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hi i'm lauren. um you can pretty much ask me about anything. i have a lot of experience with LOTS of different stuff so i can answer questions from pretty much any category. =]

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its not too late to try out for cheerleading in the 11th grade, right?























right?

do you mean for this year? because if you mean that then yes its probably too late.

but if you mean in general like can you try out for your first time in 11th grade then thats fine.

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ok people on myspace, are like, putting people in there interests and they'll be like,

"bestfriends, movies, mall, skating, etc."


is that how you spell ETC? or is it ECT?
i spell it 'ect' but i think thats wrong.
helppppp.

its definetly etc.

some people think its ect because they think its spelled with an e-c...but its not.

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ok i just got off the phone with my boyfriend. and he told me he loved me. for the first time. and i said i love you too byee. but i don't think he heard me say i love you. :[ cuz he hung up without saying anything.
what should i do??
help!! plz.

call him back and tell him you love him too!

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okay lately i learned from a friend that a really close teacher/friend of mine was a lesbian. She hadn't wanted students to know but she confided in teachers and told them not to tell ANYONE! But my friends mom, who works at the school and is a teacher, told her daughters all about it and how she went to her gfs home town to get married to her. Then my friend blabbed it too me. Now im furious and i hate my friends mother for being so unprofesional since i know how that could ruin someones career. But the mother also happens to be my scout leader and i have to see her tommorow. how should i handle this?

* by the way don't bother telling me that my friend had the right to know: its none of their buisness and the teacher has worked there for 18 years.

well.. its also none of your business and i dont think you should worry about it. i know youre trying to protect your teacher but if shes lesbian and married she shouldnt have to hide it. its okay for the mother to have told her daughter, my mom tells me stuff other women to say to her all the time. your friend should have respected her mother and not told you. and if you guys both dont tell anyone else.. the secret should be safe.

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Well my guy friend lets name him Tim well i asked Tim if he had any secrets and he said yes and he told me he wanted to tell me face to face on Saturday and i did the whole no tell me now blah he told my friend aswell i'll tell you the convo's with me and him and me and my friend lets call her sara

Me-give me a clue
Tim-Nop cause you'll know right away
Me-Is it funny ?
Tim-I hope not cause then i'll get embarrassed lol
Me-Arghh ! Saturday !



Now me and my other friend
Lily-Hii Tim is so hott YUMM ! he's perfect would you ever go out with him
Me-I duno
Lily-What would you say if he asked you out
Me-Yeh i guess
anyone havea clue on the secret xS

umm im guessing he likes you.
he probably wants to ask you out.
maybe you should ask lily if she knows anything about this...

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title says it all

it depends on the girl.

as long as youre not having sex and just doing other stuff then i doubt the girl would care. but for sex.. as long as youre big enough to make it feel good then youre fine.

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Hello Everyone! I'm a 17-year old female and I've been friends with my boyfriend for over 7 months and we've been together for about 4 months. NOTE: this is my longest relationship. This young man makes me soooo happy. I love being aroud him, he makes me feel so special, he treats me wit the upmost respect. I think that I could really be falling for him but we're both seniors in high school and i dont want to start something really serious and get my feelings hurt. But am i too young to be falling in love? Thanks in advance

no youre not too young to be in love. i was in love with a guy when i was a freshman. lots of my friends told me i was crazy and i didnt love him. but they were wrong. when you love someone.. you know it. dont listen to what anyone else says. youre the only one that can decide if youre in love or not.


and to answer your question.. no were not still together. were not really friends either. we got in a big fight and its kinda weird because after going out for a year.. we dont talk anymore. and that could also be because he goes to a different school. but dont let that stop you. all i know is that i was definetly in love.

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I babysitt for a small group at our church. What I do is, the parents, have the bible study upstairs, and I watch the kids downstairs. I do not have any help. I usually babysitt 13-17 kids each time. The age ranges from about 18 months two 8 yrs. Most of the kids are in the 3-5 ranges, with a few 6-8 yr olds, and two babies.
I babysitt for usually an hour and a half to two hours. I get paid around $30-$35. Is that too much? Too little?

most ppl get paid like $5 and up per hour.. so i would think that you would get a little more than that. like maybe around $5 for each family of kids per hour.

