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she leving me ova her boyfriend
Hey well theres this one girl who is my bestest friend and shes really nice and pretty but when ever like we go tho the movies together she is always like huggin on her boyfriend and she is alway cancling thing with me to go do something with her boyfrind i hate it we like talk on the phone and stuff but i never get to do anything together cuz she is always doin thing with her boyfriend
signed Confused
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hey! talk to her, if you guys are bestest friends you should be able to talk about anything. i guess this is just one of those hard times to go through, but maybe she doesnt realize that shes doing that. sometimes when people start dating, then cant organize their schedule so that they're not with their boyfriend more than with their friends or vice versa. so definitely talk to her about it. if hse understands and does something about it, then you'll know she really is a true friend, if not maybe you expected too much of her? or maybe she thinks that you're jealous of her because she has a boyfriend. so when you talk to her, make sure that you're not telling her to stop hanging with her bf, just to have some time for you too. hope this helped, peace and love!
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umm.he IS kind of her boyfriend..but i agree, she really shouldnt just like totally blow you off. just try to understand, though, that shes in a relationship with this guy, so things arent gonna be the same between you guys. hope i helped ~*stefanie
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I know you really don't want to, but you have to talk to her! Tell her that you feel dissed. If nothing changes, call your other good friends and get together. Hope I helped!
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that sucks! but think about it..if you had a good boyfriend wouldnt you want to be with him ALL the time. she probly feels that way. she'll eventually come back to you ..friendships last longer than relationships so dont worry too much about it.its all gonna work out--rachael
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I think that you should start doing that to her, yeah its mean but it will get her to understand how your feel. After doing it to her for about a week tell her what you were doing and how she does it and how it is making you upset, she will most likely understand and make more time for you. Hope I helped. Good luck!
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talk to her and ask her if u can hang out more. if she keeps canceling just tell her u feel like u rnt spendin enough time with each other. if she still blows u off tell her its her kast chance. if she still blows u off then shes not a real friend. i hope everything works out between u and ur friend!
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well if she just started going out she most likely will. ask her to squeeze in time for you, but take it from a girl -- when they go out with someone they like they love to spend time and do stuff with them whenever they can. if you 2 are best friends, then ask her when shes free.
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if this girl is your best friend, then you should be able to talk to her about this, she may or may not change things, even if she says that she will try, if shes not going to try to fix things with you, then that will just be worse for her when her and her boyfriend break up, but dont tell her that, just tell her that you miss being best friends and you wish that you guys could spend more time together, also see if maybe you can try to get included on some of their outings [double dating?] if your best friends not willing to cooperate with you, then you can probably find a better best friend, hope i helped and good luck! -Anq3L
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I know exactly how you feel, but you might just have to get used to it. :( she must really like her boyfriend, maybe you should ask her if her boyfriend could hook you up witha guy and yous could go on double dates or something?? i dont know. but maybe you should let her know how you feel and tell her that she should remember -- Her friends are always going to be there for her, but chances are her boyfriend wont!! I think thats the best advice you can give her.. Goodluck hun!
-MeGan*
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