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Q: has anybody been on or know people that take roaccutane (Isotretinoin) for their acne? I've been on it now for about a month and I'd like to know if anybody else experienced headaches as side affects? x x x
it can have bad side effects i'd call ur dr. and talk to him or her about it

I wood suggest you try Zeno

My Zeno

it takes 24 hrs to go completely away

Q: I went to visit a guy that I'm friends with at his work. When he saw me his face lit up and he started winking at me. He was talking to another guy who I remembered from a party. I started talking to this guy and called him by his name. Anyways, I new that my friend had to get back to work so I said goodbye to both of them. The guy that I didnt know very well smiled and said goodbye, but then my friend glared at me and said BYE! angrily.
Does this mean that my friend was jealous I was talking to the other guy? He's not my bf so maybe his feelings run deeper for me than I thought? What do you think?
yea i can see that being possible and happaning i'd just ask him... if he cood ever c u 2 2gether

Q: so i skipped school and there was weed and alcohol im 13 female by the way..
and anyways.
i was good i didnt smoke because its disgusting.
and it was only 33% alcohol..
anyways my freinds turned out to not be freinds.
and so i was like.. im tired. then this guy goes oh here ill take you upstairs.. and show you where you can sleep.
so we went into the room yes we.. and he locked the door we were on his parents bed.
and he started making out with me.
hes 15.
and im like EWWWWWWWWWWW because he was so fugly.
and yeah he was on top of me..
then i stopped thinking omg what do i do.
then he took of his pants..
and started making out again..
and then he put my hand yeah you know.
and made me give him a handjob while makingout.
then he took of my pants.
And got on top of me.
and i pushed him of
and was like no!
im not going to have sex with you.
im a virgin.
and im afraid to have sex..
i didnt say that but yeah
and then hes like i love you.
suck my dick.
I KNOW ISNT THAT SO DUMB!
and im like no.
and hes like.
yes then you wont have to do anymore.
and im like NO.
i was thinking if i dont want to do anymore i wont do anymore.
and then he tried to have sex with me again.
i pushed him of.
and left to go get my twin brother and pretend i was at school.
what is this??
rape??
peer presure
im freaked out.
PLEASE HELP ME!
yeah thats considered rape
i would tell someone
like before...
it is 66 percent proof
just next time try to watch out for drinking
i'd go to the dr. and get checked
and tell someone

Q: after you join a blogring, can you like "un join it" or like delete it?
yes you can

click on it and click on your info on it and it will mention how to unjoin it and it will automatically unjoin you! then u can join another one if u want to

Q: i'm having a hard time forgetting about my ex-boyfriend. we were 2gether 4 five months, and within that 5 months, i started to 'love' him. we broke up 3 months ago, but i still really do like him A LOT, but he likes somebody else. i've been trying SO HARD for the past 3 months to stop thinking about him, but everytime i try, there's always something that stops me from it: memories of us 2gether always 'flashbacks' in my mind.

how can i 4get about him??
Well i went out with someone for a 11 months So i defintly understand how you feel. What i did was put pictures, anything that reminded me of him away. Anything. I met new people, talk about anything that was bothering me to my best friend

Q: I am a dark, pessimistic, negative person. I feel totaly hopeless and that both the good and evil forces are against me. I try to be the positive, outgoing type, but that realy isnt me. Im realy pained inside with doubt and hiddin secrets. I have a crush on someone and today I was thinking about the girl, the way she acts when I flirt with her, the way she is so outgiong. Those happy, warming feelings turned cold. I have been doubtful about myself, I feel like I cant start a close relationship, not even a close friendship. Its more than that, but it would take forever to explain things. I feel weak and helpless. Can you help me?
--Caden--
Sounds like you have low-self esteem. Does your mom know about this? You might just need to take some pills or something to help you. Im sure your a great, and loving person! And if u relize how you are then you have a strong enough will to change what you don't like about yourself. I would just think before you do anything and think what you say. Anyways! jUST dont doubt yourself. DOnt feel bad that it takes awhile to build up a relationship and a friendship cuz those things take time. Exspeacially a relationship


trixxie

Q: what is a scene person or whatever. like the label. or whatever its called. =] j/w. thanks. i have an idea wat it means but im not sure.
Its just another label. Like emo. Basically the same thing. The longer straight black hair swept to the side. They wear tight pants. Alot of them are in cali.

Q: my gf talks all the time on the phone about wanting to have sex and stuff, but when we're together she doesnt seem like it at all...any ideas? im sort of confused here
Thats a very confusing thing. Talk to her about it on the phone adn see why she isnt talking about it in person

Q: OMG I just had the worst night ever at my job. Well I work in a large superstore in the clothing department. This lady wanted someone in the toy section to help her take down a game on the top shelf. I told her I'd help find someone from that department to assist her. Well I couldnt find anyone and then she started to get really mad at me. I was under a lot of pressure so I phoned the manager of the store. He said that no one showed up for work in the toy department that night, so no one could help her. Then I told him how mad she was and then he got mad at me and said "what what does she expect us to do??" and then I tried to calm him down and then he said he would send someone to help her. Well finally someone came down to help her but I'm really worried that I'll be in trouble for what I did. I didn't know what else to do, so I felt phoning the manager was the only option I have. Also, I have to be at work tomorrow and I'm terrified the store manager is going to complain about me to my supervisor. Does anyone have any advice? And do you think I'm in a lot of trouble?
I highly doubt your in trouble. Its gone and past and im sure you will be fine. If u do get into trouble then you should tell him what you told us. It was the only option you had left.

what superstore do u work at?

