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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.
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Do you believe in Long Distance Relationships? Like, if you talk to them online and you talk to them on the phone and stuff, and your still in your preteen-early teen years. Do you think its bad?
Yes because I'm in one. We've been together for 4 and a half months and we talk every day and i see him almost every weekened. If you two really care about eachother then you can make it work. Me and my boyfriend are. Hope this helped. Good luck.
I really like this guy, and he says he likes me too or atleast he did. Well the other day, he didnt talk to me at all. I called him and he didnt pick up, i texted him and he diditn answer, and then i talked to him online and he said he was goin to some party when actually i saw him at our schools football game. When i saw him he just smiled at me and walked right on by. I dont understand it, last weekend he wanted to be my boyfriend and then this weekend he doesnt even talk to me. What should i do, call him and ask him whats goin on, or just wait for him to call me since he didnt pick up his phone last time i tried.
Please help,
Well first off you shouldn't be that clingy. Like calling him and texting him and freaking out because he's not talking to you. Guys don't like girls that are clingy. Meaning they don't like girls that are always around always calling them trying to figure out where they are what they're doing who their with. That kind of thing. Just wait it out and if it does turn out that he doesn't like you, don't get upset. Just move on. You'll be fine and you'll find the right guy. I tell all girls this and all gay guys...lol... most men are assholes. It's been proven time and time again. I finally found the right one. lol Hope this helped. Just calm down please!!
Tomorrow I'm meeting up with my boyfriend. It will be the first time I have seen him properly out of school since we started going out and I want to make a big impression. I need to look nice and casual. How should I do my hair/makeup and what shall I wear???!!!
PS. If this helps: My hair is dark brown and comes to around my shoulders. I have blue and eyes and pale skin.
Just wear a little mascara to bring out your eyes a blue top to bring out your eyes even more and a black skirt with a low heal or sandals. For the hair, wear it down, either straight or curly whatever your prefrance is.
i have a Sony Psyche walkman. it's about a year old and it worked great. well just recently the music only started coming out of the left ear. i thought the batteries could be going, so i put new ones in and it's still the same. so whats wrong or how do i fix it? im pissed off cause it was a $50 walkman.
Nah it's just the headphones. They always break at one point. I've gone through about 6 different head phones in the last year but my CD player works fine. There is really nothing you can do about the headphones... just get new ones. Hope this helped.
Ok... my friend went up to my guy friend and was like "(my name) is such a whore she wears thongs!" and then when i confronted her shes like.. i guess i was just jealous of yours and his friendship becasue you guys are close and i like him... i think thats a bunch of crap... then people are saying that the guy she told doesnt really like me and when i asked him hes like what!!! who told you that... if you understand any of this please help!!
**I rate**
Okay, first off the whole "you're a whore because you wear a thong" that's stupid because lots of girls wear thongs there is nothing wrong with a thong! It sounds as though you should sit down and talk to them. Get everything straightened out about your friend and this guy you like. If what your friend said about you is true, then she's really not a friend. No matter if she's jealous or not she shouldn't say that about you.
my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!?
Okay, wow that's really stupid. It's a stupid tampon!!! First of all a tampon is for use when you're having your period which is BLOOD coming out of your pussy and second, a dick is much thicker and when you have sex it goes in and out it doesn't just sit there. She's stupid. It doesn't make you a whore. Because if it did, then every girl in my grade is a whore. I'm a freshman in HS. Tell her she needs to get over herself. Hope this helped.
..::..emily..::..
Ok I love my boyfriend to death but the problem is that some girls come up to me and tell me stuff that he might have done. The thing is i dont kno who to believe. I mean i trust him but he has cheated on me in the past so that kinda makes me think twice. I just dont want to accuse him too much b.c i dont want him to break up with me. Sumone please help me i really need advice.
thanks
Oh please... if he cheated on you in the past you should have dropped him like a piece of shit. I have dating guys and they all have cheated on me. Please forget about him. They won't change. I know from experience.... drop him PLEASE it's not worth you getting hurt again.
okay im a girl and i havent gotten my period since like the middle of august, and theres no way im pregnant ive never done anything with a guy cept making out and that cant make you pregnant, so i have no idea why im not getting my period. i got my first one like around xmas 2002 so culd it just be irregular? what culd make it stop? is there sumthing wrong with me? anyone help me please! im kind of scared!
First off, calm down, especially if you're not sexually active. It could be caused by stress and activity. If you are physically active like you are involved in sports you get it irregularly. Also when you're young and you've had it for less than a year to a year and a half you'll get it irregularly. Just calm down. You worrying isn't going to make it come sooner. Hope this helped.
HeLoo i hav a queston bout..umm..some kinda gross stuf i gess...~im 14 and fer abouT um, 3 yearz i have this stuff in my unnerware its like whit and i dun no wut it is? is it like some sickness?ƨ? its like relay gross i thought it would go way afta i got mah period but it din't and iono its lyk embarassing if neone sees my unnerpants cuz its rely NASTY. is dis normal?? is there n e way i can yk rid it cuz idont want nasty white stuff comin out of my vagina!!!!!!! hey tanks i rate high!
Well, that's normal. I get that alot. It's called "discharge" Yeah it is really nasty but you still get it anyways even when you don't have your period. Hope this helped. Oh yeah and no, it's not a sickness.
Does anyone know what Tienes amigos? means
Also what Como estas hoy?
