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The names Sammy. I'm 16. 5'0" & 96 pounds. Homeschooled & in the 11th grade. Live in the beautiful state of North Carolina. I loove Hollister & Pac Sun, they are like the best stores ever invented. Smoothies are my anti-drug, haha.


I enjoy helping people- so ask whatever you feel like, no matter what it may be & I'll try my best to help you :)


By the way, I've learned not to take things in life for granted. Always remember that. ♥

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i got my period for the first time on auguest 15 (this past auguest). i didnt have it last month, but now i got it again on the 15th, and still have it. is this normal?

It's normal. Usually girls have irregular periods for the first few years. Don't worry about it. ♥

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im doing a report on St Jude of Thaddaeus and i cant find his date of birth/death. Could someone please help me?

I don't know if you've did this already, but there's one simple solution to your problem. Go to Google & type in "birth of St Jude of Taddaeus" as well as "death of St Jude of Thaddaeus" You SHOULD be able to find the answer this way. =]
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do girls like the smell axe or tag.

I think that Axe smells better =]
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Hey this question is only for the guys i guess gurls could answer to is the gurl suppose to shave all her hair down there like all of her hair even the stuff above her crotch or are you suppose to leave the stuff above your crotch

You can do whatever you prefer & all guys like different things. If it was me though, I'd shave it all off, it looks better that way. ♥

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I know this isn't the best of questions, but I was curious after talking to some people. I was walking around the neighborhood and some people were smoking ciggs, and black & milds. They were all about 16 or 17, so I was like "aren't you guys too young" But then a friend of mine told me that you can be 16 to smoke Black & Milds, and 16 to smoke ciggs, but you have to be 18 to buy them. Is that true? I live in NC so like if state laws are different, that may help, but I was just curious about it.

Also are black & milds just flavored ciggerettes (sp?) I used to think they were illegal, but after seeing lots of people smoking them in public I just kind of picked up that they weren't. Anyway, I know it's not a very smart questions, but it was just a thought I was hoping could be answered.

I live in NC and I'm pretty sure that you aren't suppose to smoke or buy ciggerates + black & milds under the age of 18. Obviously, those kids were just trying to be cool and they were lying to you. But WE are cool because we live in NC =] Haha, joking. ♥

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Everyone's asking questions about cutting. Do they mean that they're literally taking knives and cutting their flesh? If not, what do they mean then? If so, why the hell would they do that? It makes no sense.

Yes, that's what it means. Why do they do it? I honestly have never understood that. People say it "takes away their pain" when they are really depressed, etc. I personally could never do that though. Owch. ♥

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HOW SHOULD GUYS HAVE THEIR HAIR, "down there"?
1)totally shaved.
2)big, bushy and uncut.
3)cut short.
4)cut short and shaved around the legs, nutsack and a-hole.
5)doesn't matter.
u can just type the #, or tell me others.

Yeah, everyone has a different opinion on this, but personally I HATE hair as well. So number 1 is the best, but number 4 would work too. ♥

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what are some good rascall flatts songs?

Aw, I love Rascal Flatts. I've seen them in concert twice now!

Skin
Bless The Broken Road
Praying for Daylight
I Melt
These Days
Here's to You

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whenever i try to put a disk in it always says "Error: Cannot read disks" how / is there a way to fix this? if so , please ell

Usually the problem can be fixed by wiping your disk off. If this doesn't work then it could be that you need to clean your playstation out. ♥

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can you get stds or whatever from masterbating? i mean like are there any risks involed? thanks.

Nope, you can't. ♥

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I need an easy-to-make snack because Im very hungry and its only 2:30 and I eat dinner at 7! But, Im sort of trying to eat healthy. I had salad for lunch so i dont want that. But I was thinking possibly cheese and crackers? Please tell me some healthy choices that would fill me up!

