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My mom and my boyfriend.
I really love my boyfriend. and he wants a few kids like. he said 7 at the absolute most. i dont think wed get that far though. my mom always complains why people bring children into this wordl. but she brought me?? and she doesnt like when people have a lot of kids. i mean she wants me to marry a rich man and stuff and i know financial security is good. but i really wanna be in love like i am now. i mean. i told mom, 'i marry who i want to marry' and she shut up. but. my mom's opinions go against who my boyfriend is. its really sad. and i know dad told me a lot of his friends that are friends with mom also, told him that he should divorce her. but my friend's parents think she is awesome. but they havent met dad yet. i personally think mom and dad are mad and id rather live with my godmother n father even though i love them a lot. my parents are not.. parents.. theyre like best friends. but are parents when absolutelyyyy neeeeeeeedddeeed. theyre very loose. but can have the parenting attitude. i really love my bf. he loves me too, and i know so.....anyways. yeah. its really sad. and i cant take my parents. they make me miserable sometimes. my mom does NOT listen to me... and i show her that she doesnt and complains or laughs. im so sad and confused. and everyone says me and my boyfriend are meant to be. and i told my friend about my parents, about how theyre not mean to be. but she said that mabye their personalities were meant to be joined together to create me. but anyways. mom and bf. which side should i choose?? im choosing both for now, and taking sides on different things. i take my own side. im more like, taking whatever i agree with from each other them like i agree with my mom about one thing. but not about the other, whilst i agree with my bf about one thing and not the other. i tried working this out myself, but id appreciate it sooooo much if i had some help. i know there are a lot of things to be answered inside of this story... im sorry for being to long. thanks so much in advanced. ive been coming here for some time and ive received great advice. xx
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You find true love rarely.....marrying a rich person like your mum says may make you financially stable but will that make you happy??? you might regret it later if you give up your love for riches...
afterall money isnt everything
money cant buy you happiness and love
Life is a long journey and being with the person who loves you and protects you is very important..
also what your mum says about having kids is well bizarre..afterall she concieved you....
and also
Its your decision whether you choose to have kids or not...not your mums...
i mean
I'm not asking you to go against your mum...I mean if your mum has a proper valid reason to tell you to stop the relationship(example- if she thinks he doesn't truly love you or cant make you happy etc) then you could rethink..
but then again...
but isnt it your decision who you choose to marry?
If you think your bf is your man and that he truely loves you
then go for it
Its your life...
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wen your already married to your boyfriend
its basically your choice whether you want to have kids or not
not your mom's descisions
do what your heart desiers
just take a moment and think
isnt this my choice?? im the one who should listen to myself before anyone else im not saying dont take other peoples advice
im just sayin take yours before you take others... take advice from your mom and some from your boyfriend work things out calmly..
i hope i helped =]
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