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HEY GUYS. I figure i know a lot about advice. I have been threw a lot from family violence and growing up in environments with a lot of stress and stuff to relationships and sex questions. i have had my best friends move away, feel the pain of a lost love one, feel the hurt of loving some one so much it kills, and many different levels of love, pain, sorrow, and CONFUSION! so just ask away ill try to helps ya out ;D later

Hey so Its been a while since I have been on here just wanted to update a little.
I have had a few more life experiences. I have a best friend new to my life as of a few years ago now and she is amazing. I couldn't ask for some one better.I lost my first love from stupid choices i made and now am trying things a little differently i won't do the same stupid stuff as before. Hit me up ID LOVE TO HELP!!
Oh and I started college :)

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Do guys just want girls who are hot? Or something more?

it depends on the guys. some guy who are pigs only like girls who are hot. some look deeper than that at the persons kindness and stuff. some don't care they just want a girl . so there all diff. hope i helped.
Andie

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Every night for the past week or two, I've been having really bad nightmares. Two of the nights I've had nightmares that I was in a car accident. The other two nights, I've had dreams that I killed someone I love and tried to hide their body, then realized what I did was wrong and felt scared and guilty. I looked everywhere online to find out what these dreams mean and why I keep having them. Can someone tell me what all of this means? I rate 5's for all answers.

you unconshance mind is your dreams and dreams are eather what you want the most or fear the most so that is someting you fear and you might feel thretend by something at home or in your life. one of my friends sais "manby you told a recent lie and all your dreams are trying to hide from the bad thing you have done." like the guilt in you is running away in to your dreams running from the honosty and running from your conshance. hope we helped
Andie

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my bf gave me a hickey on tuesday and it hasnt lightened at all or anything..i mean its VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust me they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help

wear makeup on it, or a head band on your neck or a joker.

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What are signs of a boy liking you??? Cause i like this one boy but i dont know if he feels the same way!!

all guys are diff. you can't tell from one thing or another . one guy may be shy and another may be forword and just tell you he likes you its all diff. some times they may stare at you .

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ok im 13/f well about a year ago i went online to a chat room and was super bored and said does anyone want to talk..and this kid imed me hes 14 and we talked for 6 hours straight that night and not anything at all sexually..well ive been talking to him and he helps me out with my problems and i help him out with his...and i really really like him i dont want to tell him this because he lives far away..and hes not one of those creeps ive seen his myspace and hes had friends and all... should i tell him i like him or keep this to myself??

i think you should drop hints. let him know your intrested but not to interested because if he does not feel the same he may flip and if he does then go from there hope i helped. Andie

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Is "Another Suitcase In Another Hall" from EVITA a good audition song for a 13-year-old girl?

i just read the lyrics and i am 14 and I like it i think it is great. hope i helped.
Andie

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employment withheld my last weeks wages because i did not give a weeks notice i only worded for two weeks .can he do this

my dad said ( he is a lawyer) but i don't know how much help this will be . it depends on who you work for . so i guess he can but i think he / she eventualy must pay you for your hours. hope i helped
Andie

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Is there any makeup that makes your eyes look bigger?

eyeliner can if you open your eys wide when wereing it but not to wide that is just scary liqued eyeliner is darker than regular but some people can't were liquid eye liner hope i helped ok .
Andie

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I'll rate 5's... Alright well Monday i was sick with a stuffy nose and a sore throat. I was still sick Tuesday but I went to school. I felt fine Wednesday and Thursday. But Friday night my throat hurt everytime I swallowed. I woke up Saturday morning at 5AM and I felt so sick; I still do ; I have a wicked headache, My throat hurts, my nose is stuffy, and my stomach hurts. Do you know what this is ?? How can I get better ??

it may be the flue you should probably go to the doctor and tell you mother or father that same thing. stay in bed watch TV and each soup .like chicken noodle soup is good. hope you get better.
Andie

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hey well my ex b/f broke up with me like a month and a half ago and i still like him...the only reason we broke up is b/c of the distance of where we live. i know nothing can happen between us b/c of this but i just want to know if he still likes me like i still like him. should i tell him i like him next time i talk to him? i have a feeling if i told him he might tell me how he felt...what should i do???????? i'll rate high for no smart answers!!!
xo xo xo xo xo xo thanx in advance

ok me and my friend or going to answer together ok i think you should stay friends and then work your way back up if you want but keep droping hints you still like him. my friend sais "i think she should ask him that if they broke up b/c of the distance or of the relationship " I love his advise to ok well hope we helped. Andie and Tizzle

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What are some good game websites?? Like games i can play online.

addictinggames.com is fun. Hope i helped
Andie

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ive been trying to put my limewire songs onto my itunes for awhile now, and nothings worked! ive tried dragging the songs, but whenever i do that thing with a circle and a line going through shows up. ive also tried putting the limewire songs onto a cd and then putting them onto itunes, but that didnt work either. on my itunes a new playlist opened that says "my limewire tunes" and i cant figure out how to transfer those songs onto my itunes library. please help!!! i rate

i asked one of my friends who is good at that kind of stuff and this is what they said " in "file" on the top left corner click it and scroll down to "add folder to library" and then find the folder w/ all your songs from limewire its probably one of the folders under "limewire"
-Advise From TizzLE
PEAce "
that was what i friend told me . hope he helped.
Andie

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you see the is this girl that im going out with and really likeher and im sure she likes me too... and i was just wondering when is it the right time to give the kiss.

its diff for each girl in each relations ship but ask her

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r u gay

dum but . no

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okay kids i gota ? do you think paola (or the americanized version , paula) is a mans name ???

no i think its a girls name cus in spanish something that ends with an A is female and it sounds feminin.

