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I was away for the weekend and when I came back, SPP was GONE.

I have spent BUNCHES of REAL money on this game, and I am quite attached to my SuperPoke! Pets!

PLEASE tell me this isn't a forever thing! Please?

Thank you to anyone that can help.

I just went on the website and it seems to be up and running to me.. Maybe it went down for maintenance. Is it okay for you now?

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Well today my school went on a field trip and well like first off it was 6th 7th and 8th went and im in 8th but the bus was full so we had to go on the 7th grade one, and well on the way back I had to pee really bad and we were and hour and a half away from home. I got so sick because I had to go so bad, I finally had to get my friend get a treacher to ask if the bus could stop and i could use the bathroom, and my friend had to go and ask because I couldnt get up it hurt so bad. Well the bus pulled over at a gas station to let me pee and it was really embarrasing because when I got off the bus to go, this loud mouth girl heard my friend tell her and screamed to the whole bus that I had to go pee. I was so embarrased mainly because the guy I like was on that bus and he likes me too. Do you think me having to do that is embarrasing because i'm so embarrased! and my friend said when I was gone the boy i liked said I hope shes ok and then tried to look for me. I hope she wss telling the truth I asked five times lol (because I was so embarrased) but do you think he still likes me. Because Im so embarrased and people were laughing. Please help thanks(: P.S. my mom said its nothing to be embarrased about and that I couldn't help it.

I'm being perfectly honest when I say this..
what is there to be embarrassed about?!
You needed the toilet, the coach stopped, you went to the toilet, everyone lived happily ever after.
Ha! No, really hun, there's NOTHING to be embarrassed about here! I would understand if you wet yourself.. which thankfully you didn't.. but you just had to stop a coach to go to the toilet. If anyone else needed the toilet badly like you did, they would have done exactly the same thing.
Forget it. and if the boy you like did ask about you, he seems like a very nice chap, by the way. :)
Cheer up!

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would u really think it would be ok if i let my dog eat me out?

It's bestiality.. and no, it's really not okay.. not to mention all the bacteria inside a dogs mouth.

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I just got my hair cut and me stupidly saying I want change I got it short. I feel like a little girl and I hate it it makes me want to cry. I allways have bad luck. There's nothing I can do until it grows out which wont be for a couple of months I can't wait that long. School starts soon to so I'm gonna look like a loser I already have confidence problems and now this makes it worse I can't get extensions or anything bc I don't have that money andmy parents sure won't pay for it. I feel stupid pleasee I'm 16f

Any way you can post up a picture? I'd love to help with styles you could pull off 'til it grows out.
How long ago did you get it cut? I remember when I'd get my hair cut, I didn't like it most times.. I cursed myself for getting it "too short" but a week or two later, it started to grow on me (excuse the pun!) and I had fun experimenting with different styles.. not only that, I'd change make up to suit it better, too.
If you still don't like it after a little while, it's not the end of the world - just a mistake you know not to make again :P
Hair grows. just think of the next few months as a change. Change is good every now and then. Plus, now it's shorter, you've got rid of damaged/dead ends and give your hair a chance to grow into luscious full locks!

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My boyfriend has had a mustache since we've been together. And now he's thinking about shaving it, and I don't want that at all. What can I do to make him decide to keep it. ?

At the end of the day, it is his decision. and if he happens to go through with it, remember, hair grows! I'm sure he already knows you like him with it, so without hiding/not letting him buy razors (lol!) you're going to have to let him do it if he really wants to.
Who knows, maybe you will like it?

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Can anyone tell me what legit online job I can do at 17 years old. Please give me the website. I really do appreciate the help.

Gosh, if only they actually existed!
Don't get sucked into filling out surveys and all the other things that will supposedly make you rich over the internet. It's all a massive scam.
A safer, legit way of making money online is to sell things! Join Ebay or create a page on Facebook etc. If you don't have things to sell, think about making some, like jewellery/T-shirts.. list is endless.

