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how do i get my own advice column...? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Register and start asking questions. Looks like you already registered... now just click "answer a question" underneath the question you'd like to asnwer. To see your advice column go where it says "Welcome ___" underneath i'll say "Inbox, Favorites, Categories, Your Advice Column." Click on Your Advice Column to see the questions you have answered and see your feedback. Or go to: http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=Cath (except replace my username at the end: "Cath" with your username.)
Good luck! Have a really nice day.(my finger tips are freaken cold...) ~Blessed Be...
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Last night i went to the movies with this guy i like. He didnt make a move on me so i desided to just hold his hand. Well after the movie he walked me to my car and i kissed his cheack good night. He texted me later and told me how hott i looked. I'm not really sure if he likes me or is just kinda using me. I want to be more than just friends with him, i want to be his girlfriend. But i dont know how to, what should i say to him or ask him to move to the next level? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
From what you told me I see no reasons why he'd be using you. But if you have your personal reasons you didn't mention then maybe. He didn't make a move... was this like a first date or anything? ...You held hands so... were his palms sweaty or anything? If this was a first date or... if you're not officially a coupple maybe he was too nervous or has too much respect for you to be all over you like that. (That or he was tooo into the movie, l.o.l. if this is it then he likes ou as just a friend or he sees you like his 10-yrs-wife ... I'm just throwing this in as a joke so don't take it seriously.)
If you want to be his gilrfriend have a talk with him. It could be in one of your dates or... anytime you catch him alone... or you can schedule a date... if you're the type of person who has these conversations on the phone then you can do it on the phone. You can start the conversation with, "last night at the movies was fun. We should do that again sometime." Then ask him (if he hasn't asked you already) where he thinks you guys are. Example: Friends... friends with benefits... a coupple. Maybe he already sees you like a girlfriend. If he says you guys are just friends or something... ask him if he'd like to be more. He may be the shy type and be like "I don't know. Do you want to be more than friends?" Say yes. He'll know you like him back.
I'm sooo freaken sorry if I wasn't of help. I'm lossing it, L.O.L. I hope I did help. Or someone did. Good luck with this guy. You both sound sweet, I'm sure you'd make a cute coupple. Have a nice day. ~Blessed Be...
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does anyone know what would be a good outfit and makeup combination 4 skool dance? ill give ratings. thanxs (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Depends... what dance? Prom... homecoming... winter ball... etc. Anyway, it's winter so wear something blue or maybe even white (this is a big MAYBE).I personally would wear black... with red make up. Or red with black accessories and black make up. Yea, never mind. Don't wear white. I'd recommend blue... but a dress depends on your personality. Royal blue would be pretty... and you can polish your nails China Blue or Midnight Blue. Make up depends on your skin tone. You could wear... black eyeliner and blue eyeshadow (unless you're not ito eyeshadow then just blue eyeliner). If you're eyeliner is dark wear light lipstick.
I'm sorry... I can't think of much right now. Have a nice day! Good luck. ~Blessed Be...
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ok thers this guy that i thought i liked but he's really pushie if u know what i mean. he freaks out if i dont tell him i love him or if he thinks i didnt mean it when i hugged him... it's really weird. i feel weird talking to him now because i don't like him anymore and he thinks i still love him. we never actually went out or anything, we just went to the park together alot and played basketball and skateboarded and talked, but nothing more. besides the one time when we were sitting on a bench we... well nevermind thats a long story. and i tried to tell him the other day i didnt want to go to the movies and he started freaking out hes like "i thought you liked me! laura is there somthing you need to tell me? we have to talk don't we? theres somthing wrong." and i can't just go up to him and say "Lou, i don't like you." because hed get so mad. i don't know what i should do. (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Wow... well... this sounds like a difficult situation. ...I think you're too scared of hurting his feelings. (Sorry if I'm mistaken... I'm just assuming...) and that is sweet of you. But you have to realize the best thing to do is let him know how you feel so he an move on. I have a feeling you already know this... what you're finding difficult is actually TELLING him that he needs to move on.
The movie thing is a good example. Tell him "no I don't want to go. We do need to talk." Once you start talking he'll start assuming the worst. If he says "don't you love me" don't assure his fears. Tell him something like, "it's not that. I still care about you. But I just think we need some time apart." You don't have to say THAT but somthing a bit like that...
