to be my bestfriend

Jerks like that there is nothing more to do than ignore them. When he sees that he isn't bothering you he will stop. He needs to grow up. So don't waste your time on someone so immature.

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okay so i've had my first kiss which i have freaked out about for ever, but then i got it and it was nothing. haha and it was kinda... just bland. and does anyone have a site that helps you and gives you kissing tips? because i want to be able to you know.. have a great kiss and know how to make it spicey and stuff. haha thank youuuu :D

Personal experience is way better that websites.

You want to add excitement to yout kissing? Then use your tongue. Guys like that.

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there's this guy that i really like and he likes me to. But, he has a girlfriend and he pretends that he doesn't have one when he's with me. I don't want to put the moves on him because he has a girlfriend. But he told me that he likes me and that he is going to dump her. But so far he hasn't, so should i still persue this guy, becasue i really like him, but will it be wrong?
I am 16 and a girl.

Most likely he's not going to dump his girlfriend for you.

A lot of guys tell girls that, unfortunately.

I don't think you should fall for his words.

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How come every time I like a guy and he happens to show affection towards me, i clam up, build a wall up against him, making him think that i don't like him? i just don't understand why i would do this. Any suggestions to stop this?thanks in advance

It might be becuase you are nervous or want to play hard to get.

Try to remain at ease when you are around him like you were before he showed affection towards you.

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Sometimes when people answer questions they leave this box that you can click on and it says GOOGLE and it has the thing already typed in and you can search it from right there. How do you do this?

[ search ] "what you want to search" [ / search]

Without all of the spaces.

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How do you get a guys (that you like) email? without being to obvious that you like him. Oh and i work with this guy. Thanx in advance

When you'll are talking and you have to leave say something like "well let me get your email address and we can finish this conversation through email, since I need to [whatever it is that you have to do]."

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okay so i really really really like this boy alot. he says he likes me but he talk mad shit about me. its not even funny. so i wanna get over him but its not easy because i really really do like him alot. how can i get over him?

Think about how much he hurts you and that you don't want it to continue. So the only way for it to not hurt so bad when he jokes you is to get over him.

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I am REALLY jealous of you and your gilfriends relationship. I should be in her place. I can do you better.

Boys can be so stupid. Girls can be so phony.

So what do you think of my statements. Do you agree or disgree. Because the majority of them are.

You shouldn't be jealous. I'm sure you will find somebody special for you also.

I think your statments are untrue. Just because the majority of certain groups do certain things doesn't mean they all do it.

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