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ok so theres this guy. hes like 3 yrs older than me nd he asked me out ((i said no)), nd he still hits on me, flirts ALL the time, always tells me how hot i m nd wants me to send him pics of me! now i kno hes not like a COMPLETE freak cause hes my bbf's bro! but my bf is like really jealous, i feel bad nd hes freakin me out. also, his parents told him not to talk to me cause i told my bbf he was freakin me out, but he still does. i dont want his family to think bad of me for talking to him since its my bbf! this is like pmo so please help!!! (link)
well IMO hes just trying to be friendly, i mean just because you rejected him does that mean he cant be nice to you anymore? i have quite a few female friends, most of whom id never want to go out with and even more of whom would never want to go out with me. i still flirt playfully occasionaly and yeah ask for pics and stuff for fun.


I am a 17 year old girl and I just made a huge mistake. I have a boyfriend, but this other guy has been hitting on me, flirting like crazy... and last night I gave in. It was only a few kisses, nothing at all really. But I feel really guilty. He said he won't tell my boyfriend because he knows I still love him. But what do I do? I really do love my boyfriend, this was just a one night slipup... if I tell my boyfriend I'll probably get dumped, if I don't I feel guilty... but I'll still be with him which is the desired outcome. What do I do?
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well would you rather feel guilty or get dumped? i really think you shouldnt tell him, you seem like your sorry and you say it wont happen again so there isnt really a point.


My younger sister who's eleven has an amazing voice for her age and I really want her to be discovered! Her birthday's coming up in July and I think that if I found a way for her to get noticed it would be a great birthday present. Can anyone help me find a way to help her be discovered? (link)
riiiiighhhhttttt because a persons voice is what matters in the music industry. sorry she needs to wait a few years until she grows boobs, and a nice body that teenagets wont feel guilty for ogling.


how do u know if someone added you to there favorite columist list?? (link)
http://advicenators.com/favorite.php?mode=list its under the welcom menu


hey i just have a question... my boyfriend watches pron and he tells me about it does that me taht is wants to be with other girls and isnt happy with what i am givin him or is it jsut a guy thing?
pLEASE HELP (link)
no it just means he likes looking at porn, all guys do, most girls do it too.


is there such a thing where your so depressed is it posibly you could die from it
and is it bad if your so depressed all you want to do is curl up in a ball and hope that god could fix all things and is it posible for him to do that for me i think it is but iv asked many things from him and i dont kno if he would help me with this one or do i have to do all the work again

you kno who this is (link)
noy ou cant actualy die from depresion, some people kill themselves, thats pretty close but i dont reccomend that.


my computer that i have saves everything that i look up on any search engine and i don;t know how 2 delete it. even if i delete the web history it doesn't go away and i tried right clicking sum of the stuff i looked up and it wouldnt delete. i really want to know how to do this because 1. i don't trust my brother and i think he goes onto my account and i look up girl stuff and weightloss and stuff and i dont' want him blabbing 2 my parents. and 2. my friends wanted me 2 find out for them. so thanks in advance. (link)
are you talking about google or some other non integrated search engine? what you need to do, i think, because i use aol and it doesnt save it, is go into internet options and delete the cookies. if that doesnt work, and i think it will, but if not then delete all temporary internet files.


ok i found it with mozilla
tools > options > privacy > saved form information > clear

then click the little plus siign next to it and uncheck the box that says to save it adn you should be all set


How exactly is being anorexic bad for you? People has said that if you're anorexic your body loses all these nutrients but what are the actual like 'symptoms' you get if you're anorexic. Besides dizzyness and fatigue.
Thanks I'll rate 5 for any decent answers! (link)
well for one thing, it can actualy make you fatter becasue you lose weight everywhere except your stomache first, but whhen you finally do eat it will put weight on your stomache first. dyzzyness, fatugue, death, people making fun of you, brain damage, kidney failure, lots of other fun stuff like that. really all in all a bad idea.


I just watched the news and one of the articles they had was talking about the latest "trend" in music.

They showed a clip from a new music video by Coldplay, then said "this is from the album that people are hoping breaks the trend in low sales of music this year. The next clip you will see is what is the current 'hot' thing in music."

And they showed that `Jamster!` Frog, with some music playing in the background.

After seeing that I wanted like nothing else to shatter one of the vinyl encapsulations of all that used to be good in the world and slice my wrists with it.