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I'm now 13, I started my period when I was 10 . Ever since than I have been the same height and bra size??

Noone here can be certain how much you're going to grow, but what we can tell you is you've got years of growing left to do, sweetheart. So sit back, wait it out and enjoy life :)

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I've had my navel pierced for 5 months now.I was cleaning it this morning and when I dried it up with a Q-tip there was a little blood and a bit of yellow discharge but it wasn't a lot or seeping out of the holes. My belly ring isn't red, I don't have a rash, there are no bumps around it, and it's not inflammed or has green pus. Does anyone know if it might be infected even though there are no other signs?

Maybe you banged it without knowing - you should remember that a naval piercing is a trickier one to heal - 5 months isn't that long.
Sea salt soaks will be your best friend for the next few days. 3 times daily, 15 minutes each time - just hold the soaked cotton wool ball over it and relax. The water shouldn't be cold - boil the kettle first and use that water (obviously let it cool down a little bit before applying to your skin!)
Don't put ointments on it, because they get trapped inside the piercing creating more damage than good.
Happy healing! :)

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I got my belly button pierced about a week ago. I clean it with salt water and I put antibiotic ointment on it. I clean it 4 times a day and add the ointment on every time I clean it. But now there is a red circle around the piercing about the size of the top ball and its peeling. It doesnt hurt anymore unless it gets snaged or its pushed on. I dont touch with my hands not even to put the ointment on I use qtips. In the morning there is crusties but I was told thats normal. What is wrong with my piercing? Is this normal? What do I do to fix it? Should I take it out? Please help. Thank you.

Just thought I'd add an answer to this as I have lots of piercings.. All the salt/ointments you're putting on it is probably drying it out, creating the red/dry skin.
You don't need to clean it 4 times a day. Once/twice is enough and stop with the ointments. Perhaps reduce the salt in the water too and I bet it clears up!

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Can the boy feel pre-cum n can it make u pregnant?

In short:
No, he can't always feel it and yes, sometimes it can be enough to get you pregnant, as it can contain sperm.

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my piericing is stuck mmm like the flat side is stuck in my lip whaat should i do?

I have my lip pierced.
How long ago did you get it pierced? If it was recent, swelling does occur and makes it seem like it's sinking in to your lip - this rectifies itself when the swelling goes down and when it's healed, fits snugly.
but if you think it's actually getting stuck in there (I can't tell because I can't see) you will need a longer bar and possibly one with a bigger disc. Go to a piercer and get it checked out sweetie, without a pic and more info, it's impossible to 100% say.

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What does it mean when a guy doesn't call you after you give him your number?

Maybe he's not interested.
How long ago did you give it to him? Not all guys call straight away, they don't want to seem desperate. Give it a few days, if you don't hear from him, no biggy, just forget it. It's not the end of the world. :)

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Everyday I dress pretty but my crush stays quiet!! help!! =

Dressing pretty isn't always enough :P
Communication is where it's at. Talk to him! Whether it's online, face to face, txt.. strike up that conversation and then see what happens. Don't be put off just yet. :)

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Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. But 2 months into the relationship, I kissed another boy on vacation and after two weeks we got back together. And then 9 monthsi into the relationship, he cheated on me and took a girl out and made out with her. I forgave him like he did me, and we started dating again. But after every little fight we have, he goes and talks to girls on facebook and flirts and yesterday, He wouldnt let me get on his facebook so when he finally did, he had mssgs to girls telling them there beautiful, and asking his friends to "hook him up" with this girl, and asking guys who was that one chick, imma add her on facebook etc. We go to diffrent schools which makes it harder, but it happens every time. And before he let me read some of the mssgs, he locked himself in the bathroom and deleted other ones which is bad. I dont think hes physically cheated on me since then, but what should i do? :/

Dump his ass. Don't waste time with a loser like that - if you don't do it now, it will get harder to do it and you'll just be stuck in a pointless relationship. Trust me on this one.
There's plenty of decent guys out there - focus on them!

