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I did not write the book of love,
and I do not claim to be full of wisdom.

I sure do make mistakes,
but I live and learn!

I try to let no one come to me,
without leaving happier. [:



"Exert your talents,
and distinguish yourself.
Don't even think about
retiring from the World,
until the World will be
sorry that you retire!"



advice

♥[?]♥ see im organinzeing a relief fund for hurricane katrina an the people in new orleans, and i was wondering where i could get some recent pictures of a horrible flooding down there to show people around here what these people have to endure everyday, so any websites with and recent news/info/pictures would be exxtttrreemmlllyyy helpful!
thank you so much i rate
I found TONS of pictures!! I'll link you to some websites:


- http://www.nola.com/hurricane/photos/
- http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/in_pictures/4194424.stm
- http://www.digitalglobe.com/katrina_gallery.html
- http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/9076525/
- http://homebuying.about.com/cs/hurricanes/l/aa080801d.htm
- http://www.nasa.gov/vision/earth/lookingatearth/h2005_katrina.html
- http://www.globalsecurity.org/military/facility/new-orleans-imagery.htm
- http://www.cnn.com/



Hopefully these are of some use to you. I applaud your efforts. It's very commendable. [:

♥[?]♥ im 13 and i dont have my period yet. its been like 3 years since my breats stared developing and like 1 since ive developed pubic hair. my cousin had her period when she was 12. so i think there might be something wrong with me. please help. and dont say see a doctor, i cant.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with not having your period by the age of 13. Everybody devolops at their own pace. I understand the rest of your body has already began to mature, so just expect it probably within the next year or so. You really have no reason to worrie here. If you discover that you haven't gotten it by the age of 16-17, THEN would be the time to seek a medical opinion. Until then, don't stress yourself over it; there's nothing abnormal with your complaint. [=

♥[?]♥ I am about 5'5 and weigh about 110 lbs. I plan to eat special k for breakfast everyday and drink plenty of water throughout the day and ocassionaly a diet coke and red bull. If I do this for 3 weeks how much weight do you think I could lose if I also lift weights and do crunches plus run 10-15 minutes a day?
Well, I certainly don't think you need to lose weight at all!!! But uhm, if you insist, it's your body. To answer your question, I'm shore you could lose a good 15 pounds. You'll notice that you've shed some prettie quickly, due to it being water weight. And then eating sensibly and getting an appropriate amount of exercise should lose another 10.

♥[?]♥ Okay, I'm on birthcontrol. But, when you're on bc do you have to use a condom? And can he cum inside you and you still be safe? I"LL RATE 5's!!!
To be on the safe side, you should still use a condom. Birth control helps prevent the likelihood of pregnancy, but it is in NO WAY a 100% guarantee. Sure, it reduces the chances of pregnancy, but it does NOT protect against HIV, AIDS and other Sexually Transmitted Diseases.. Those things certainly do not sound fun to me, so I doubt you're looking forward to them either.. :X

♥[?]♥ I want to be able to put a song on my myspace from http://www.cdzinc.com, but I don't know how to get it on there. The version of Thomas's myspace editor doesn't have a spot for music, so is there a code I can use? I don't want to use a music video.
I believe there's a couple of codes to get a song on your MySpace, but the one I use is:


< embed allowScriptAccess="never"style='display:none' src='PUT THE URL OF SONG HERE, WITHIN THE TWO QUOTES'AUTOSTART='True' LOOP='1' >



Now, simply delete the TWO EMPTY spaces separating the < [in the beginning] and > [at the end] from the rest of the code. Then copy it, and paste it into your "ABOUT ME" section.


I have a MySpace, also, so if you need any further assistance, don't hesitate to ask. [:

♥[?]♥ hey, im thinkin about switchin to tampons and i have one question. do you have to change your tampon every time you go to the bathroom (like every time i go pee)?
Yes, Ma'am; they should be changed at every potty break. If you're interested, here is a site that offers comforting words and tips on insertion:
- http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html

♥[?]♥ i'm a girl and i had a dream i kissed girls am i like a lesbian im really kinda freaked out!!


HELP I RATE HIGH!!
A dream like this certainly does not make you homosexual. Though slightly interesting, your dream doesn't mean anything, really. Many people have peculiar dreams like that; it's no biggie. Truth is, it was "just a dream" - Nothing to worrie about or get worked up over; doesn't mean a thing. =]

♥[?]♥ is it bad at the of 14 to wear under-wired bras?cause i heard that it is.
I've never heard that it is "bad" for teenagers to wear underwire. I checked online for you for any type of article regarding teenagers and underwire, and I failed to find a single one on either side. I really don't see how it would be "bad" though. It's a very common thing - you'll be fine. No worries. [:

♥[?]♥ How do I put music on Myspace without having the video showing?
First you need to find a code for your song. You can find codes at all of the following:


- http://www.xanga.com/xanga_music
- http://www.xanga.com/music_galore
- http://www.xanga.com/no_shit_just_music
- http://www.xanga.com/musicurl
- http://www.xanga.com/XxAaNnGaA_MUSIC
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Beyond_Amazing_Music
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=XxX_MUSIC_4_U_XxX





Then, once you've found the song you want, click on the link next to it to hear it. When it comes up, it will come up in Windows Media Player. Then simply go up to "FILE", and down to "PROPERTIES". Next, copy ALLLLLLLLLL of it's "LOCATION", and paste it in the code where I tell you to below:



< embed allowScriptAccess="never"style='display:none' src='PUT THE URL OF SONG HERE, WITHIN THE TWO QUOTES'AUTOSTART='True' LOOP='1' >



Now, simply delete the TWO EMPTY spaces separating the < [in the beginning] and > [at the end] from the rest of the code. Then copy it, and paste it into your "ABOUT ME" section.



