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did i ruin it?
Okay, I'm not going to say any names but i had a friend named bob. me and him have been best friends since the 6th grade and we are both in the 8th. well i have a best friend named SUSIE. Me and susie used to be the ONLLYYY ones he cared for, and we were the "loves" of his life. I know he meant it, and i know he loved us more than anything because he would ALWAYS show it. well anyways me and him were closer than him and susie were and well he cared about me SO MUCH that he would always be around me, sit next to me, worry about me, how my day was and etc; well i talked to him about it about 3 times and every time i did, his heart practically shattered. well anyways i TOTALLY understands where he's coming from because i know how it feels like to be lost. he found a new girl and i know her too. her name is JULIE. well her and julie were getting hella close, and i talked to him about how i felt ( in a note)and he came up from behind me when i was sitting down and he whispered in my ear" no one can EVER take your place" but yeah yeah he says all these things about he loves me so much and he wouldnt know what to do if he lost me, but im so confused because all his away messages say " i love you julie more than anything, your the only thing i care about" blah blah blah, then why does he tell me he still loves me? and im so confused because he always tells me " im the best" and yet i see his comments on myspace telling that to every other girl .., what i'm trying to say is i dont know if i should get closer to him like i was, or if i should get away from him and let him worry about me, or if i should just not talk to him until he talks to me. im hella confused and if you can help me, great. their is alot more to this story so please IM me, but still respond to this on his website!
my aim is : le internett
thanks so much guys! <3
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say close to him but still make him worry a little and then tell him i still feel like i am loseing you.... and like how you feel and that you feel he is ignoring the fact you feel taht way and stuff. also IM me if you wana talk SuperGir369.
I hope i helped
ps. i am also in 8th grade i am 14. you can call me Andie
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hey, well of course stay close to him.
Things are changing, he now likes this other girl as a girlfriend. he likes you as a friend. There is nothing wrong with that.
You just have to accept the fact that you are not the only girl in his life now, sure you two will still be really good friends, but he will probably be hanging out with julie a lot more, and that shouldn't be a problem.
Sounds like you like him more than a friend, maybe try explaining to him how you feel.
Good Luck with everything, I hope I helped
♥ Allie x0x
Hey, no I wouldn't be offended, he means this in two different ways i'm sure. He probably thinks your awesome and knows that you will always be there for him and your a great friend and stuff, as to when he says it to her he probably just means it with a little more feeling sexually, if you know what i mean?
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