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ok i know this probably sounds stupid but i have to go and buy condoms but i dont exactly know what size to get by guy hes black so hes pretty big lol but then again im not a dick expert so what size do you think would be the safest for my man

i wouldnt stereotype it like that.. he could be black and have a small dick. its possible. but anyways.. why are you buying them? you should tell him to buy them. he would know better what size he is. unless its like a surprise or something that youre planning for him. then i would say to get trojan maybe like get regular and large or regular and medium? idk theyre pretty expensive so that sucks if you have to waste soo many.

xo hope i helped

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How old should i be to have it

theres no certain age when you should have it. its whenever youre ready and preferably whenever youre in love with someone.

hope i helpedd

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my boyfriend wants to finger me but ive never been fingered before and i know him well so im sure he will be rough .. when he starts to make it hurt what should i say to make him slow down a bit?

and please dont tell me not to do it- or talk to him before. thanks!

if he goes too fast just tell him to slow down and if he doesnt listen then close your legs and push his hand away. hopefully he will listen and respect you.

xoxo

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can you tell me how i can make my breasts higher naturally? or could you tell me exercises that will make them bigger?

wear a push-up bra

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What's a really good straightener? I need to find one because the one that I have now isn't that great.

try a chi. theyre realllly goood! kinda expensive tho. i think i heard that hot tools ones are pretty good too and not that expensive

hope i helpedd

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can you get a sore throat from making out with a guy? i heard that it acutually happened to some people that i know...

yeah its happpened to me before.
its not a big deal it goes away in like a day

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i know this is a weird question but what does and orgasim feel like.

amazing.

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ok, i was wondering can you feel a tampon when its soggy? like starting to absorb the stuff because i havent used 1 yet but i can always feel it when my pads are like that and totally hate it! thanks so much!!!!!!!!!

nope you cant feel it at all!
you cant even feel that its there.. i hate pads tooo theyre gross i never wear them

hope i helpeddd

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i am 13 i do gymnastics 20 hours a week and i dont have my period yet will that effect it?! and i am scared it will happen at gymnastics are there any signs!?! helppp

usually gymnasts get theirs late.
i did gymnastics on and off.. but not as much as you do and i didnt get mine until i was in 8th grade. so you might not get yours until then or later.. and if it happens at gymnastics dont worry about it! it probably will be so little blood that it wont even go through your undies let alone your leotard. just put some quarters in your gymnastics bag or whatever so if you get it while your at gymnastics you can go to the bathroom and buy a pad or a tampon or something.

hope i helped!

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ok so in the last two days one of my classmates' mother died. It was really unexpected to me even though she had been fighting off cancer. her son, who i dont really talk to that much, is in a group project with me for a class. I don't know what to say to him when i see him. The family is keeping this all really private and I don't want to be pushing. Since I think that they had seen it coming for a while, he doesn't seem to be all that depressed but maybe it's just taking a while for it to sink in. help me on what to say ! 16/f thanks in advance

you should ask him if hes doing okay and if he needs anything youre there for him. tell him he has lots of people that care about him and will help him out if he needs it.

xoxo
hope i helped

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who sings that song i lean like a troll up, elbows up, side to side...........

PS.Its a rap song and the person who sings it has a really deep voice.

its 'i lean like a cholo'.. not a troll up

its by down

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This is a weird and random question, lol, but is it okay to call your boyfriend "babe" or is that too girly? Just wondering, cause when I said i love you to him the other day, I wanted to say I love you soo much babe but i wasnt sure if thats like... an unnacceptable name to call your guy lol. what are your thoughts? And do guys not like being called handsome, or do they secretly like it? what are names that guys like to be called?

yahhh its fine. its not too girly. idk i wait until ive been going out w/ the guy for a little while before i start calling him babe or whatever. it all depends on your comfort level. most guys like an name you call them.. heres some ideas:

* cutie
* baby
* sexy
* handsome
* hottie
* honey
* sweetie

or anything else you can think of!

hope i helped

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