I have a MySpace, also, so if you need any further assistance, don't hesitate to ask. [:

♥[?]♥ what are some good sex positions??
These sites should be of some help to you:
- http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/
- http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/cb.html
- http://www.howtohavegoodsex.com/sex_positions.htm

♥[?]♥ how do you report a question to like abuse? i dunno if that made sence but if it did please tell me i'll rate 5!
There's a page dedicated to this. It's pretty simple:
- http://advicenators.com/abuse.php

♥[?]♥ what is bypoller?
Bipolar disorder, also known as manic-depressive illness, is a brain disorder that causes unusual shifts in a person's mood, energy, and ability to function. Different from the normal ups and downs that everyone goes through, the symptoms of bipolar disorder are severe. They can result in damaged relationships, poor job or school performance, and even suicide. But there is good news: bipolar disorder can be treated, and people with this illness can lead full and productive lives."



TAKEN FROM:
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/publicat/bipolar.cfm ,which I highly recommend checking out. It has the answer above, along with any others you might have in relation. [:

♥[?]♥ what exactly are blue balls
i rate!
"A term used for pain in the testes or discomfort that occurs when a man becomes sexually aroused without ejaculating."
TAKEN FROM:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&rls=GGLG,GGLG:2005-29,GGLG:en&oi=defmore&q=define:Blue+balls




For a more detailed explanation, check out:
http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/sexpedia/blueballs.html

♥[?]♥ When people say "Hope I helped!", that is so freaking annoying. Is anyone with me?
I think "Hope I helped" just depends on the particular question, and what their advice contributed to the situation. Sometimes I find it appropriate, other times highly irritating. What's worse, it when they tell people to rate them or check out their column. I can't stand that. =/

♥[?]♥ how can ya delete a question you've already answered that you've been asked on your advice column
Under your "INBOX", click on "EDIT ANSERS". You will see the question come up, and another link to click that says "EDIT YOUR ANSWER". Simply delete all that you have written. Response goes away, along with the feedback. [=

♥[?]♥ everything just got bold. . .or is it just my computer?
Someone tried to make their question, or partr of a question bold, so they opened the HTML code, by never closed it... causing the entire page to be bolded. When Moderators catch they, they'll delete the question, so it usually doesn't last for long. =]

♥[?]♥ do you get blood after the 3rd day of your period?
whattttttt???? This has to be some lame way of rating me a one......

♥[?]♥ How do you make your font bold & everything else on your column? Ive tried a million different codes that i know and none of them have worked. Im sure that i am making this a lot harder than it should be. Thanks a lot!!

- Steph
[ BlackBeltxO ]
You're right - you're making this harder than it should be. It's a simple:

< B >TEXT HERE< / B >


but delete all empty spaces WITHIN the < and >, make sense?

♥[?]♥ well im on the phone with my friend sara (she says hi) and well her and her bf alex are thinking about having sex but they dont know WHERE to do it. theyre both 15 (alex is turning 16) so it cant be in a car or hotel room. oh and their parents are religious so not at their house. wheres a good place to do the deed? thanks!
Well, maybe if they don't HAVE a safe and private place to be intimate... THEY SHOULDN'T BE intimate. I think that's a MAJOR sign right there. Deciding to be sexually active is a huge huge choice. It's NOT all fun and games and there are many responsiblities and risks that go along with it. I just hope they've thought this through....


But uhm, I know you said they're 15 going on 16, but do either of them have a car? A car would be a good place. Why not at one of their homes when they're alone? At least that would create for a comfortable environment, as long as they knew family would be gone long enough. I suppose they could do it at a friend's house, but that would be plain rude, so I highly discourage that. Other than that, I can't really think of anything. Personally, I say they're making a big mistake. Your first time should be a glorious memory you cherish throughout your entire life time... it shouldn't be some crummy thought and awful experience..

♥[?]♥ Is there anyway to stop sleeping walking or talking. Cause il be in bed one miniute and il wake up and find myself in another room. one time i was outside ma house in ma boxer shorts how embarrasin ay? so is there anyway that ya can stop it from happening?



thankyou
englandsfinest
Awww!! Leon, you're too cute!!!


I looked up a link for you, it seems prettie good:
- http://atoz.iqhealth.com/HealthAnswers/encyclopedia/HTMLfiles/2737.html


Goodluck, Kid! [:


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