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alright well me and my friend got into some trouble at the mall cause she convinced me to steal a shirt and i did and got caught and they asked her if she had anything and she did but she lied and said no then they asked her if she had anything to do with me and she lied and said no so i got into trouble for her. and ever since then which was on Tuesday - last week, we have been fighting but like i made this modeling thing and we were talking about it and i kinda miss being friends with her. but i promised my mom and my friends not to be friends with her because she got me into trouble. i need help. i dont know whether to not fight with her and have people dissapointed in me or to just give up on her.. ahh please help =[
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Well, if she was a real friend she wouldn't have gotten you into trouble and gotten herself uninvolved when she was involved. Maybe she will mature when she gets older, just wait it out until she confronts you.
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Okay, I know you miss her, but think about it..... she convinced you to break the law and then ditched you.... is that what a REAL friend does???
My advice is to stay true to your promise and not be friends with her but find someone who can be a true friend.
Best Wishes!
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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Well, for one, she got you into trouble, convinced you into doing something you and her both knew would get you into trouble, AND, she lied to get you in more trouble. I would just forget about her. If she has habits like stealing & lying, just DROP her like a hot potato. She's definitely no good. And it's better to drop her than to have the ones you love be disappointed in you. She's not a true friend anyways.
&TiNA;
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Just because you don't want to be or can't be friends with her, doesn't mean you can't be friendly. You can just as easily avoid all fighting and arguing and not be friends. Talk about normal things? Sure why not. Hang out together outside of school? Maybe...maybe not. Keep things neutral between you and her if that makes sence. Don't label her as your friend, but not as your enemy either, kind've just one of those people you know but don't really talk to. You wouldn't be fighting with her and you wouldn't be letting other people down. Now as to if you really did want to be her friend, that is up to you. You need to think things out and decide if what happend was something that can be overlooked in a friendship and if you are willing to go through something like that again. Not saying it will, but it happend before, so it could happen again. I won't make the decision for you, but personally I would stay away because from what you've said, not only did she betray you, but she hasn't shown any apparent signs of wanting to be your friend again either. Hope that helped and good luck.
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well..she obviously not a friend because true friends dont let friends get in trouble and besides she lied about it all. Honestly i would say get rid of her..but if you can get her to apologize and mean it then be friends with her if you really want to its up to you i know its hard to get rid of a friend. Good luck!
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