Q: hello i would like some advice on how to controll my greasy hair . it gets very greasy very quickly and its making me stressed so could you please give me some help thank you .

Q: 17/f

i babysit a 6 year old girl and her 12 year old brother. the boy doesn't need much attention he pretty much stays to himself while i play with the 6 year old. one day i went to the boy's room and walked in and saw him masturbating. i was shocked and said sorry and he looked absolutly scared beyond belief but now whenever i'm babysitting i can hear him in his room doing it. i don't know if i should say something or try to ignore it.

Q: alot of my friends say that ALL emo guys are gay.....is that true?

Q: So I am 16/F. I have always liked older guys.
I know this is probably a stupid question, but is that wrong/bad? I mean the guys in my grade are o-k, but they seem so imature to me, and so un aware of how girls wan't to be treated you know? Its probably because they are young, and most of them haven't been jaded yet. But what my main point is, do I even stand a chance with older guys? Or do they think of me like I think of the guys in my grade?

Q: I really love my boyfriend. and he wants a few kids like. he said 7 at the absolute most. i dont think wed get that far though. my mom always complains why people bring children into this wordl. but she brought me?? and she doesnt like when people have a lot of kids. i mean she wants me to marry a rich man and stuff and i know financial security is good. but i really wanna be in love like i am now. i mean. i told mom, 'i marry who i want to marry' and she shut up. but. my mom's opinions go against who my boyfriend is. its really sad. and i know dad told me a lot of his friends that are friends with mom also, told him that he should divorce her. but my friend's parents think she is awesome. but they havent met dad yet. i personally think mom and dad are mad and id rather live with my godmother n father even though i love them a lot. my parents are not.. parents.. theyre like best friends. but are parents when absolutelyyyy neeeeeeeedddeeed. theyre very loose. but can have the parenting attitude. i really love my bf. he loves me too, and i know so.....anyways. yeah. its really sad. and i cant take my parents. they make me miserable sometimes. my mom does NOT listen to me... and i show her that she doesnt and complains or laughs. im so sad and confused. and everyone says me and my boyfriend are meant to be. and i told my friend about my parents, about how theyre not mean to be. but she said that mabye their personalities were meant to be joined together to create me. but anyways. mom and bf. which side should i choose?? im choosing both for now, and taking sides on different things. i take my own side. im more like, taking whatever i agree with from each other them like i agree with my mom about one thing. but not about the other, whilst i agree with my bf about one thing and not the other. i tried working this out myself, but id appreciate it sooooo much if i had some help. i know there are a lot of things to be answered inside of this story... im sorry for being to long. thanks so much in advanced. ive been coming here for some time and ive received great advice. xx

Q: i like this boy named richard sandlin
he acts like he dont want a girlfriend
he used to pick on me in gradeschool now he doesnt even talk to me anymore. my junior prom is coming up in may 2008. and i really dont know if i will be asked or not. im scared. i want a boyfriend and a date for prom and i dont know what to do. what should i do?

Q: My boyfriend of 6 months shared a bed with a girl he went on a trip with in Europe. He said they didn't do anything, but they always talk about how the slept together. Do you consider this a type of cheating? Do I have a right to be angry?

Q: 16/f. a friend of mine just died. and another friend, david, isnt really showing any emotion. and i know its affecting him cause he was like best friends with the kid that died. i told david that im here for him and such, but im worried. i know its not healthy to keep everything in. he'll talk to me when its just me and him. no body else around. and that doesnt happen too often. maybe its just a guy thing. idk. but im worried. and idk what to say or do.

Q: ok...so i used to smoke while i was in high school but i quit 2 years ago. well i have been stressed lately and today, on my way to work, i bought a pack of ciggarettes and smoked two today. I feel bad cuz i have not told my bf and i dont want him to know. I feel sneaky and like a liar but if i told him he would be mad at me. Its not like i plan on smoking for a long time...just occasionally to help me with stress (when he isnt around). is it wrong of me? what should i do?

Q: 14/f

This is kind of hard to explain so please bare with me. Okay. So sometimes when I talk to guys I always flirt with them with my body movements and eyes. And I'll act all sweet and harmless and innocent but I'll be confident. I'll do this until I'm pretty sure the guy has some attraction to me, then I'll stop and I won't even look them in the eye. I think it's because I want to make a guy like me even if I don't want them at all.But I don't like to do it because i feel like I'm just being a tease. But when I'm with girls i'm my normal self. I know it's like maddd confusing. So. I need advice for stopping this.

