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what should i do
hey kelsey well im a female and im 14 and i really like this guy in my school who i went out with but he broke up with me a week after he asked me out and he said it was because he wasnt really ready for the realtionship and he didnt think i really liked him butim like in love with him after i told him that he said that he still likes me and everything but he wants to get to know me more and then go out but i think its really stupid because he already went out with me so yea i dont think its going to be any different when he get to know me more and anyways i really dont want to wait and like now when i ask him if he likes me he doesnt say yes he says may be and its pissing me off
please tell me how do i get him back because i know he likes me its just something standing on the way between us
i really need to know what should i do to get him back
love ya lots!!!!
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well im not positive u can get him back..but trying can be fun....first of all he says he doesnt want to be with u right now and he wants to get to know u more...which is a really good thing....he wants to spend more time with u and talk to u and really get to know u ...actaully knowing a person and like knowing what their favorites are differ very much...u really want him to be your boyfriend.....basically u guys almost are but u want the label of him as your boyfriend...why? to tell people u have a boyfriend to feel more secure like he ownt just leave u ...the list is endles... i believe that ur need for him is more than ur love....u feel like u need him...u shouldnt need anyone but urself....honestly i dont think u will get him back until u can understand his point of view... a realationship willwork better the more you know someone...and ur only 14 ....u have so many more years of ur life why dont u date different guys because im sure u can find someone more like you who wants to be with u and then get to know u even more while dating because thats what u want so find some1 who agrees more with u
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Hey!Well..maybe when he says he wants to get to you better its a nice way of saying 'i really dont want to out with you anymore' and also..when he says 'maybe' that's also another clue... idk though...dont take that the wrong way ..he COULD like you..just dont get ur hopes up! Im sure you can find better and someone more upfront with their feelings!
-Jamie-
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just tell him the truth.. say you need to talk to him and let it all out -- let everythihng out that is on ur mind.. thats most likly what he wants to hear. flirt with him a little and make it seem like you really like him! just be urself -- and if he doesnt like you then hes not worth it!
*hope i helped*
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Hi Sweetie,
Let him get to know you. But your good side not your "NO, I WANT DATE NOW!" It seems like he really likes you... but... he may start not liking you. He thought you were a nice girl but he may think he was wrong. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but I mean well so please read on.
This guy may think you'll hurt him in a relationship-after all, you do sound presuring. Or he's just not ready. Starting a relationship with a person shouldn't be saying yes to some guy that walks up to you in the hallway and asks you out. I understand you would rather be dating now... but if you decide to get to know him it'll do both of you good. You may find out you are bettter off at friends. Or you may find out you actually like each other in a much more depper level than physical attraction. Just because you guys already went out doesn't mean you don't really know eachother. Or that it won't make a difference. Trust me it will. Both of you will have something to back up your dating decisions with.
I'm not saying to wait a year. A month or two... or three (hehe). A month seems okay. Don't bring anything up for a month. Don't even ask him if he likes you. Just hang out with him and just be his "friend". Let him know all the good things about him and find out the good things about him.
After the month passes by he may be the one to ask you out. If not then bring up the "do you like me?" question. Ask him if he feels like he knows you more. I'm confident if you do this you'll win him back. And if you manage a relationship it will be stronger than if you hadn't know eachother well. And it'll be more meaningfull to you both.
I really hope you win this guy back. I wish you both true happiness! Myu best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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