Once you tell him this expect him to react angry, hurt, even maybe confused. There's nothing you can do about this but deal with it. It's human nature. Give him time and space. In the end it was best for both of you.
If you're afraid he'll get physical or something do the break-up in a public place or in your porch or something (with-people inside the house).
I wish you luck. And I wish him luck as well. May you both find happiness... someway. Hope I helped. ~Blessed Be...
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ok im 13/m & im 4'9 & about 80 pounds well i wunted to know if im underweight or somthing b/c ive been like this since like the 5th grade.Im very muscular b/c i have a six pack i have big nice biceps & triceps & my legs r pretty muscular to ive played sports ever since i was 4 years old & i started working out this year.My gurlfriend says my body is fine & she loves it but i jus wunt to make sure i dont have any health problems or if im underweight. please help i'll give 5's (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
...You're probably just "normal" or "where you should be". Due to about 1/3rd of the popularity being overweight (...and the rest of them being chuncky, hehe) you may feel like you're too thin. Do not worry, as long as you're eating what you should be eating and you excerixise you're actually healthy (most people aren't healthy). Keep this up and you'll have a looong diabetis-free life! Oh and um... you'll probably weigh a lot more when you get more into your teenage years (15...17...) because you'll grow taller and you'll get more mascular and um... muscles weigh too.
Have a nice day. Best wishes!!! ~Blessed Be...
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i like two guys, and they each like me. billy i met 4 years ago and we've been super close we have tons of fun together and have been through alot together... we never thought we would have feelings for each other but recently they've developed. we just started talking about gettin together about 2 weeks ago. but jacob who goes to a different school but really likes me alot and i like him too but i think they whole different school thing would be hard... i've known him since the beginning of this school year. he has been there for me through everything and he knows all of my secrets and i know all of his. we've been in our share of fights but it made our friendship stronger. the problem is i really dont want to hurt him by going out with billy becuase he would get really upset about it . . . and i dont know if i wanna mess up me and billy's friendship if we do date and then have a bad breakup. please help!! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
It seems you want to go out with Billy more than with Jacob (I'm sorry if I'm just assuming and I'm wrong) because you say "if I go out with Billy" twice in the paragrah but not at all with Jacob. Clear your head and screw both of them for a minute. Don't consider their feelings-be selfish for just ONE MINUTE or two. This will help you clear out who YOU want to go out with. Think about why you like each guy and who do you see yourself happiest with in a relationship and who do you see yourself happiest as "just friends".
When you've done this and you're sure of who you've chosen then start considering the other guy's feelings. If both of the guys really like you then they'll want you to be happy... no matter with who it is.
Like I said I THINK you'd rather be with Billy.I personally would go with Jacob. That way I'm not risking a 4-yr relatoionship, I'm with someone who I really trust, and... well it's all up to you.
I hope you find happiness. Best wishes for all three of you! Hope someone was of help. ~Blessed Be...
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I have very clear skin.. pretty much no pimples at all.. But I do have a few small reddish pimples around the edge of my nose.. how do i get them to go away? Thanks i rate high! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
This may sound creepy or unatural... it shouldn't becase it's not THAT weird. Toothpaste. You don't even have to leave it on that long. This method has always worked for me. You'll see results instantly!
I hope your pimples go away! Have a nice day. ~Blessed Be...
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How do you go on after infidelity? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
God this is a really hard question. I must say different people have different ways. All I suggest is to let everyhing out. If you feel like crap and like you hate him then burn down his things or throw them out the window. If you're the type of person then call an operator on a phone booth and curse him out (I personally couldn't do that but... if it helps you). Talk the worst of him to your friends and your family... it doesn't matter what you do-he did worst. And this will help you to get the anger out of your system. Do anything you're morally okay with the only thing you SHOULD NEVER DO is push yourself to get over it or... pretend you're okay.
The reality is that you were better than him. He was weak. I know it's hard... it has to be. You cared about him enough for it to be. How do you go on after infidelity? You just do. One day you wake up and realize... the feelings are gone. This day won't come until you deal with what happened correctly.
Best wishes sweetie. ~Blessed Be...