Q: okayyy so, i already had my period this month. [august] started on the 15th, ended the 18th.. but yesterday the 31st i started again.. is something wrong here?????? i wasn't suppose to start till later in september..

help?

Q: Alright, so i've known my best friend since like 2nd grade. We've always got along all the time. Except for lately, she's kind of being a really big b*t*h.. i mean, she's always making excuses on the weekend on not being able to hang out "because her grandparents are coming over", but then later she's says that she's going over to her friends house. i mean, and whenever we hang out, its really fun at first, but then it gets really boring. she kind of puts down everything i say. she always says that she'll call, but she never does. and i'm always the one calling her to hang out, and yet she never calls me.. I DON'T want to stop being her friend, its jjust really annoying of some of the things she does. what can i do? is there some kind of way of telling this to her that won't really make her mad? (I mean because we have never fought before)

Q: i have alot of friendssss
and a couple of great best friends
but none of them are really like me.
i hate to use this label but they're "preppy"
and idk
how do you make new friends?

Q: okay me and my friends were playing truth or dare i dare my friend to kiss my guy friend and they did but everything was going good but i had to kiss this guy named james, he always flirt with me and stuff and my friends thinks he likes me and we were good friends too and we kissed and after that dont talk to eachother anymore after the kiss what do you think whats happening? we just look at eachother when we see eachother

Q: My best friend, lets call her... Emily is going out with one of my good guy friends.. lets call him Nigel. Well they have been going out for a few motnhs now and they are really cute. But Nigels best friend is telling him to break up with her because they live 20minutes away so they dont go to the same school. She is really upset and doesnt want him to. He says he isnt but we know that he has been thinking ab0out it. She really wants to stay with him but now hes trying to make her break up with him as well. He says shes just going to regret going out with him because of the distance. She doesnt know what to do. Any ideas? Shes sitting here beside me...

Q: Ok so i met a guy about a week ago and we tottaly hit it of. (were both 15 by the way) And we hung out then started talking on msn. He said he really liked me and wanted to get to know me a bit better, then would ask me out in person rather than on msn. That was last weekend. I tried to get a hold of him a few times. But he hasn't been talking much and has been acting kinda weird. Whats going on? Does he still like me?

Q: Okay, so there's a guy that I really like. We flirt with each other sometimes.

Well, anyways, I went to this pizza place yesterday with my family and 2 of my guy friends met us there, too. Well, anyways, we went off to go play some games, and then I came back, leaving them there, cause I ran out of money. So I was walking to our table, when I saw the dude that I like! Right when we both saw each other, he looked like he almost choked on his drink, and his eyes were all big! So, I went back to go play foosball with my guy friends; me versus them. So we started playing, and then the dude that I like came up and was watching us play. And, of course, when he came up to us, I was all nervous and was totally sucking at the game.

Then, last night I went to the high school football opening game, and he was there! My friends that I was with said that he kept on staring at me!

What should I do? Does he even like me or am I just wasting my time?

Thanks!

Q: i'm really scared that i have diabetes. i eat a lot of sugar & unhealthy foods .. i'm 5'6" 135 lbs. ..been losing weight lately.. every time i eat sugar my heart beats really fast.. my head hurts & i'm tired (but i also have a cold) ... is there any way to reverse diabetes? i don't wanna go to a doctor to confirm that i have it =[ needles freak me out.

Q: Does anyone know how to find out someone else MSN password?

Q: I am 14 and I am a girl.

If you open up the "lips" of my vagina, there is a foul smell, and discharge, so I know I have a bacterial Infection (sp?). I really do not want to go to the doctor, or tell my mom. My mother and I are not that close, and I don't want to tell my doctor either. I am not sure how I am suppose to wash my vagina. Am I suppose to take soap and stick it in the whole that the penis enters? How do I clean that out? Do I take soap and clean the inside of my vagina lips?

For my infection can I use:

Triamcinolone acetonide?
Ketoconazole cream 2%?
Triple Antibiotic Plus Cream?


If no to any one of those, what can I use?


If yes, witch one should I use? How many times a day? For how long? and do I put in where the penis enters the vagina, or the lips?

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