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I love my boyfriend, we never fight and if we do, its for probably 3 and a half minutes. We are BEST FRIENDS. tell each other everything and anything and are completely ourselves around each other right down to farting. our relationship is amazing...
so why do i cry when he isnt around? he goes to college 2 and a half hours away which isnt bad, i see him on average every other week. iv noticed that when he's gone. i'll reminisce on the amazing fun and goofy times we had with each other and just cry and smile and..cry. i dont know why. i would give my life to spend every waking second of the rest of my life with this guy. i don't want to cry anymore. i think i just miss him being around me and supporting me and picking me up when i fall (metaphor)
help.. =/
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I think that you fell in love. I suggest getting involved in some activity to get your mind off of him for awile until the next time you see him. Like sewing or cooking. You could start a band or learn some kind instrument. I t is normal to cry when you miss someone so. I think that things will get better if you take one day at a time
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Aww, that's sweet. I know exactly how you feel though. I cry when my boyfriend isn't around sometimes & I think about the things we've did together.. and I just smile, laugh, and cry. It's a weird feeling and it's confusing as to why we do that. But, I found that the answer is: you're in love. :) So it's fine hun, don't worry about it.. it's normal and perfectly fine. ♥
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thats adorable!
awwwwww.....
but yeah,
i cant stop thinking about my boyfriend when i dont see him for 2 or 3 days. which produces tears and being confused at why he matters so much. its natural. go out with your girlfriends and call him plenty. you'll survive. i promise.
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it just means your in love... every time your without him you miss him so much and want him to be with you at that very second. crying isnt always a bad thing, even though it may seem like it is. you cry because of your love for him. im sorry you dont get to see him as much as you'd like to. i know how it feels to be thinking about someone for every moment. its just fine though, theres nothing wrong with it and its just out of love for him.
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That's not bad, its sweet and I think you are probably a sensitive person who is really in love with your boyfriend.
My guess is that you are probably more than a little overwhelmed by your feelings for him and its scary to feel this way about someone. Its normal to want to spend so much time with someone, but realistically you'd get on each others nerves if you spent that much time together. ( I bet you don't believe me, but trust me). The best part of a healthy and happy and long term relationship is to be a happy person with a lot of interests. Throw yourself into school, work, friends, interests when he isn't around. Enjoy your life and look forward to seeing him but also try to appreciate everything you have outside of him. You can do both.
Look, I love my guy more than anything on the planet and we have so much fun and are best friends and have been together 6 years and lived together for the past 4. Sometimes when we are apart, like if he has to travel for business i get really emotional too.. but I have fun with my friends and family and work and go to the gym and all thos things. It makes the time go faster and you have more to talk about when you see each other.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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All I'm gonna say is that's what happens when you're in love. I know that won't seem like much help, but really that's exactly how I feel when I'm without my boyfriend. He lives a half an hour away, which isn't that bad at all compaired to what you have to deal with. But yeah, that's what happens when you're head over heals in love.
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Well I am a guy so I can try to give you my outlook on this situation. It's great that you love him as much as you do, and you crying when he's not around is just a natual was to express such an emotion. You don't, however, want to appear too needy to him. Most guys don't find that attractive in a girl. You will probably have this problem all through college until you guys are free and able to pursue a more intense relationship. Hope that helps.
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That's sad that you can only see your boyfriend every other week =/ I can understand why you're sad. Just think of all the happy times you've had together. It's okay to cry though! You're crying because you love him. You should try to see if you guys could see eachother more often. Maybe you could visit him at college? Just see eachother more, if possible. Call him and tell him how you feel, & tell him how much you love him. Just listening to his voice will probably make you feel better.
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