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ok, why is everyone always asking 'does he/she like me?' i mean, come on, only that person knows! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
A lot of people actually know this. Most people do. Deep down they know that if someone tells them "yes he/she likes you" or "no, he/she does/n't like you" it doesn't make it true. But they try to convicne themselves and feel secure. It's something people do in a moment of deseprasion and insecurity.
Hope you know what I mean. Good night! ~Blessed Be...
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now lori and alex are going out( if u readed my other questions you know that i like alex) well anyways alex is still flirting with me and omg he stares right into my eyes forever and i stare back and its like he can read my mind. our eyes justlock with each others. he is always hitting me like just playing around and i hit him back and lori gets all mad. anyways he treats lori like shit like if he doesn't care about her and he lies to her. but thats only when i'm there with them or near them. what does this mean? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
I'm soooo freaken sorry to say this but... IT MEANS ALEX IS A FUCKEN ASSHOLE. I know you like him and it may be hard to see it that way... but I think both you AND Lori deserve a better guy. Please, PLEASE take my advice and find yourself someone nice. Whatever they do with you against his gilrfrined they'll do to you with some other girl when you're his gilrfriend. Advice Lori to find a nice guy too. She may think you're jeolous at first but then she'll thank you for it.
My best wishes to all three. I hope this guy stops being an ass and apologizes and lets both of you go. I hope you and your friend are still friends and I hope you both find really great guys (...one for each). Hope I helped. ~Blessed Be...
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Hi,
I am doing a play with a kiss scene. And the person that I happen to be kissing is my guy friend. So its really akward. I really try to make it non-akward after but somehow it just is. And I was going to do the "theatre illusion" of kissing someone but the drama teach says it looks to obvious (putting your thumbs over the person's mouth and kissing your thumbs). Is there any other way to make it illusion? so its not all akward. We already kissed for once and for real. Boy, I was mad. All my friends are like aw, you should go out with him. I mean for heaven's sake! It was a staged kiss!
Any adice?
Por Favor :)
xo0x Pucker Upp (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Just a kiss on the lips... like you were to kiss his cheeck or forehead. I personally think it would look cute. It'll look like "we don't have to make out all creepy-ishly to be in love".
About your friends... friends are bastrads that way. Just go along with the joke and they'll stop. And when they're in that situation... MAKE FUN OF THEM LIKE HELL.
I'm sorry I offered no help. Maybe the best way for you to be a better actress is just to go ahead with the actual kiss. And screw whateveryone else thinks. All cool actresses started that way.
My best wishes!!! I mean "break a leg". ~Blessed Be...
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I like this guy, but people say he's getto, and idk if thats good/bad? What does getto mean? And should I stop liking this guy, because all my friends say so. They that he's ugly, and I just don't get it. He's totally not! What should I do? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Crap... I really don't know what it means either. I think it's means "street-like" or that he grew up in the street. For him it's a good thing. Some people don't care. Some people don't like it. I personally don't get it because I choose not to. I simply keep my distance.
No don't stop liking him because your friends think he's ugly. First of all there's no garauntee you two will end up together. If you do then good for you. But I mean is that having a crush on him will help you kind of "develope taste in guys". You'll be able to make better decisions in the futre when a guy asks you out... you may even actually have a "type" of preference in guys.
All you should do is get to know him. You'll see tha maybe you don't like him for other reasons... like his personality. or you'll change your mind about him. Or you'll become good friends. OR he'll start liking YOU and... there's soms potential there. Your friends won't be the ones going out with him (at least i hope not) so if they say something superficial know it's because of their best interest for you (they want a cute guy for you) but don't pay toooo much attention to them. It's your life! (...I love that song by No Doubt)
My best wishes to you! Hope I was of help! ~Blessed Be...
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hey kelsey well im a female and im 14 and i really like this guy in my school who i went out with but he broke up with me a week after he asked me out and he said it was because he wasnt really ready for the realtionship and he didnt think i really liked him butim like in love with him after i told him that he said that he still likes me and everything but he wants to get to know me more and then go out but i think its really stupid because he already went out with me so yea i dont think its going to be any different when he get to know me more and anyways i really dont want to wait and like now when i ask him if he likes me he doesnt say yes he says may be and its pissing me off
please tell me how do i get him back because i know he likes me its just something standing on the way between us
i really need to know what should i do to get him back
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Hi Sweetie,
Let him get to know you. But your good side not your "NO, I WANT DATE NOW!" It seems like he really likes you... but... he may start not liking you. He thought you were a nice girl but he may think he was wrong. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but I mean well so please read on.