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Sorry if this is to long for you, i just need some help. My mom has been having problems with her health lately, and she has not been doing very well. She went to the doctors about 5 days ago and she found out that she might have cancer but they are still checking, the thing is she won't know until monday or later and i don't think i can wait that long. They think she might have cancer because she has blood in her urine. It is not visible blood but they do know that it is in there. They have checked her for other things such as urinary track infection and they do not believe it is that, and i am really worried. The doctor says she is extremely scared that it is cancer. I live with my mom, i dont know what i would do with out her. If you have any info about what type of cancer this maybe if it is cancer please let me know, and i know this may sound incredibially cheesy but if you could pray for my mom that would be a huge help to. It seems like everything in her life for her has been messing up lately, and i just want things for her to be better. I would appreciate it, if you did not send me back things calling me stupid because i am doing this, i'm just a worried daughter afraid of loosing basicially her everything. Thank you so much, i rate 5's for anyone who even attempts to help.

OMG i am soooooo sorry i know what your going threw my close close ant died 2 years ago from cancer. WOMEN ARE FITTERS they don't give up. so i bet you mom will be fitting what ever she has. i will keep her in my prars. also i resently lost my grandfather (my ants dad/ my dads dad) he did of a strock but i still know what that streas and scared feeling is like i wish her luck on getting back to helth.

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i liked him.
and now hes an ass.
and he liked my bestfreind.
and he just wants to have sex with me.
PLEASE HELP.

DON'T LET HIM USE YOU don't ever let a guy use you and if you know that he is like that warn your friend protect her . don't let him get to her. you better than him so is he . just remeber that.hope i helped
Andie

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I've always loved dance and my world basically revolves around it. I dance at my studio that I've been at for about 7 years and I'm on my high school drill team. I'm now a senior in high school and my drill coach has made my love of dance a pain in the ass. She is constantly ridiculing us and telling us how bad we are! And, because of her I've not only dread going to drill practice but dancing at my studio as well. :/


My mom thinks that I'm using my coach being a bitch for an excuse on why I want to quit. Do you think that one person can ruin the thing you love for you? Or is it just me not wanting to dance anymore?

both i think one person can ruin it for you i know well i swim had had on a competitive swim team since i was like 5 or 6 and like i did not get back into it this summer so it just sliped away and i was getting tired of it and you can take a brake from what you love cus i loved swimming but don't do what i did if you take a brake YOU HAVE TO FORCE YOURSELF BACK INTO IT. I did dance 2 but i just droped everything this year. so don't let that lady ruin it for ya just have fun work on what she sais to work on but still remeber it is not woth losing the love of it to just be her perfect little star. hope i helped
Andie

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ok well i always feel like i'm getting fat in my legs and i know i'm not but i feel it and the only work-out that i get is from cheerleading and besides that i'm eating like crazyy well not fruit i should say and i always think about going anerxioc and i even try but then i feel sick and about to throw up and so do you have any tips to get me motivated to work out and stop eating junk food and start eating healthy...or any like sites to help me loose weight or at least become skinny b/c all my friends are like really tiny or at least l0 pounds lighter and everytime we liek do piggy back rides or something i'm never the one being picked up b/c i weigh 90 pounds and i just feel like i need to lock myself up someplace and not eat...i'll rate 5's for any answer!! please help me b/c i'm going to start to not eat so help me quick!! please

e-mail this lady she gives great advise and can really help no1left2understand@yahoo.com.

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Okay, I'm not going to say any names but i had a friend named bob. me and him have been best friends since the 6th grade and we are both in the 8th. well i have a best friend named SUSIE. Me and susie used to be the ONLLYYY ones he cared for, and we were the "loves" of his life. I know he meant it, and i know he loved us more than anything because he would ALWAYS show it. well anyways me and him were closer than him and susie were and well he cared about me SO MUCH that he would always be around me, sit next to me, worry about me, how my day was and etc; well i talked to him about it about 3 times and every time i did, his heart practically shattered. well anyways i TOTALLY understands where he's coming from because i know how it feels like to be lost. he found a new girl and i know her too. her name is JULIE. well her and julie were getting hella close, and i talked to him about how i felt ( in a note)and he came up from behind me when i was sitting down and he whispered in my ear" no one can EVER take your place" but yeah yeah he says all these things about he loves me so much and he wouldnt know what to do if he lost me, but im so confused because all his away messages say " i love you julie more than anything, your the only thing i care about" blah blah blah, then why does he tell me he still loves me? and im so confused because he always tells me " im the best" and yet i see his comments on myspace telling that to every other girl .., what i'm trying to say is i dont know if i should get closer to him like i was, or if i should get away from him and let him worry about me, or if i should just not talk to him until he talks to me. im hella confused and if you can help me, great. their is alot more to this story so please IM me, but still respond to this on his website!


my aim is : le internett
thanks so much guys!

say close to him but still make him worry a little and then tell him i still feel like i am loseing you.... and like how you feel and that you feel he is ignoring the fact you feel taht way and stuff. also IM me if you wana talk SuperGir369.
I hope i helped
ps. i am also in 8th grade i am 14. you can call me Andie

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