My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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Hello My Name Is Rachel. I'm 13. Im dating this kid name Bret. Hes amazing and exstremly cute!!! But I'm worriedd.... cause sooo many girls like him and i'm worried that he'll go to one of them instead of me... I mean i do get jealous really easily but still. Because it just seems like everyone thinks hes cute and they all like him but i dont want to loose him... and i also get really jealous when other girls talk to him and I just dont want to loose him and i dont know what to do? HELP PLEASEE! (link)
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Hey. you just have to trust him thats a big part in a relationship : TRUST . Also dont get extremely jealous so that it gets on his nerves because then he will leave you. Just be calm about it and tell him how you feel. If he really likes you (which i would hope he does) then he wont care about them other girls. Also dont hang around him everytime girls are around or dont give them dirty looks. This will become annoying to him and make you seem clingy. Hope i helped! if you have any questions leave one in my inbox!
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i get along with this guy n iv liked him for a fook of a long tym.. he knows i like him i guess and im always thinking about him, then i think im pathetic for liking him, but we've done stuff, and when we hang out its great fun, but i dont think he is interested, but iv learnt from making assumptions. And i think id rather not talk to him because i hate the thought of him not tlkn to me, i would love to talk to him about it, do i talk to him about it and put my self in that silly situation of if any thing could hav happened it wouldnt any more (link)
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the best thing to do is talk to him about it. Yes you may come off a little silly about it but hes the only one you can get the exact information from. But if you'd rather not then thats okay to, but eventually it will eat at you because your going to want to know. If you dont have the nerve to ask him then get a friend to or someone that you trust. Good luck!
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sorry if this is difficult but im 13 (almost 14) and have never had a boyfriend. My firends tell me all the time im beautiful and i dont think im ugly or anyhting. the thing is ive had offers and stuff, but never really felt like i should be doing it. maybe its form my parents influence but up until now i didnt see anyhting wrong with it. whenever i think about it makes me feel as if no guys want me and that something is wrong with me and then i start to cry and feel really bad about myself?
what im asking is 3 questions
1. is there something worng with me?
2. should i be doing something to help me get a boyfriend
3. what things do i do? (link)
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1. no there is not anything wrong with you
2. theres not really anything you can do but be more out there and seem interested in someone.
3. find a boy u like dnt jus grab the first available one. find one you like and flirt with him
there couldnt be anyting wrong with you if youve had offers it probably just didnt seem right at first but now it does. also dont feel like you need a bf just because everyone has one or your friends have one. the right one will come around when its time. hope i helped! if u need anything else leave one in my inbox!
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so I got a 2nd hole on the lobe of my ear 6 weeks ago, and it's time for me to finally take it out.
but I try to remove the backing, and it's being stubborn && won't come off!
are there any tricks to help me get it off?
thank you in advance!! (link)
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i had that same exact problem..like the person said before twist and pull on it..or just get an adult or sibling to help u get it out..thats about the only way
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I downloaded AIM triton and I really want to uninstall it but whenever i go to the uninstall list it doesnt show up. My dad is wicked mad because now when he goes on the internet its the AOL browser. I really need help because I dont know where to uninstall it because it's not on the uninstall list. (link)
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go to start, control panel , and add/remove programs. Everything on your computer is under there you should be able to find it there. Hope i helped! any questions just leave one in my inbox
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13/f. I know that around here there are loads of moronic girls saying stuff like "OmG diS gUy iS soOoOo hOT i wANt hiM! aM i iN luV???!!!" Now, I know that teenagers generally don't fall in love, but is there anything wrong with being
"infatuated" with someone? The way many people talk about it, they make it sound like a bad thing. Is it a bad thing? Because, I'm "infatuated" with someone right now. I try not to take it too seriously, but sometimes I can't help it... (link)
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Theres nothing wrong with being infatuated or in love with someone. There is no appropriate age that you can fall in love it just happens. Its not a bad thing so dont worry.
