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who do i believe
Ok I love my boyfriend to death but the problem is that some girls come up to me and tell me stuff that he might have done. The thing is i dont kno who to believe. I mean i trust him but he has cheated on me in the past so that kinda makes me think twice. I just dont want to accuse him too much b.c i dont want him to break up with me. Sumone please help me i really need advice.
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Ask him if he is cheating on u. If he says no then believe him, don't spy on him 2 find out if he is lying. If u do and he wasn't cheating on u, and he catches u then he will brake up w/u. So, just ask him, and trust that he will tell u the truth. Hope I have helped.
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babe, i see this stuff all the time. first off, i always see how people break up with other people because someone else told them that the other person was gona break up with them. sometimes its wrong & sometimes its right, but say theyre wrong. you lose the one you love. & if its right, then just let him break up with you. because if you break up with him first, you'll have to live never knowing if he was really gona break up with you. & he may lie and say he wasnt or may lie and say he was. but you'll never know until you let it happen. if he's cheated on you before, you should've dumped him then unless you really trusted him & he said he would never do it again. the way you're making it sound, i think you should try to start getting over him because you should never have to question about the one they love.
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Oh please... if he cheated on you in the past you should have dropped him like a piece of shit. I have dating guys and they all have cheated on me. Please forget about him. They won't change. I know from experience.... drop him PLEASE it's not worth you getting hurt again.
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If he cheated on you before, there's a pretty good chance he'll do it again. That's just the way things seem to work. It's great that you trust him, but are you sure he's trustworthy? People need to earn your trust and it doesn't sound like he has done anything to earn it from you. Anyway, what you need to do is consider where this information is coming from. Do these girls hate you or him for some reason? Do they have a reason to want you two broken up? If not, and if these girls have always been the ones to tell the truth, then they might just be trying to keep you from getting hurt. Whether the information is relevant or not really depends on who is giving it. If you think they might be telling the truth, then confront your guy and see what is up. However, if you think he is faithful and you don't want to screw things up, then just wait it out. If you keep getting these accusations, especially from people you trust, you might want to have a talk with your boyfriend about what people have been saying. Even if you love him, you deserve better than someone who is going to cheat on you all the time.
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