lately i've been hanging out with alot of the upperclassmen guys because of one of my friends. well guy 1 i flirt with cuz ik he'll flirt back, not to be a tease but to be fun and come off as an outgoing person. this person actually turns out to like me and i feel bad now though because i dont have those kind of feelings for him. the person i do like, Guy 2, is also an upperclassmen who happens to be good friend with Guy 1, and also my friend likes him. well at her house last night guy 2 and some other people were over and he wasnt talking to my friend like he normally does instead he was talking to me alot, i dont know if you would call it flirting, but i guess in some way it was. well i dont want my friend to be mad at me but i also want to know what guy 2 thinks of me. and if there is something there then how do i go about it with out hurting guy 1?? what should i do??
Additional info, added Monday November 21 2005, 11:44 pm: i've been trying less and less to flirt with guy 1 rather than just be nice to him, but he makes his flirting so obvious that idk what to do! i feel bad for regecting him but then i dont want him mad at me so im nice and he mistakes that for flirting!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? here2help1143 answered Monday November 21 2005, 8:39 pm: wow, tricky, i'm in this situation too, only slightly different, this is inevitable, hurting guy 1 is not an option, or you could go out with him for a little while then break up, but this will crush him, and make guy 2 think you like guy 1, don't be afrid to flirt with guy 2 but don't toy with guy 1, especially when guy 2 and your friend is there, flirt with guy 2 when your friend is not around, but don't do somethig drastic that will come back and hit you in the face later on down the road. try to get a friend of guy 2 that is also friends with you to ask him him about you for you, who knows you guys could end up going out, let me know how this turns out, hope i could help, good luck!
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