Help!!! i need it asap!
tienes amigos means you have friends and como estas hoy means how are you.... but i didn't know there was hoy at the end of that.
i have pretty much felt like this my whole life...
i feel like whenever i do something people are watching me and talking shit about me or gunna laugh at me or something, i mean i realize that they dont really do that, they probably dont even notice me, but i dont like getting up in class to go sharpen my pencil cause im scared or embarresed or something that people will watch me and just stare at me the whole time or the teacher will yell at me for getting up...and today i was to embarresed or scared to go get ketchup and put it on my plate cause i was thinking that people might laugh and me and be like omg look at her shes using ketchup or something...i know it really weird..
i mean im not a shy person cause ill talk to a lot of people but its things like that..whats wrong with me?
I know exactly how you feel. It's weird isn't it? I felt like that for a while like when I'd get up to get ketchup for my fries I'd feel as if people were talking about me and pointing and laughing for some reason. I'm not sure exactly what's wrong but I got over it. I'm sure it has to do with your confidence level. It's probably normal in teens because alot of my friends went through that too. Hope everything works out for you and I hope this helped.
how do you know you have split ends? do the individual pieces of hair split at the end? or what?
Each individual strand of hair has the ends of it split down the middle. Sometimes it can be sort of frayed looking at the end when it's really bad. Hope this helped.
i no this is a weird question n everything but when you have sex or whenever do you shave all your hair *down there*?
Well it's all about your personal prefrance and your significant other's. If your boyfriend likes them shaved then I guess you could shave it, but it does start to itch really bad when the hair starts to grow back. I don't shave myself down there, I normally just trim it so that it doesn't look like a jungle down there, lol, I've shaved it down there once and I won't do it again because it's quite itchy. Some women do shave themself there because of sex and some women don't. It's really all up to you. Hope this helped.
hey please help! im really upset now! okay well ive had 7 boyfriends and one of them im going out with right now. well.. i love him the most out of all of the boys ive went out with! and today after school he came up to me and was like so your not gonna say ( just playin around ) i was like hi ! lol and he was like so ur not gonna give me a hug? i gave him a hug then we said our byes and then we went to our busses. well i was waiten for my bus and i looked and he was walken with 2 other girls and he hugged one of them and ive seen him with her at the ymca before with her and im really upset! what do i do??!!
Talk to him about it. I'm sure it meant nothing. I've seen my boyfriends (the old boyfriends) hug other girls and it meant nothing. They were just friends. If it's really bothering you talk to him, ask him what the hug was about. Just be like, i saw you hug so and so. Does she like you or something? that kind of thing. Hope this helped but in the meant time don't be so upset just calm down.
I went to the tanning bed sunday and all monday and tuesday I was itching terribly. I thought maybe i had a rash but then i thought well maybe its from the tanning bed. And then i kept getting this tingle..all day..it hurt soo bad. I didnt use ne lotion..wat was happening?
..i rate good..
You should try putting on some lotion. Use Eucerin. It's really concentrated and it's really nice on your skin. If it persists i suggest you go to your doctor and see what's up. Hope this helped.
My friend is annoying as hell. She considers herself punk. She wears HER OLDER BROTHER'S CLOTHES. And she literally wears a size 1, and her brother, in womans, is like a 5. So they're all baggy, and she wears his belts, shirts and shoes too. It's so annoying. She's really pretty, but she never shows it. She wears argile socks that don't match (literally, she miss-matches them on purpose) and her hair is PAST her butt. She hasn't had it cut in like 6 years. I hate that people look at her and talk about her funny, but seriously, it's so weird because she doesn't even dress or act like a girl. Should I tell her?
Well first of all anyone that lables is a poser, plain and simple. Lables are for posers. Wearing your brothers clothes wouldn't bother me, i wear my brothers shirts sometimes and his sweatshirts.... his feet are huge so i can't wear his sneakers but we have the same pair of converse. I wear my boyfriends boxers sometimes. I steal them from his drawers and wear them to bed. anyways, if it's really bothering you then just tell her that her doing that is bothering you and you think it's stupid. I think it's stupid that she's like "oh i'm so punk" because anyone who does that is just stupid. Hope this helped.
i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks.
If someone of different races love eachother no matter what the race is they should get married. i believe in same sex marrages and interacial marrages. love is from the heart not physical appearance. if a black person wants to marry a white person go for it white and mexican go for it. white and white, go for it, mexican and mexican, go for it!! it doesn't matter! if they love eachother and make their relationship legal and get married then they should.
After I take a shower my hair is alwyas knotty. After I comb all the knots out it gets knotty again. Then my hair get really frizzy when it dries. Do you have any ideas on how to get the knots out and how to get my hair frizz-less.
well first off if you don't already you should use conditoner even if you have really greasy hair... use a really lite conditioner. comb your hair in the shower and then after that use john frieda's frizz ease hair serum. it works =D hope this helped.
This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel?
You'll know, i'm sure everyone has told you that but when you're in love with someone you will know. It's the best feeling in the world. It's like nothing matters EVER and you're always happy and can't stop thinking about the other. That's how it felt the first time i fell in love. Greatest feeling in the world... until he broke my heart. You get butterflies in your stomach every time you see them. It's just a REALLY great feeling. Hope this helped.
..::..emily..::..
Ok, this question is for the girls out there!! Have you ever pierced your belly button by yourself? Like how did you do it I mean like all the steps from start to finish, even the small ones lol? Today, I want to pierce my belly button by myself but I'm afraid that I'm gonna do something wrong like piercing it too thin like I didn't use the skin. Can someone please tell me how you pierced your belly button by yourself? Thanks
First of all, you don't want to pierce your own belly button. I have friends that tried and it got madly infected and now even if they were to get it done professionally they can't get it done because it's so gross looking. My suggestion is to get it done professionally even if it means money out of your pocket. It's alot safer that way and it won't get infected. Trust me, you don't want to get your belly button infected. It's reallllllllly nasty looking. My friend that did it, it got so bad now she won't even wear a bikini or anything that shows her stomach because it got so disgusting. You don't want that to happen. Please go to a professional.