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okay well i have this friend who im like super close to, and i have known him for almost a year now. i like really love this kid. but anyways we always say we love eachother and (he lives in nj and i live in ny) he says that when he gets his car we're gunna "have some fun" and all that kind of stuff. and today he just told me that he fooled around with one of his friends and now everbody hates him. and i cant help but be mad because i really like him and now im kindof mad at him. Im going to call him in a lil bit so we can actually talk but should i be mad at him .. if you were in my shoes would you be mad. i liek REALLLYYYY like him (more than a friend). plzz help. i rate high..*
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You have no right to be mad at him. He was not your boyfriend. You can, however, be bummed and upset. You like him and thought that he had feelings for you as well. To hear that he messed around with someone else is not fun. I don't understand why everyone would hate him, to mess around it should be a mutual thing, correct? It is not going to be the be all to end all, so I would be a true friend to this guy and support him. All of his friends "hate" him now, for what isn't a very good reason in my opinion, he probably needs to hear from someone who isn't going to be pissed with him. You can tell him that you are hurt, see what his reaction is.
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Yes i`d be mad but in a jealously way.. thats probably how your feeling..You shouldn`t be mad becuz well he`s not your boyfriend..I`d tell him how you feel *liking him and everything* not about him messing with a girl.. Maybe he`ll respect how you feel better if you mentioned how you feel and he won`t tell you those things.. ♥ Dez
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