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i like two guys, and they each like me. billy i met 4 years ago and we've been super close we have tons of fun together and have been through alot together... we never thought we would have feelings for each other but recently they've developed. we just started talking about gettin together about 2 weeks ago. but jacob who goes to a different school but really likes me alot and i like him too but i think they whole different school thing would be hard... i've known him since the beginning of this school year. he has been there for me through everything and he knows all of my secrets and i know all of his. we've been in our share of fights but it made our friendship stronger. the problem is i really dont want to hurt him by going out with billy becuase he would get really upset about it . . . and i dont know if i wanna mess up me and billy's friendship if we do date and then have a bad breakup. please help!!
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If you dont want to jepordize either friend ship then dont go out with either of them. If you do want to go out with one of them make a list of pros and cons about each of them and chose which one you have a better connection with. Hope I helped!
~Brina~
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Hi Sweetie,
It seems you want to go out with Billy more than with Jacob (I'm sorry if I'm just assuming and I'm wrong) because you say "if I go out with Billy" twice in the paragrah but not at all with Jacob. Clear your head and screw both of them for a minute. Don't consider their feelings-be selfish for just ONE MINUTE or two. This will help you clear out who YOU want to go out with. Think about why you like each guy and who do you see yourself happiest with in a relationship and who do you see yourself happiest as "just friends".
When you've done this and you're sure of who you've chosen then start considering the other guy's feelings. If both of the guys really like you then they'll want you to be happy... no matter with who it is.
Like I said I THINK you'd rather be with Billy.I personally would go with Jacob. That way I'm not risking a 4-yr relatoionship, I'm with someone who I really trust, and... well it's all up to you.
I hope you find happiness. Best wishes for all three of you! Hope someone was of help. ~Blessed Be...
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Since you havent known Jacob for a long time then I would go out with billy. You probably know him very well and you have been friends for a long time. You might not know Jacob as well and I think after being friends with billy for so long that you know you cant count on him and trust him. Four years is a long time, and if you want a long lasting relationship then going with billy is the best way. One of them is going to end up getting hurt, if you really care about both of them then dont go out with either, mabye wait a while and make up your mind later. good luck. Plz rate. -Jenny
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Maybe you shouldnt go out with either of them.. but if you did i would pick billy because youve known him longer.. but also you should tell him that you dont want it to mess p your frindship and make a deal that if you do go out youll remain friends even if you do break up.. The other kid should just understand it might be alot harder to go out with someone from a different school, this is going to be a really hard decision for you.. do what you thinks best for you, follow your heart!
-MeGan*
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