Gender: Female
Location: Virginia
Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
Answers: 182
Last Update: November 15, 2007
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ok so i have been doing gymnastics for liek 2 years, i have always wanted to be on the high schools team but i have never competed before so im kinda scared, and the girls on the team are really intimidating and rude!! help me!! (link)
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well i'd try out and if you don't make it it doesnt mean that your bad, it just means you need a little more practice to be excellent.. so i'd do what your doing for a little longer and try again next year! just keep trying til you make it. go to camps and stuff and practice A LOT--the more you practice the better you'll get!
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okay so i was really really close friend with my x we'll call him t.j so i was really close to tj b4 we went out then one day he asked me out and of course i said yes! and we went out for like 3 weeks (not that long) but i was then end of the school year and i didn't want a bf over the summer so i broke up with him. but now when i look back i really miss all the things he used to say and do for me! i really miss him alot now!! and i want him back! but everytime i try to call him the line is always busy cuz his sis talks alot on the phone! so wut do i do? (link)
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if he has aim or aol try to get in touch with him through that.. or maybe talk to one of his friends and ask where he lives or if they can talk to him for you or something..?
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Hey!I am 14 almost 15(august 17)and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2months.And he says i am perfect and like the "one".And says that we will be together forever.And i feel the exact same way too.And he asked me to marry him and i said yes!But we are not going to get married till we are out of school!But did i do the right thing about saying yes???ill rate you if u answer!~Kristen~ (link)
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awe yes! if thats how you really feel then you made the right choice!! =)
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okay. there is this kid that has been in love with me for like 3 years. he constantly used to bother me at school and on the internet and stuff. not to be superficial or anything like that but this kid smells so bad you can't breathe around him - no lie. two summers ago, he told me he loved me and i said " ew" and he threw a glass bottle at me. after that i didn't talk to him for a while. then i decided i was too mean and decided to talk to him again.. but his obsession with me got HORRIBLE. finally at the end of my junior year he was pestering me and i couldnt take it anymore and i screamed at him to leave me alone. then after school i was walking to work, and i saw him in my field on the way there. i freaked out and didnt know what to do so i let him talk and after that i didnt want anything to do with him because seriously this kid is MESSED UP ( like OCD and anxiety disorder). i just dont know what to do when i go back to school and have to see him again. hellllpppp! (link)
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ignore him and don't try to talk to him anymore.. if he IM's you online block him or just minimize or x out or something.. if he talks to you at school or if your alone and you see him just walk right by and act like hes not there. Don't let him get to you--enjoy your senior year!
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My best guy friend wanted to kill himself. At least thats what he told me. He said it was because a girl didnt like him. He said that no one cared and that he had already tried before. It really worried me and I told him that I cared. As I was walking to the bus, it really hit me what he had said. When I got on the bus I realized that i liked him as more than a friend. The problem is, the next day he acted as if nothing happened. I'm not sure if he was telling the truth about wanting to kill himself. I'm only 13 but I have liked him for over 5 months. My question is ...........
Do you think you have to be a certain age to love? (link)
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-as for the killing himself thing--i hope hes okay and you did the right thing by being there for him and telling him you care maybe he acted like nothing happend because he was shy to bring it out in person.. some guys get like that or maybe he was trying to hide his anger or something?? hopefully, it was just because he thought about how wrong he was and realized that it was the wrong way to go
--and no i don't think that at ALL.. you can be any age!
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Hey! OK, I'm really shy. Its not that I enjoy being all by myself because I totally hate it... I love to be with people... but it’s hard for me to just walk up to someone because last year in classes we got to sit around and talk for the end of each period. When I tried to talk to someone they would be like "uh huh. Ok" and then walk away. However I’ve talked to each of them individually and they seem interested in talking to me (No, they were not just being nice) I’m moving to a totally new country next year which means a new school. I want to redo myself… like not be so shy anymore. Could you all give me some tips for me to be less shy? And please no advice like "just talk to people"… that doesn't work. I've tried. Thank you so much everyone!! Any advice is appreciated!
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hmm.. well when you get there instead of being like the shy type to just sit there and watch everyone talk.. be in the center and YOU be the one talking.. just be yourself and everything will be okay. all you have to do is just talk about things that interest you. im sure they'll all talk to you because your moving to a differnet country they'll probably think its awesome.. just talk to anyone and im sure you'll have no problem fitting in.. try to be friends with everybody!!
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how do you make a website like what website do you go to to make a website?
-Webless (link)
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you can go to expage.com to make an expage
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Hey see I knew this boyfor about 8 years now and he went away when we was10 years old then he finally shows up yesturday and expects us to re be friends...... and I hardly even reconize him.!
so what should I do?? PLZ HELP (link)
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be his friend!!--theres nothing wrong with that!
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ok ive been asking for advice on this one guy1 who asked me out a while back and i sed no to. and i sed i regreted it. well yea i still do and i think i like him. but just tonight by best guy2 friend told me he liked me. i was really shocked. idk wut to do. and then just last night a guy3 told me he liked me to. guy3 sed tonight while i was talking to him that we needed to talk. and i was like ok? and he sed but not tonight tho. and im scared hes gonna ask me out. cuz if he does im gonna be bad cuz i hate saying no to ppl. but i actually have a reason for guy3. and i tell guy2 and guy1 alot of things. guy1 thinks guy3 is gay. and i just laugh about it. guy2 thinks hes desperate(but not about liking me)cuz he liked me sis awhile back. idk wut to do. i gess i like both guy1 and guy2. but i have know clu wut to do. please help lme b4 something else go on. i dont think i can handle all this likingness. please answer quick and ill rate u. im serious i rate alot of ppl. please help thanx.