This guy may think you'll hurt him in a relationship-after all, you do sound presuring. Or he's just not ready. Starting a relationship with a person shouldn't be saying yes to some guy that walks up to you in the hallway and asks you out. I understand you would rather be dating now... but if you decide to get to know him it'll do both of you good. You may find out you are bettter off at friends. Or you may find out you actually like each other in a much more depper level than \physical attraction. Just because you guys already went out doesn't mean you don't really know eachother. Or that it won't make a difference. Trust me it will. Both of you will have something to back up your dating decisions with.
I'm not saying to wait a year. A month or two... or three (hehe). A month seems okay. Don't bring anything up for a month. Don't even ask him if he likes you. Just hang out with him and just be his "friend". Let him know all the good things about him and find out the good things about him.
After the month passes by he may be the one to ask you out. If not then bring up the "do you like me?" question. Ask him if he feels like he knows you more. I'm confident if you do this you'll win him back. And if you manage a relationship it will be stronger than if you hadn't know eachother well. And it'll be more meaningfull to you both.
I really hope you win this guy back. I wish you both true happiness! Myu best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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Okay, I like this guy we will call him M. I only have one class with him, but he sits at my table so we talk all the time. So I asked my friend K to see what he thought of me and K was like M said you were cool and he doesn't know if he like likes you and he doesn't know you that well. So I was talking to one of my friends online and hes like you should go for it and ask him out. I just don't want to get hurt again so quickly after my last crush. I don't want to rush things but I really want a b/f. What do you think I should do?
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Hi Sweetie,
God I see more than one problem. Personally I understand your feelings and motives. But... when I look at them as logicme I see it hopeless. I'm sorry for saying this sweetie but first you have to think about just what you feel for this guy. I mean it's okay to feel bummed out about a crush rejecting you or whatever but... it's not supposed to be that big of a deal. (It's more of a self-esteem thing than a loss thing.) I'm only assuming your last crush was a big deal although you didn't give details. if I misunderstood something I'm really sorry, I did not mean to.
To get hurt feeling loss you have to have an emotional attatchment. Most crushes are strict infatuation and like I said it's just a self-esteem issue when you get rejected. Not a heartbreak.
Not rushing things is good. It seems to me you're smart just... in a stage in life when you want to feel attractive and more than a friend to someone (Crap, I sound like a counsler!) What you should do is get to know the guy more.. as just friends. There may be things about him you don't like. You shouldn't settle because you deserve a nice guy. Get to know him will also give him the chance he'll get to know you. He may start liking you and he'll be asking YOU out and you'll be the one "considering" it.
Hope you find answers. Good luck! Remember: you deserve a nice guy. Best wishes to you and this guy. May you be good friends and perhaps sometime in the near future even more than that. If not may you both find happiness somehow. ~Blessed Be...
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okay i like this guy who im good friends with..i just started liking him this yr..this girl whos really good friensd with him told me that he liked me too but he said we are too good of ffriends and he doesnt wanna mess that up so hes not gunna do nething and try to get with me..the thing is, hes reallY INLOVE with this other girl who lives about an hour away..theyve loved eachother for like a yr and he tells me that he wants to marry her, etc..he flirts with me SOOO much though, like he'll tell me im his gf in a joking way and then hell be like just kidding ur my best friendddd..but he will like ALWAYS say that and put him arm around me..then ill be like haha u wish..we kid around like that n stuff...i wanna get OVER him though because there i have absolutely no chance with him bcause he still loves another girl..[they broke up awhile ago but still act like they are together]..we have 3 consecutive classes together and he always waits for me after class and we walk together to our next class, etc..we ALWAYS are partners in group assignments,etc..we are alwaysss together, talking, laughin, joking, etc..we trust eachother, etc..but i wanna get OVER HIM bcause i hate this feeling and the situation that i am like inlove with him when he doesnt realy have those feelings for me..but how am i suppose to just drop him? EVERY SINGLE DAY since the first day of single we have like a retuine..we meet up be4 our class, wait for eachother after class, laugh, joke, etc while walking to our next class, etc and it just keeps going..everyday..i dunno how to get over him if its like that when im always around him..i mean i cant just drop him..i dont wanna avoid him cause isnt that like messed up..i dunno if i should talk to him about it or what because i REALLY dont want him knowing how i feel so plzzz try and give me advice other than telling him how i feel...thanks so much and im sorry it was long.. (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
I see your conflict! Hmm... well it really does seem he only sees you as a friend (a best friend... maybe even a sister he never had but actually wanted). And I understand why you would want your space and all.
