This is kind of hard to explain so please bare with me. Okay. So sometimes when I talk to guys I always flirt with them with my body movements and eyes. And I'll act all sweet and harmless and innocent but I'll be confident. I'll do this until I'm pretty sure the guy has some attraction to me, then I'll stop and I won't even look them in the eye. I think it's because I want to make a guy like me even if I don't want them at all.But I don't like to do it because i feel like I'm just being a tease. But when I'm with girls i'm my normal self. I know it's like maddd confusing. So. I need advice for stopping this.
Additional info, added Sunday September 2 2007, 1:39 pm: oh yeah and i use the internet a lot. i play online games (stuff like World of Warcraft) & i use their chatrooms. and, i'm sorry to admit, i do the same thing in the chatrooms! (these arent pervy chatrooms like those nasty aol ones, btw - theyre like friends only chatrooms) i'll act all sweet and innocent because i like to see guys get some sort of attraction to me..like theyll start typing stuff like "<3 amanda" or "leave amanda alone!" when someone is being an asshole to me. it's like i just like to see guys fawn over me.
fyi before you say anything, im not asking for advice about "dont give personal info to strangers omg!!!" im not stupid. i never post pictures nor am i ever planning to meet these guys even though we're all friends.
blackrose13 answered Sunday September 2 2007, 6:42 pm: well, the way you have to stop is controll yourself u cant play with peoples feelings you know what i mean?
try to hold it together
when your around them
be yourself
and dont be flirty
just stand with them and stuff
take care
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