Cheese and crackers make a great healthy snack. You could also eat the fruit that comes in those little cups or eat an apple, banana, or some grapes! Or how about a peanut butter sandwich? :) ♥

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hey im 13/f.

i really really liek really liek this kid hes 15.

so, i ONLY see him on fridays. and its civil air ptrol aux. of the united states air force. so its hard to try to compliment him on his clothes and stuff. its also hard to flirt casu e its only one day. please help with any tips you ahve.

what should i do?

ps-i have his cell number but never call casue i dont want to be liek the annoying little 13 year old. and i talk to him on aim someitmes.


please help?

So I'm assuming that you DO actually talk to him when you see him on Fridays, which is a good start. As long as you're talking to him in person & some on AIM, he knows that you exist and he could possibly like you too. I don't think there's any other way you could see him unless you asked him to go to the movies with you or something "just as friends" to hang out and get to know each other better. As for flirting with him on the one day you see him, I don't know what to say. You don't have to compliment him on his clothes.. say something nice about his hair or eyes, you know? Talk about things that you know he's interested in. Touch him on his arms or something sometimes. and when you're getting ready to leave, try to hug him. These things should let him know that you're definately interested in him. Also, you have his number. If HE gave you his number, then that means he wants you to call him so he obviously wouldn't think your an annoying little 13 year old. But, if you got his number another way, then he'd probably be wondering HOW exactly you got it, so just tell him it was a friend or something. Him knowing that you got his number from someone else will also let him know that you're interested in him. Call him one time and talk to him.. you'll know if he seems annoyed or if he's actually interested in talking to you. I hope this helps and good luck! Let me know what happens or if you have any more questions. ♥

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does anyone know ANYTHING about cotillion? i mean...i dont know anything about it. anything helps!

Basically all I know is that it's just a formal dance. ♥

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I love my boyfriend, we never fight and if we do, its for probably 3 and a half minutes. We are BEST FRIENDS. tell each other everything and anything and are completely ourselves around each other right down to farting. our relationship is amazing...


so why do i cry when he isnt around? he goes to college 2 and a half hours away which isnt bad, i see him on average every other week. iv noticed that when he's gone. i'll reminisce on the amazing fun and goofy times we had with each other and just cry and smile and..cry. i dont know why. i would give my life to spend every waking second of the rest of my life with this guy. i don't want to cry anymore. i think i just miss him being around me and supporting me and picking me up when i fall (metaphor)


help.. =/

Aww, that's sweet. I know exactly how you feel though. I cry when my boyfriend isn't around sometimes & I think about the things we've did together.. and I just smile, laugh, and cry. It's a weird feeling and it's confusing as to why we do that. But, I found that the answer is: you're in love. :) So it's fine hun, don't worry about it.. it's normal and perfectly fine. ♥

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so i really like this guy and he says he likes me to but homecoming is coming up and i wanna ask him but he doesnt wanna really go with anyone what should i do i really wanna go with him??

Ask him! The only thing he can do is say No & that won't be that big of a deal, I mean there are plenty of other guys you can go with. If he likes you though, he should go with you. Or maybe dances aren't really his type of thing. ♥

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Okay my boyfriends birthday is Saturday so I want to throw him a big supper but I dunno what to cook for him. I got the cake lol. I'm not sure on what to cook though. So can anyone help me out plz..

♥Shawntay

Ask him what his favorite food is & then cook that. But, usually pasta stuff is easy & good to cook. You could also do the traditional cheeseburgers or hotdogs. Haha, have fun. ♥

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i need a flatter stomach by Friday. any suggestions on how to help? thanks i will rate high

There's no way you could possibly flatten your stomach by Friday, sorry. ♥

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Does anyone know where i can find a MYSPACE TRACKER? (That tracks the username of the people who visit your myspace)

If there isnt one of those, what are some good FREE regular site trackers/statistics?

Actually I don't think myspace has a tracker. I know that xanga has tons of them though. That would be cool if myspace had one, it'd be pretty useful. ♥

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how do you know for sure you are ready to have sex?

You'll just know! You won't have to ask yourself "am i ready for this?" and you won't have any doubts at all. You'll have your mind made up that you are fully ready and it's something you won't regret later. ♥

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this is really mebarassing but..you know how people make jokes about buttt hair? is it normal to have it?

Yep, it's normal. Everyone has it. ♥

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