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Last night i went to the movies with this guy i like. He didnt make a move on me so i desided to just hold his hand. Well after the movie he walked me to my car and i kissed his cheack good night. He texted me later and told me how hott i looked. I'm not really sure if he likes me or is just kinda using me. I want to be more than just friends with him, i want to be his girlfriend. But i dont know how to, what should i say to him or ask him to move to the next level?
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he was prolly nervous @ the movies, and didnt wanna try somthing on u that u wouldnt like.. but if u think he seems interested in u then keep flirting n give him a hint that u like him n maybe he'll make a move!
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stop and think for a second... did this kid put any moves on you? NO. so then how could he possibly be using you? he probably really likes you and just gets shy around you. tell him you like him and want to be more than friends, and see what he thinks about it.
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Just keep on dropping hints like saying how much you like him. If he didnt kiss you or anything on your date that doesnt neccisarily mean he doesnt like you it could mean that hes not ready to have that kind of relationship.
~Brina~
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dont make him think your too fast, but maybe he just shy. he could be the type of guy whos okay to tell you stuff when its not to your face but when hes around you hes really nervous. get someone to tell him you like him or something and maybe he'll ask you out!!..
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He likes you hes just afriad to make a move because he thinks you do not like him! He porbly does like you! ?I like my girl freind i had never made a move on her she ended up making a move on me becasue i ddint think she liked me! I didnt think any thing of it when she held my hand!
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Hi Sweetie,
From what you told me I see no reasons why he'd be using you. But if you have your personal reasons you didn't mention then maybe. He didn't make a move... was this like a first date or anything? ...You held hands so... were his palms sweaty or anything? If this was a first date or... if you're not officially a coupple maybe he was too nervous or has too much respect for you to be all over you like that. (That or he was tooo into the movie, l.o.l. if this is it then he likes ou as just a friend or he sees you like his 10-yrs-wife ... I'm just throwing this in as a joke so don't take it seriously.)
If you want to be his gilrfriend have a talk with him. It could be in one of your dates or... anytime you catch him alone... or you can schedule a date... if you're the type of person who has these conversations on the phone then you can do it on the phone. You can start the conversation with, "last night at the movies was fun. We should do that again sometime." Then ask him (if he hasn't asked you already) where he thinks you guys are. Example: Friends... friends with benefits... a coupple. Maybe he already sees you like a girlfriend. If he says you guys are just friends or something... ask him if he'd like to be more. He may be the shy type and be like "I don't know. Do you want to be more than friends?" Say yes. He'll know you like him back.
I'm sooo freaken sorry if I wasn't of help. I'm lossing it, L.O.L. I hope I did help. Or someone did. Good luck with this guy. You both sound sweet, I'm sure you'd make a cute coupple. Have a nice day. ~Blessed Be...
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you should just talk to him, get to know him more, find out if his intentionas are good ;-). from what you told me they do. then talk to him and tell him. guys dont always have to make the first move. guys are affraid of rejection as much a girls are. go for it girl! hope i helped.
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I don't think he's using you because what you said for your question doesn't seem like it. He probably feels more comfortable talking to you away from you then in person but, maybe just tell him you like him and you thought he looked cute too and things will just flow in the right direction. Keep flirtin girl! Hope I helped. Send me some feedback. -Bianca
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from what u said i think he likes u i would ask him and tell him what u think of him. good luck
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