The `Jamster!` commercials hit comedy central awhile ago, and for about 3 weeks they bought enough advertising space on comedy central, where they could've instead spent that money buying canada. When I saw one of their commercials for the fourth or fifth time I said to myself "im going to have to be the one to kill these people"

And now I think I really am.

After seeing that I lost all my faith in humanity and the music to come. (link)
yeah i know what you mean, one of those ads popped up on myspace.com which i go to frequently and it is themost annoying thing ever. i think it being the hot thing in music is really just a joke though. i usggest just changing the channel when you see it.


ok, i was just wondering if being fingered by a guy feels much different then if u finger your self ill rate thanx (link)
well that depends, to me sexual contactof most kinds has always been as much about the person and emotinal feeling as it has been about the actual physical plessure. if you really like the guy then it will feel 100 times better than fingering yourself. if you are doing it with a friend with benifits sort of guy, then it wont be that much better. and sometimes, they guy will have no idea what hes doing and actualy hurt you, in which case you need to guide him in how to please you.


my boyfriend and i are sexually active....

would all the stuff be the same.....if my boyfriend, best friend , and i want to have three way sex? Does anybody know any moves and stuff????? thanks ill rate high

also how do you finger yourself. sometimes i have urges and i heard that will help you....14/f (link)
ok, look youre 14 i question your readiness for sex and even boyfriends in general, but that is a decision only you can make, but reading your previous questions i really dont think you should be. as for the threesome you really shouldnt be getting into that yet, especially if you have to go onto a site like this to ask what to do.


I'm currently on a swim team and eatin much healthier, but today my friend and I went to the pool and she only brought sodas to drink it was very hot so I broke my 3 week chain of no sodas. I feel terrible, I also ate a few cookies, how can I keep from eating the bad stuff when the oppurtunities right in front of me? .. Ill rate :] (link)
omg your talking like you freaking did drugs, being on the swim team is really good exercise you can afford to ahve an occasional soda and cookies. being on a diet does not mean not eating anthing bad, it means not eating too much bad stuff. there is a spot on the food pyramid for candy/soda/etc 2-3 servings of it.


i heard that when your cherry pops that your no longer a virgin is that true? only answer this if you know (link)
no its the other way around, when you have sex and arent a virgin anymore, your cherry pops. but yeah if you pop it thorugh other means like masturbation or sports it doesnt mean anything.


Hey i'm Leah and i'm 16/F. Okay, so me and my ex were together or almost 2 years we broke up like 6 months ago. We haven't talked for at least 5 months and we had a really love/hate relationship, but we were like eachothers best friend. I still LOVE him soo much and i've tried calling him but he wont talk and were not aloud to talk to each..his parents hate me and mine hate him were not aloud to be around eachother..What should i do? Should I just let go..? (link)
you hsould probably let go, barring extrme circumstances getting back together with an ex is generarly a bad idea


what does 69 mean? (link)
its when the guy and girl give each other oral sex at the same time


okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me? (link)
well when you have the baby, have a paternity test, at that point he will have to pay child support. other than that there really isnt much you can do.


i have a friend that has never been circumsized and i was just wondering how to put a condom on him because i wasnt sure. (link)
same way as with a non cicumsized dick, you squeez the tip of the condom, and roll it down over the penis.


im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do? (link)
So he says he loves you but wont have anythign to do with you? but he still comes over? if your 8 months pregnant it makes some sense that he isnt really toucning you becasue you shouldnt be dooing sexual stuff. you can always feel love, its a force that cannot be mistaken. if it doesnt feel like it then he probably doesnt love you. youre 16, hes 19 you can get him thrown in jail for statutory rape, but then child support becomes a problem, he has to foot part of the bill. are your parents supportive? becasue if they are you really dont need this jerk.

did i pass your test?


I gave this girl perfectly good advice and I got a one!! Why are people so rediuclous??? Can people please be reasonalble for once?? (link)
so delete your answer, then the rating goes away. some people will just rate you a one if you dont tell them what they want to hear


do you carrie the morning after pill (link)
err are you asking each person taht is going to answer your question? or did you mistakingly ask a question that was meant to be private to the entire pool? really i dont understant, no i dont carry the mourning after pill. if you need it i suggest going to planned parenthood they can most likely give it to you for free




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