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hmm.. well what does guy 1 think about you? if you don't like them and are just scared to say no then maybe you should just stay single til guy1 likes you or whatever.. just break it to them nicely tell them you love them a lot btu just as a friend or something... just be really nice about it and everything should be okay!!=)--hopefully this helps!
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If your bf or gf got you a limo for a surprise for like 3 months of going out and it was a boxy kind of limo.. would you care? (link)
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awwe thats cute! hopefully he sees you care about him so much to do that!!=D
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Hi, my names liza im 14... i have this guy lets call him *Dave* and we were goin out for like 16 months, and then yesterday he calls me sayin "yeah liez i have a gurl her name is kelly and laughs and says i know its gonna piss you off, oh well bye" and i cryed for hours, im still crying right now. i know it was stupid and i dont know what love is... but i really did i was seriously in love with this boy and i cut my like my whole arm up, and did a bunch of stupid things. i really dont know what to do anymore with my life i dont wanna live, i wish i was dead. does anyone have any ideas for me to get him backk or something cause i REALLY wanna get him back... and i dont know how to. s0o pleaseeeeee pretty please someone anyone please help!!!!! :( ill rate you, just please help me... xo liza (link)
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aww omg im soo sorry.. you shouldn't have done that to yourself!! no guy is worth it AT ALL and i mean at allll-- so many guys are going to come into your life and hurt you like that, i can't believe he did that!! what a jerk.. well as for you, i don't think getting him back is going to do you any good and espec. since you cutt up your arm!! you shouldn't have done that--just forget about him and move on.. stay single for awhile its great=D flirt with all the guys you want and when you find the one you really want to be with that wont hurt you, he'll be jealous =) hehe.. well.. im sorry n i hope your ok.. hopefully everything works out!!=D
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My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing? (link)
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well just tell him you hate fighting with him and you just want things to be okay together.. try to be more calm when he says something rude or something and just keep your cool.. otherwise maybe it may be the best thing just to break up with him=/
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what does the song echo by trapt talking about it? what is the story behind it? like what is the point of it what does it mean.... (link)
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hmm im not sure.. sorry!
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I need some songs... any song would be good and who its by!! (link)
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well if u like country songs whiskey lullaby-brad paisley is a really good song and these days by rascall flatts... also the streets of heaven but you might have some trouble downloading that lol... umm get no better-cassidy memory-sugarcult switched-meant to live any usher songs?? avril lavigne-my happy ending... slow motion-juvienielle.. yahhhh haha hope i helped!
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My best friend is pissed off at me just because my science teacher chose my suggestion/idea on my project over my best friend's idea. She is giving me an attitude and is refusing to talk to me. What should I do? (link)
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compliment her on her idea and tell her it was awesome and maybe next time you guys could combine ideas or something so you both get credit and she wont feel bad or something??
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im 14 years Old nd i was never kissed or never had a bOy .. my friends say im pretty nd everythin but yeah i dont feel like that ..y ?
o nd hOw can i nOt b shy rOund them its soo hard fo me ??????PLEASE HELp ! (link)
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hmm.. well you just hafta have some confidence in yourself!! if your friends say your pretty then obviously you are! instead of thinking about the bad features you think you have think about some positive things, if i were you i'd write down some things you love about yourself and just focus on those.. you can do it about the bad things and just try to change them as much as you can!!
--as for not being shy around guys theres not much you can do i guess.. but like i said i guess you could just have confidence and be yourself! any guy likes a girl who can just be herself and not some other girl.. don't let a guy change you! just act like hes one of your best friends.. i hope i helped!!
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there is this girl whos is really really really nice but some of my friends make fun of her b/c she can't afford new clothes i want to make her have really cool clothes but the problem is i don't have any money to get her new clothes how can i make her look stylish w/ out usin alot of money?? (link)
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easy--let her borrow some of your clothes or something?? and invite her over to your house or something so you guys can become friends.. you should really stick up for her its totally not right to have people treat anyone that way!
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hey, i went out with this girl for all of my freshman year, and last year we broke up, and ive dated other people since then, but now things are heating back up with my ex, and i need to know the difference between her just trying to be nice, and flirting with me again....any help? (link)
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well for starters you should talk to her about it all.. its always best if you talk to the person about things. her trying to be nice could lead to flirting but i dunno.. if your not interested in this girl you should let her know now!
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom? (link)
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NO!! not at all! you need to talk to your boyfriend and not listen to what his gay friends think.. tell him that your just looking out for him and you don't want to be a overprotective mom your just trying to make it right for him so he doesn't get hurt.. if he doesn't listen to you and your really turned off by it maybe you should tell him he needs to pick.. smoking or you and hopefully his choice will be you. if he picsk smoking hes just not the right guy!
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Ok well ive already asked this but everyone is telling me the same thing.
well i went away for the summer. when i got back my mom hade this really bad attitude to me. in the beginning the attitude was comeing from my dad. i really didnt care because i dont live with my dad n e ways my mom was being all harsh on me for all the little things. i told my friend all the things i was thinking and my mom found out. she will not talk to me.ive already told her i was sorry.and did a lot to make her forgive me, but nothing worked. Should i keep doing what im doing or what. dont tell me to talk to her cause everytime i try she walks away and i dont want to play games. (link)
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well this question is kinda hard to answer because i dont know exactly what happend or whatever.. but i think you should just have someone talk to your mom or buy her a really nice gift or flowers or something and tell her your sorry for whatever you did... hopefully things will be better after that!!
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