Its really not rude to tell him to give you some space o breathe (and um... get over him). It's only fair! It's not your fault he's become dependent of you and your rutine! However if you do people will see it as messed up. Why? Society is stupid that way!
Anyway a rutine... can be like an anti-depressent (I'm just giving a general example here... no connections to what you stated about his break up). You have to lower the dose S-----L----O---W--L-Y. What you'll do is slowly start keeping your distnce.
For instance, at first start talking more to another person or different people. Keep being his partner and having lunch with him and etc. Then later on plan for another friend to pick you as a partner every once in a while for something before he gets the chance to.
Slowly he'll start opening himself up to other people and accepting that you need space. Once you've manage to break free a bit you'll meet new NICE AND EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE guys who'll start getting your interest. And there's the happy ending! You don't have to loose your friend completely. And maybe seperating now will allow you to become closer and more comftrable as friends in the future... that or in the future when he's over his girlfriend (waaay in the future) he'll see you like a gilfriend-type. ...Don't get your hopes up. Just follow the first plan.
Hope I was of help. If not I hope someone was of help. Best wishes to both of you guys. ~Blessed Be...
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my friend smokes. and shes 13. she knows i hate it but still does it anyway. and in front of me too! i reli want her to stop. she stoped for a little while n nows she starting! ive treid everything! i lectured her about ive told the pl seh gets them from to not giv her ne. but its not working! how can i convince her to stop. and dont sey let her live her life the way she wants!
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Hi Sweetie,
I know you're worried about her-it's only natural! Unfortunately there comes a time when you've done all you could do. I suggest a few more efforts before waiting for her final decision (to keep smoking or to stop). After all it is HER decision.
There was a word you used I didn't really like. "Lecture". I understand why you'd do it but... I personally hate it when my friends lecture me. It's like a million times worst then when your parents or teachers do because you're frinds are supposed to... NOT lecture you. BUT I understand the issue is more delicate here... it's smoking.
Instead of telling her what smoking can cause her physically tell her... how its chnaging her. Tell her how people are noticing her odd smell (this was an example)... remind her that you care about her. You may want to share stories about people that you know who smoked and regreted it later.
After you've done all you could you'll be face with one last choice. You could tell someone (like the school councler or something). I know this sounds awful but sometimes its the best thing that could happen to you (I know, its happened to me). If you don't want to do this it's okay-I wouldn't either. What I would do is stay away and if she asks why or showed she care I'd tell her its because she smokes. Either way I'd stay away and just hope she does the right decision... perhaps from time to time remind her I'm still hoping she wants to get better.
I'm sorry I couldn't really help. I just hope somebody could. Best wishes to you and to your friend. ~Blessed Be...
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I love my BFF so much. We've known each other our whole lives. The problem is, this year, she has drastically changed. She hangs out with the 'popular' girls who smoke, do drugs, have sex, etc. She has started also to do these things. I know these girls are her friends, but they are a very bad influence on her. She used to be so brave and not care about what these girls did, she was herself. Now, I can't help missing my old best friend. She's changed the way she dresses, talks and barely even hangs out with me! I just don't know how to bring all this up to her at once, I feel like she'll get upset and be mad at me for being honest. What should I do? I need her in my life! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Let's see... well you can be honest and open. Tell her you think she's changed and you're honestly worried about her. After you give her your whys and hows about her drastic um... lets call it makeover tell her the last thing you wrote in your paragraph. You need her in your life. Oh, um, and the first. You love your best friend so freaken much (...maybe even like if she were your own sister).
