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Possible cheating in Europe?
My boyfriend of 6 months shared a bed with a girl he went on a trip with in Europe. He said they didn't do anything, but they always talk about how the slept together. Do you consider this a type of cheating? Do I have a right to be angry?
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even if nothing happend between them
he still disrespected you and slept next to another girl
in my opinion
id get angry..
but we all do mistakes
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I wouldn't call it cheating, but if it upsets you, you should tell your boyfriend how you feel. Let him know that it hurts when they joke about it even though nothing happened. Don't get angry yet. Decide how you feel about this after you've talked it over with him. He probably doesn't even realize that it's upsetting you so much. Good luck!
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Darling, either you trust him, or you don't.
If you trust him and know nothing happened, then you have no reason to be angry.
If you believe they just feel asleep in the same bed then no, that isn't cheating, that was just a bit careless of him. He should have realized that it could cause some trouble and be misinterpreted. You should tell him he mucked up but forgive him for that mistake. People make mistakes all the time.
If you don't trust him and think something did happen, dump him obviously.
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if he was in bed with another girl you know something went on but thhats my point aview yes you have all the right to be angry
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You have a right to be a little miffed but you shouldn't be angry.
I've shared beds to sleep numerous times with my friends, because the majority of them are boys and yes, I had a boyfriend at the time.
He did say it made him a little uncomfortable, so I said I wouldn't do it again.
Maybe your boyfriend didn't see it as a big deal, because I didn't either. But when I found out he was upset about it, I explained he had nothing to worry about.
I don't consider this a type of cheating.
Sharing a bed doesn't always mean your partner is up to something. It could have purely been based on comfort! After all, who wants to sleep on the floor etc.
Trust your boyfriend.
Relationships are nothing without trust.
and try not to worry about it. Unless you do ever get evidence.
Good luck
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I wouldn't be angry per say, but it does sound a little odd. I mean, after all, they could've taken turns sleeping on the floor in the room. Explain to your boyfriend that it makes you uncomfortable, but if he promises that he didn't cheat, then believe him. Trust is a big thing.
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