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hey please help! im really upset now! okay well ive had 7 boyfriends and one of them im going out with right now. well.. i love him the most out of all of the boys ive went out with! and today after school he came up to me and was like so your not gonna say ( just playin around ) i was like hi ! lol and he was like so ur not gonna give me a hug? i gave him a hug then we said our byes and then we went to our busses. well i was waiten for my bus and i looked and he was walken with 2 other girls and he hugged one of them and ive seen him with her at the ymca before with her and im really upset! what do i do??!!
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Well, u need 2 talk 2 ur bf, and tell him how u feel. If he is seeing that other girl, or just being 2 friendly, then break up w/him. I know it will probably be hard, but u wouldn't want 2 go out w/some1 that isn't loyal 2 u. I hope I have helped!
~*~Becky~*~
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Ah! TALK TO HIM!! Dont get all upset right away. First, make sure you're going out and he knows about it.. Sounds weird but u never know.. He IS a guy. Ask him why he gave her a hug and tell him you're not really comfortable with it. Just basically tell him the truth. And if he does it again even after you talk to him then my advice would be to dump him. Yeah, I know "O my God I couldn't do that I like him soo much!" But trust me hun, if he does it 2 times then he's definetly a player and he's so not worth your time. No matter how cute he is. Good luck with this girl! Hope I helped!
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I am sure you have nothing to worry about. He is probably good friends with her. You shouldnt be worried about your boyfriend hugging another girl. There is no harm done in that. But if it really bothers you all that much just ask who she was and find out how they know each other. No big, so dont sweat it.
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dont wory bout it at all..im sure they are just good friends..on the other hand, just watch and see if hes always with her, hangn out with her on weekands, on the phone with her, etc..then u might have something to worry bout, but for now i really think its okay.
lov kristin
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You MUST be young. It's fairly obvious.
You're worried about your "boyfriend" hugging other girls?
You had better drop that jealously trait real quick or your relationship with ANYONE won't go anywhere.
A hug means nothing (except under special circumstances, such as someone's cat just died and they need a hug.) It's just a friendly gesture. Do you get mad when he smiles at other people too? Does it irritate you when he waves? If so, you are the most histronic person I have ever heard of. (Meaning, you crave being the center of attention, and hate it when the person you're speaking of is focused on someone else.)
You get upset too easily. Read my lips...er, text: GET OVER IT.
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talk to him about it. maybe it was nothing, i hug my friends...but then again i dont have a boyfriend. but yea, you could also try asking the girl...just dont tell her you guys are going out at first. just ask her like, if they are going out (when hes not around) and if she says yes then get rid of him hes just a playa. if she says no then clue her in to the fact that you are his girlfriend.
hope i helped,
*~Carrie~*
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talk to him about it...but dont be jealous!
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Talk to him about it. I'm sure it meant nothing. I've seen my boyfriends (the old boyfriends) hug other girls and it meant nothing. They were just friends. If it's really bothering you talk to him, ask him what the hug was about. Just be like, i saw you hug so and so. Does she like you or something? that kind of thing. Hope this helped but in the meant time don't be so upset just calm down.
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Is he not allowed to have other friends? Ask him about it. You might find out that's it's an innocent friendship. If it's not just a friendship then kick him to the curb. Communication is key to any good relationship.
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You should confront your boyfriend and ask him why he's going around hugging and getting all comfortable around other girls. Tell him that it makes you feel like he doesn't like you and that you can't trust him as much anymore! =(
Sorry...Good luck, honey!
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