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Q: ok so i have this so called friend that i hate so much and she hates me a lot to..........everytime we try to figure something out it seems to get bigger and bigger i mean i could be nice to her but it would be really hard for me to do that because i cant stand her in any way! you will probably just say dont hang out with her or anything....but my bestest friends are always hanging out with her so i have to hang out with her or i will lose all of my friends.....WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!? PLEASE HELP!

Well i had this prob. to with AMANDA JOHNSON! we just could not get along for anything. And the group i hung out with were friends with her.. but some were still annoyed But we relized that sooner or later we had to put our differences aside us and go on with life. I just kept my cool around her and everything worked out. Although it was hard. I talked to her about it which was extremely hard but really made it easier to relate to eachother

Q: How do you delete songs off your iPod mini?

Read the instruction book.

Q: i havent had a girlfriend in a while im a 15 year old guy. im in my first year of high school. im not ugly in fact almost everyday the upper class men girls always telling me how cute i am i hate it though the only thing is im short im like 5'3 and at my school thats short i dont know why i cant get a girlfriend i dont know what im doing wrong thanks i need advice!!

Well maybe you are more the type of a just a bro. Like brotherly like rather then boyfriend material. What i like in a guy is for him to be caring and always there to listen and flirty. Try those

Q: How to know if my women got pregnant?

Have her take a test.

Q: I have a feeling that my two bestfriends talk about me behind my back. Should I approach them or waht? I'm very confuzed about what i should do.

Approach

Q: me and my best friend (hes a guy) went out b4...but now we are best friends. but i think i still like him...but im not sure. and i dont think he likes me but it always seems like hes flirting w/ me but it could be cuz we r friends...im confused please help.

I would tell him

Q: isnt there a certain way to tell what bra size you are, i heard you take a measuring tape and find out the length all around your chest area but i dont know the rest about how to tell...cause every bra i try to wear never fits me right, please help!

Well you can go to gordmans but if you go to V.S they help you out and you can go from there.

Q: Someone told me that dieting wont help you lose weight. IF i eat a salad for lunch everyday, will i lose weight? OR do i have to do other stuff too?

You will lose weight off a diet thats not true who ever told you that. I mean it might not work for them because they didnt do it right and didnt try hard enough but you need to eat more then just a salad

Q: I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks.

South beach diet

Q: I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!

Put cold spoons in the freezer and put them up to it! Takes awhile but it defintly helps!

Q: I need help dumping my b/f of 1 week..I mean he is cool but I don't feel a *spark* when I'm around him or even talking to him! He is one of my friends and I'd like to keep it that way.. but I dont really wanna date him anymore.. can you help me please??

-Molly

Well write him a note molly telling him what you just told me. seems like a good break up letter to me

Q: i recently moved with my mom and brother just into town. i still go to the same school and everything. we dont have alot of money, while my friends do. i know for christmas i'm not going to get very much, and i'm ok with that.. but my friends go on about alll the stuff they're getting, and i dont want to hear about it. what's a polite way to tell them to just back off and shut up?

Well I guess they cant help but be excited about what they are getting. I would just let them know though

Q: I really like this girl that I met in september. she's really flirty with me - and not with ALL guys (maybe just a few...whatever). And she went through this phase where she was a total bitch to me but she would have this cute little grin on her face assuming i didnt notice. like almost 3 weeks ago she was like - i wanna be friends and not a bitch and then she would talk to me and come up to me a lot again and flirt. I want to ask her out eventually, but i wanna know what the deal is - even if were "just friends"

k thanks

umm.. Not love. I wouldnt bother with this one. I know she might seem right rite now.. but personally i would leave it alone

Q: Okay so my boyfriend was fingering me and like he saw that there was blood on his finger [not much just kinda around the bed of his nail] I thought maybe I had started my period but just a few minutes I went to the bathroom and I didn't. But it kinda burned and there was like brown stuff [like discharge]. What is wrong?

He probably scratched you and thats what you were bleeding. I mean like its possible for him to pop your cherry but it doesnt always happan. Just tell him to be more gently next time!

Q: For Sidebar background image (URL), how would it go in? Because I have an icon I want to use, but it doesn't work. Right now i have it in as img. and then the name of it. Oh and it's a jpg, so it's the right kind of picture. Any ideas on how to fix this? Should the http:// thing be there? Sorry, I didn't really know how to word it but if you know what I mean please help!

It could be to big

Q: does anyone know where i can buy or find instructions on making a duct tape messenger bag? i really really really want one. o and please dont tell me to try google :/ thanks to anyone who can help

try google.com.. just kidding :) of course try ask.com

Q: What is a good brand of *ceramic* hair straighter that isn't too expensive (under $25)

go to wal-mart

Q: does anyone know how to change the subject buttons on the top of your advice column... like instead of "ask for advice" it could like say, "ask me a question", those things. if someone can tell me wut 2 do 2 change them i'll rate 5s!

you need to be a paid thingie

Q: this guy and i are in all of the same classes and everyone says that we flirt and that we need to go out! lately he has always been hanging around me a lot! like there was a chair near some girl but i was sitting somewhere else so he was lying down on the table that was next to me! what should i do? and i was wondering how can i get him to give me a hug?

Ask him for one and of course if you make him laugh thats always good

Q: i have a puppy she is about 5 months old and my mom is very alergic to her .. she is now living in teh gaage bcz my mom almost died ! we wanan give her away to a family taht loves her but dont know who my question is .. how could i let ppl know about my dog ??? thank u soo0o much and p.s she is a girl if that helps

Fliers.. maybe they coud annouce it over the inetercome at school

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"