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Cheating Husband
How do you go on after infidelity?
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u kick ass if ur husband cheated on u he needs his ass kicked and it will make u feel better, also have a lil "talk" with the gurl 2
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Hi Sweetie,
God this is a really hard question. I must say different people have different ways. All I suggest is to let everyhing out. If you feel like crap and like you hate him then burn down his things or throw them out the window. If you're the type of person then call an operator on a phone booth and curse him out (I personally couldn't do that but... if it helps you). Talk the worst of him to your friends and your family... it doesn't matter what you do-he did worst. And this will help you to get the anger out of your system. Do anything you're morally okay with the only thing you SHOULD NEVER DO is push yourself to get over it or... pretend you're okay.
The reality is that you were better than him. He was weak. I know it's hard... it has to be. You cared about him enough for it to be. How do you go on after infidelity? You just do. One day you wake up and realize... the feelings are gone. This day won't come until you deal with what happened correctly.
Best wishes sweetie. ~Blessed Be...
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It's very difficult to move on after being betrayed by someone you trusted with all your heart and soul. It's important that you not move yourself too quickly. The last thing you need right now is another relationship. I honestly think the best thing for you is to become yourself again, without him. Explore the things you loved doing before you two got together, the things that you did more when you were on your own. Maybe you should go out with some girlfriends to a bar and just have some fun, dance, sing karaoke, be free. Try to realize your self worth outside of your relationship. Your husband didn't make you special or important. You were already those things before he came along. Love will find it's way into your heart again when the time is right.
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i've actually never heard the word infidelity... but when ur thing says cheating husband... i like i got a good idea! wOw... its gotta be hard... and i could say you so could move on... but in reality... you really can't... even cheating boyfriends are hard to move on from... i couldnt imagine a hUsBaNd! :( what u really need is good friends.... 2 talk with, cry with, laugh with and for them to be there for you... u have to also think about if u still want 2 be with him... and if u can still trust him. get some "princess time" to think about it... get a massage.... take a walk do things 2 get ur mind off ur husband! gOOd luck! and i hope all goes well!
xOxO, aLeX
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Well it really all depends on how serious it was and the whole situation. But, in my opinion.. if a guy EVER cheats on me- he's out of there- packin his bags. One main thing in marriage is you are supposed to be able trust each other. How are you supposed to ever be able to trust him again? Think about it.. if it were me, I wouldn't go on after it because i wouldn't be with him anymore. You deserve better. :)
hope i helped- drop one in the inbox anytime if you gotta question! :)
-natalie
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