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I really love my crush, but Im not sure to invite him or not should I or not? SOS 1 ZILLION TIMES!!

Invite him - if he comes, it's a plus! and if he doesn't, at least you asked.

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my boyfriend asked me "babe , can i have some porn pics of you? :\ "

do you think i should do it? and what exactly do i take a photo of?
im 13 by the way

No, no, no! Of course you don't do it!

1. You are 13
2. Those pictures probably will get out.

"Porn pics" are tasteless and trashy.

Send him a nice, CLOTHED, pretty picture of yourself that only he gets to see. :)

and if he keeps asking for a "porn pic", tell him to either respect your wishes or to get stuffed, to put it nicely :)


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I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. I just didn't feel happy anymore. He barely made time for me like he did when we first started dating. He ignored all my calls and texts, and I just felt so doubtful that he liked me. I couldn't take it anymore. He just changed. He was so sweet and caring and loving and funny, everything to me. I kept pushing my doubts aside, fighting with myself not to break it off. And finally, I did. He didn't make any attempts to talk about what was the problem, because he's lazy. He had the time to, he just wouldn't pick up the phone. He always made up excuses as to why we couldn't hang out. His bike tire was broken. He had to do yard work. He didn't feel good. All those excuses. And when I could give him a ride somewhere, he still made excuses. I really fell for him pretty fast. I thought he did too. But I guess it was all just a lie.


so now I regret my decision. Mainly because I didn't give him another chance to try and fix things. I miss him like crazy. But he won't get back with me. He has this thing where he has rules for relationships. And getting back with someone isn't one of those rules. He's rejecting me when I promised him I'd fix whatever was breaking us apart. He said he had feelings for me but they just dwindled over time. I'm so crushed he didn't tell me. He says he's sorry and when I tell him to prove it, he's like: bye. I don't even think he ever did like me. I thought we had an amazing thing going. I shouldn't be so depressed. Yesterday was my sixteenth birthday, and even though I had so much fun, that feeling of emptiness was there. And now it's Easter. I've slept the pain away but I know it will return. He's just turned into a jerk. He's turned into a selfish arrogant jerk that thinks he's too good for me. If he really liked me, he'd give me another chance. I just want him back. I miss him so much. And I know he won't take me back. But I still long for him...

To put it bluntly, your relationship didn't sound like a relationship at all. You spent the first half of this question explaining how much it sucked and how he didn't treat you right.
Ending it was the right thing to do. You do NOT want to keep hanging in there becoming more and more unhappy in a dead relationship.
Sure, it was good at first - but all relationships start well. People change.
Go out, see your friends, have some fun. and find a decent boy who treats you how you want to be treated.
It's not the end of the world. Cheer up!

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for the past week ive been experiancing intense pain on the right side of my lower stomach. It lasts for hours at a time and then stops and comes back again.What could it be a sign of? Should i see a doctor?

Could be a number of things, which is why you need to see a doctor asap, to pinpoint it and give you the correct medication.
We can't tell you exactly what it is over the internet.
http://www.medicinenet.com/abdominal_pain/article.htm

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what do you do if ur ex is going around saying your pregnate and your not???

This has happened to me and I just couldn't help but laugh. The things people stoop to, eh?
If anyone asks, just simply say you aren't and he's just spreading rumours about you - he'll get bored of it soon. :)

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I'm 13, and I haven't started my period yet..... I sometimes feel sort of like I'm " leaking" and then in my underwear, I feel wet, but it's not a period because it's colorless ( or sometimes opaque) and it's kinda sticky..... Ive always been paranoid, but no matter what I search or read I can't find anything like it! I'm really starting to get worried. Is there something wrong with me?????

Thanks for inboxing!
It's totally 100% normal. It happens to all us females. It's just something called discharge, the vaginas natural lube/cleaner. You might find you get more or less at certain times of the month.
Only time to get checked out is if it has a foul smell/change of colour.

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