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Is it possible for someone to stop growing breasts at 13? i started when I was 8, and I'm 32A (link)
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no your boobs are just taking their time to grow. You dont stop fully growing until your about 20.
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My boyfreind has braces. I don't, I already got them off. We haven't kissed yet, but I'm sure we will. The thing is, is it harder to kiss a guy with braces? Is it more risky? Could my lips get stuck on his braces or can my tongue? Does it hurt? (link)
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lol no..its not that different from kissing a guy who doesnt have braces. All those shows you have seen people get their tongues or lips get stuck to braces its never actually happened in the real world, as far as ive heard. So dont worry and have fun. Hope i helped!
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hey everybody. My friend was dating her bf for a year and a few months and they had already decided their wedding date, childrens names, where they would live, ect. They just recently "went on a break" and then broke up completely, but they are still going to get married, as planned, the summer after she graduates high school. I told them that if they can't be together in a dating relationship then how where they going to do in a marriage but to them this makes sense. What do you think about this? (link)
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i agree with you totally if they cant commit now how will they for the rest of their lives. But it might be one of those teen love things where you talk about how everything is going to be when your grown and it never turns out that way. But i agree with what you said 100%
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Lately i have been crying all the time. I have been feeling overwhealmed and sensitive to everything. i used to be so happy and laughing all the time and now i havn't laughed for ages and cry over everything. I read about similar symptoms in a amgazine and it said that the symptoms mean i could be depressed. Is that true and if it is what should i do? I feel so down all the time and upset. Please help (link)
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it could be depression but it could also be stress. I read in a book that crying and sleeping helps relieve stress. I was going through the same thing last month but after crying and sleeping alot i feel alot better. THe only way to figure out if its depression is to of course go to the doctor. But it may be depression considering its close to the end of the school year and so much is taking place. Hope i hlped!
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i was wonder what plan,phone company or whatever has like long distance free ?
thank you (link)
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It depends on the phone company but all phone companys offer free long distance just ask them which plans it comes with but it might cost a little more with free long distance but in the long run your actually saving. Hope i helped
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I just made the volleyball team and I would like to know these two questions:
1) Can you always see panties under the spandex? Because I only have 3 Thongs and I'll have practice everyday and my mom doesn't even know I have the thongs.
2)When your on your period is a pad visible? I'm not comfortable with tampons, I just got my period a few months ago.
Thanks guyss! (link)
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i play vball so the answer would be no..if u wear black spandex it should be fine.. but the underwear lines could be visible. As for the pads no they wont show just wear whatever your comfortable in the team is all girls anyways. Also you dont even have to wear spandex to practice everyday. Just wear them with shorts over incase the coach decides she wants you to, but our coach doesnt make us wear them to practice only games. Hope i helped!
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Ive been really good friends with a guy for like 10 years, ever since we were 5. Lately, idk we're talking a lot more and getting along really well. Hes going to a dance with me and seems really excited. I told him one of my Lenten goals was to go to stations of the cross every friday night, and tonight he showed up too. I talked to him after and hes like "Oh, I decided to copy you:)" When he saw me he got this big smile on his face. Now my friends think he likes me. I like him. Does he like me? And how can i let him no i like him without actually telling him? (link)
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theres not a sure way of telling. But it sounds like he does just ask him sometime be like who do you like if he asks you just tell him that you like him theres nothing to lose. I would definitaly ask him. As for letting him know without telling him just flirt with him and stuff if hes smart he will catch on. Hope i helped!
