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hard time


Question Posted Sunday November 20 2005, 10:03 pm

i'm having a hard time forgetting about my ex-boyfriend. we were 2gether 4 five months, and within that 5 months, i started to 'love' him. we broke up 3 months ago, but i still really do like him A LOT, but he likes somebody else. i've been trying SO HARD for the past 3 months to stop thinking about him, but everytime i try, there's always something that stops me from it: memories of us 2gether always 'flashbacks' in my mind.

how can i 4get about him??


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xHC0Barbi3x answered Monday November 21 2005, 10:36 pm:
♥ I know how you feel. But it wasnt as intence as that. iF you were actually seriously " in love " in with him. Its nearly impossible to stop loving someone if your feeling are that strong.
It could have been puppy love.
You just really need to focus on things you enjoy doing. Girls nights are the best. They really help you just focus doing what you love doing with your friends. Get rid of things that remind you of him. But make sure you dont just make yourself think your over him. Not a good idea. It comes back to you hard and heavy.
It will take awhile to get over him. Just focus on YOU and what YOU like doing.
If your at party or some get together... Flirt with guys..be yourself. He should NOT stop you from having a good time

Good luck! ♥

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here2help1143 answered Monday November 21 2005, 8:33 pm:
you sound exactly like my friend katie!, there is not much to tell you, your love sick, do something to remind him of the times you two have spent together, past memories will make him realize that he wants you back, hope i could help,feel fre to e mail me about this, i would like to know how things work out with you two,

Jasmine,

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday November 21 2005, 11:42 am:
Well i went out with someone for a 11 months So i defintly understand how you feel. What i did was put pictures, anything that reminded me of him away. Anything. I met new people, talk about anything that was bothering me to my best friend

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ThugGirl041790 answered Monday November 21 2005, 12:26 am:
Hmmm..This is a tuffy..
Well getting over boyfriends is always hard ofr us females..Our emotions take over us so freakin easy and i hate it.. We don`t deal with breakups good at all.. Tryin to forget about him is deff. going to take awhile.. Maybe try hanging out with friends or joining a sport to get your mind off him will make the time go by faster and before you know it puff he`ll be forgotten.. *well not forgotten but maybe you won`t think about him so much*..

I`d wouldn`t ever suggest moving on to another relationship cuz that could just lead to another broken heart and then you`d keep continuing to more broken hearts to forget about a guy.. *Hope that made sense* ♥ Dez

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