Q: Lately when I have been going to pee, which seems to be more and more often, it hurts and I can't control it. I'm not sure what it is, but if you help me out, I'll rate high!
You most likely have an infection you might have to go ot hte dr. and get that checked out before it gets any worse

Q: does anyone know the lyrics to the sog kirsten dunst sings for her play audition in the movie get over it? or just the title of the song.
~thanks
http://www.lyricsxp.com/album/g/get_over_it_soundtrack.html



hope thats it

go to the way bottom

Q: I recently got a new computer and I downloaded limewire on it. I have been using Limewire for about 3 years now and i have never had any type of problems with it. But last night I was trying to download a CD for my boyfriend and I would type in a song and hit search and Limewire would just close. And I would click on the icon and open it again and it would close on it own. Why is Limewire doing this? Do I have a bug in my program? I have also uninstalled Limewire and then re-installed it but nothing fixes this. Thanks for any help. also what other programs are good for downloading music.
Im thinking your right on your bug problem. I would see if one of your parents can try and figure it out. You may have to restart it to when you try this

Q: okay i want to know, how do you know when your in love? ive likes this guy from the first time ive met him. we never talked. but i mean.. well we kinda did. but it was more with staring and talking through people. and its been 5 months since ive last seen him. but ive liked him for 7 months.. and i dono i just feel this thing with him thats un-explainable. (im 15/f by the way)
but would u say i could be in love? and what do you think love is?
http://www.ask.com/web?o=0&qsrc=19&q=signs+of+love


theres a site for signs of love!!


Good luck!!

My main description of love is butterflys in the tummy and always trying to look pretty for that person.

Q: || HERE iT G0ES ||
me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for about 9 months and we started having sex around our 3 months of being together..we have had sex probably 3 times everyweek since then..WE HAVE GREAT SEX..but i want to switch it up a bit..meaning i want to lead..i want to suprise him in a way..does anyone have anytips for me..i rate 5'z =]

xo0x*
http://www.ask.com/web?q=sex+tips&qsrc=0&o=0

go there


theres a whole lot of information for you!!!

Hope you guys last forever!! :)!!

Trixxi

Q: Hi,
I'm 14 and I'm a goalie and I was wonder what are some thing I can do to become better? Also, how can I have a stronger kick and punt. Also, i'll be going out for High School next year and i was wonder what are some things i should do and "train" for? Thanks any tip on soccer will help!
What i would do is go to www.ask.com and type in soccer tips. I have done this for tae kwon do and its given me a bunch of websites


good luck!

Q: I was talking to one of my guy friends about another guy that had asked me out. I told him that I had turned him down because he was a real pervert and just wanted sex. Then my guy friend said he probably masturbates every night. Right after he said that I looked at him and his face went red. Did he just accidently admit that he likes me? Why else would that have embarrassed him? He's the one that brought up the masturbating, not me.
Ha no not quite.

He probably didnt like the reaction of your fave when he said that


he probably felt emberassed for bringing that up

if you didnt laugh thats most likely what made him emberassed becuase u didnt laugh at the masterbation thing

Q: Im going to get my hair cut tomarrow.
My hair is soo boring. so im getting
Just layers and maybe bangs.

I want side swept bangs so how long do you think they should be? Any pictures? Is the whole BANG look even still "in"? Im really scared about making this HUGE change. Should I get the bangs?
Yeah tell her you want bangs that grow into your hair. They get lawyerd into your hair they are short and get longer. Those are the sort of bangs that are in these days. Not the front bangs those are sooooooo out! anyways just tell her you want them laywerd into your hair


hope u like it!



trix

Q: The other day I was listening to the radio, and this folk song came on. The guy singing it had a really bad, whiny voice, but the song was good. I forgot that radio station :-(. It had something to do with a mother and her child. I could only catch a few words"...on the Greenwood Side." Anyone know it?
http://web.ask.com/web?q=lyrics+to+%22on+the+Greenwood+Side.%22+&qsrc=1&o=0


go there and theres some info for ya

Q: okay well i have a bf and hes gone for about 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him and i barley get to talk to him. but the thing is wen hes not gone we dont talk (well barley anyway)) and the thing is im started to like this other guy. and i dont want to but then again i do becuz hes not shy unlike my bf and idk what to do im so confused right now. please help me.
well i think you should be able to talk to your bf no matter the distance between you to. I would talk to your bf about his shyness level and i would tell him that you think you should be able to talk. Because the key to a growing relationship is communication. And if he isnt talking then your relationship with him isnt going anyhwhere fast.

Q: Does anyone know symptoms for being pregnant?

Like, if I did it on Nov3?

Help.
http://web.ask.com/web?q=early+signs+of+pregnancy&qsrc=0&o=0


go there

hope i heped you out


trix

bio
bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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