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okay so i go tanning in a tanning bed. does anyone know how to get tan really fast? either laying fae up or face down if theres a differnce or what kinda of tanning lotion to use? (link)
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the best results ive seen are by stand-up tanning and not by laying on the bed. there is no actual way to tell u which way is to get tanner quicker because it depends on the persons body and the person. The best tanning lotions are anything of banana boat and dark tanning oils. Baby oil helps to but i dont believe you can use that in tanning beds. Hope i helped
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i go to a tanning salon before dances, and i've been going every other day for about 3 weeks. i've been using the same lotion for about 3 weeks also. i went tanning yesterday, and today i woke up with these little bumps all over my thighs and stomach. they aren't red, but they are itchy and you can feel them if you run your hand over my skin. i'm not sure what they are - is it sunpoisioning from tanning too often? or maybe im allergic to the lotion? but i used it all over my body and there are only bumps on my thighs and stomach. what could this be? (link)
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It may be sunpoisioning but theres only one way to tell go to the doctor if they dont clear up in about 2 days then id go or if the itch gets worse. Also your tanning to much and this could cause serious problems, not to scare you or anything but my friend went about the same amount you do and she had passing out spells and almost died in a car accident from passing out and it was all from tanning to much. Id chill with the tanning go maybe like once a week or twice not every other day thats way to harmful. Hope i helped
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alright well me and my friend got into some trouble at the mall cause she convinced me to steal a shirt and i did and got caught and they asked her if she had anything and she did but she lied and said no then they asked her if she had anything to do with me and she lied and said no so i got into trouble for her. and ever since then which was on Tuesday - last week, we have been fighting but like i made this modeling thing and we were talking about it and i kinda miss being friends with her. but i promised my mom and my friends not to be friends with her because she got me into trouble. i need help. i dont know whether to not fight with her and have people dissapointed in me or to just give up on her.. ahh please help =[ (link)
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well..she obviously not a friend because true friends dont let friends get in trouble and besides she lied about it all. Honestly i would say get rid of her..but if you can get her to apologize and mean it then be friends with her if you really want to its up to you i know its hard to get rid of a friend. Good luck!
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I want to get my belly button pierced yet I do not know where to go. Also I am 14 is that a problem? Does the piercing work like when you get your ears pierced, you can just slide the ring in and out? Do they pierce your navel like they pierce your ears, if not then how? Thanks! (link)
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The places vary by where you live but if you have a place called Good Times in your area their perfect. Your going to need an adult to sign for you (just like you did your ears) because you are underage. They dont use a gun to pierce your bellybutton its a clamp kind of similar but its the opposite. I dont think the weight thing would matter everyone has their different opinions on how a piercing like that looks. Good luck!
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how do you make a myspace private? (link)
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i believe you go to edit my profile..basic info and change the age to under 16 or so. i cant exactly remember hope i helped
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hi,i was just wondering what kind of books you would recamend if i liked books that involved teenage love,drama,and most of all best friends wanting to become lovers who are generally a teen.
any of those if fine but i get interested in teen romance stuff.thanks (link)
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Any book by Sarah Dessen is perfect. She is an amazing author. She wrote books like:
Someone Like you
Keeping the Moon
This lullaby (amazing book)
shes written alot of books, shes an author that i would definitaly recommend to anyone.
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When i get older i want to do stuff like CSI, Forensic files, && Like find out who murder people. And you know its pretty much all scientiftic.
I need help to know what exactly I may need to know, like topics like chemistry? and stuff.
Any tips, on what i can do to know things about it.
I mean i watch the tv shows, all day, and stuff.. but any more tips to improve me, for when i really do go to college scince im young enough now to start paying better attention, to what i want.
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aww we wanna do the same thing! =] but yeahh..basically just do what you have been doing, although throw some Law & Order into it if you dont already watch that. You got to be good at asking questions and really paying attention to how people answer to see if they are telling the truth or not. If you want to be a detective(thas what im getting from this question) then you dont really need to know alot about chemistry but it would help. You also need to be able to use a computer pretty well and know your way around on it. You should have good map reading skills also that way tou can find your way around town and such things. These are things ive heard there are probably many more. But just pay attention in all your subjects at school and in the end it will pay off. As for college i would recommend going to a college just for criminal justice that way you get all the courses you need to qualify but if you want to go to a regular college either one works. Good luck!!
p.s hope i helped a little bit
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