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My best friend and her boyfriend
My best friend, lets call her... Emily is going out with one of my good guy friends.. lets call him Nigel. Well they have been going out for a few motnhs now and they are really cute. But Nigels best friend is telling him to break up with her because they live 20minutes away so they dont go to the same school. She is really upset and doesnt want him to. He says he isnt but we know that he has been thinking ab0out it. She really wants to stay with him but now hes trying to make her break up with him as well. He says shes just going to regret going out with him because of the distance. She doesnt know what to do. Any ideas? Shes sitting here beside me...
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If any guy is going to try to make you break up with him, he's definately not worth it, and you're to good for him. If someone says that you are going to regret going out with him, he's definately not worth it.
In my opinion, you sound too good for him.
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ok honestly, 20 minutes isnt THAT far away. i went out with a guy for almost a year that lived like 20 minutes away from me and went to a different school. if you have a ride from your parents or you can drive its not that hard to see them. (you could meet at a place thats 10 minutes away from each of you). even though you dont do to the same school.. you can see eachother on the weekends. you can talk on the phone, text, talk on online, etc. seeing him less will also make her more excited to see him when she actually does see him. talk to him about all of this and see what he has to say. good luck :)
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She should try her best to make it work. Ask him to hang out somewhere in between your houses, talk on the phone all the time, ect. If they're really right for each other it will work.
However, if he breaks up with her, let him. It just means he really isn't worth her time if he's not even going to try due to distance.
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Well you guys, love can get through any distance. If you really love him "emily" then dont have the distance rip your relationship up. Hang out with him every weekend or something. Call him every night or something. Keep in touch that way, but if you feel that the distance will effect and have tons of doubts about it, then yeah, have the relationship go off. Talk to him about it. Things will get better that way. TRUST ME.
I hope I helped! (:
-Speakfreely
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well if this guy named nigel really liked her then he would not break up with her for something like that
so what they can meet up somewhere they both know.. or talk on the phone theres alot of ideas.. tell his friend to back upp of him cause its not right but honestly if he really likes her he will like not break up with her becauise his friends tellin him to
take care
hope i helped =] bye
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