If she gets mad at you or if you feel like the point comes when you've done everything in YOUR power you could to um make her a better person then let her know that you won't give up on her. You'll try to watch out for her in a distance and you'll always be willing to answer a call of an old friend and lend a shoulder to cry on if the time comes.
You can only tell her that her friends are a bad influence and that you're worried but you can't change who she chooses to hang out with and who she chooses to be. Just let her know how you feel and from that point it's all up to her. You wait patiently (but don't put your whole life on whole) and just live your life... maybe she'll realize she still wants to be part of it. Or if she doesn't you should know you did all you could do... you were too good of a friend.
My best wishes to both of you!!! May she win her friend back and may you win your friend back. ~Blessed Be...
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Does anyone know where i can get some great clothes for low prices? (Im really into jeans, sweatshirts, long sleeve shirts, knee high socks and accecories!)
14/f
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Hi Sweetie,
Do you mind thrift stores? Everything is seriously cheap. If you DO mind thrift stores (meaning oyu don't want 2nd-hand clothing) then go to Ross. Everything is sooo bloody cheap. In the downtown they also seem to have cheap stores....
For knee high socks and acecorties that y'll probably be purchasing in packets of many you should go to wholesale stores where they'll sell them to you cheaper by the dozen or half a dozen or in a wholesale prize.
Hope I helped. Best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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okay well this is a long story but ill try to cut it short... it all started last yr. when i was in 7th grade this guy asked me out and i said yes but then this rumor went around school saying i was using him and i only went out with him cause my friend bet me too.. but that was so not true but we broke up and we were still friends and stuff. Then over the summer we got really really close and hung out and talked on the phone like everyday and finally on 4th of huly he asked me out on the phone when i was watching firecrackers in the sky at my lake house (it was so beautiful) but anyways, later on that week we went to the movies and stuff and we make out and stuff.. and we had a good time and then when i got home his fiend called me saying he wanted to break up with me. i was so upset cause i had just had a great time! I cried all night & didnt sleep. his friend said he broke up with me cause he liked this other girl who lives in another city. Of course cause she was beautiful. and so from then on we both like never talked and we hated everother. but now we talk to eachother a lot and were good friends again but he's going out with one my best friends since halloween. and i'm really starting to like him again.. i dont know what to do!? HEELLPP! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
He's a asshole! (sorry, you had to hear that) But when we get our hearts set on someone its hard to realize it... You're going to have to do an effort to see wh he's an asshole. I don't care if you write reasons why in a note pad. He was probably using YOU all along. You know what? He doesn't deserve a good friend like you. SCREW HIM! Get away from him abd if he has the fucking nerve to ask why just say: YOU'RE AN ASSHOLE!!!
If you MUST feel bettter with a fake possibility then here it goes: Maybe his friend is the asshole who lead you o believe he didn't like you anymore and led him to believe you didn't like him. (Honestly I doubt it.)
I hope you realize you're a good person AND HE'S AN ASSHOLE. Best wishes to you-mayyou find happines in a good guy who actuallly deserves you. Best wishes to him-may he realize HE'S AN ASSHOLE! Hope you found answers. ~Blessed Be...
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ok my bf told me he loves me when he left a mssg on his fone but he wont say it directly on the fone or in person so i just broke the ice n sed if furst last nite when i saw him and he sed it back but i sed it as i was turnin to leave so i didnt see his reaction or nothing n we both sed it like really quietly....but then he called n he didnt say it (i didnt hear my fone ring) so he lft a mssg but he didnt say it....does it mean he didnt m ean it or he didnt wanna say it again or wat? did he only say it bak so i wouldnt get mad or somethin? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Well no, not necessarily. Maybe he didn't leave a message becase when you two said it you left so sudden and he only wanted to talk to you in person about it.
Now about him saying ti quietly... it could just mean its something serious and important to him that hewas a bit shy or something.
HOWEVER writing "I Love You" on a text message or as a signature can mean very little. Maybe he didn't really realize his feelings for you until you went ahead and said it first. And that may had been too much for him that he was speechless and his vice was quite when he said it.
I wish you two a really loooooooong happy relationship! ~Blessed Be...
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