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Stalker?
okay. there is this kid that has been in love with me for like 3 years. he constantly used to bother me at school and on the internet and stuff. not to be superficial or anything like that but this kid smells so bad you can't breathe around him - no lie. two summers ago, he told me he loved me and i said " ew" and he threw a glass bottle at me. after that i didn't talk to him for a while. then i decided i was too mean and decided to talk to him again.. but his obsession with me got HORRIBLE. finally at the end of my junior year he was pestering me and i couldnt take it anymore and i screamed at him to leave me alone. then after school i was walking to work, and i saw him in my field on the way there. i freaked out and didnt know what to do so i let him talk and after that i didnt want anything to do with him because seriously this kid is MESSED UP ( like OCD and anxiety disorder). i just dont know what to do when i go back to school and have to see him again. hellllpppp!
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ignore him and don't try to talk to him anymore.. if he IM's you online block him or just minimize or x out or something.. if he talks to you at school or if your alone and you see him just walk right by and act like hes not there. Don't let him get to you--enjoy your senior year!
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ok..sounds like you have a problem i would tell someone your parents or a school guidence counselor/teacher it sounds like this kid has a problem and needs serious help and if you dont tell someone you might get hurt you or someone else could
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turn him down politely and (if you can stand doing this) tell him youll be his frend and gib him a shot at thah at the least... itd be cruel to turn him down and not hab anything to do with him afterwards...mite as well try and see how he is as a frend...make soore he understands where to draw the line if he wants to be your frend tho coz if not things can get a lil whacky...ya no?
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this is the hardest question i answered all day ... but i suggest you tell him nobody likes being stalked and you dont want to be stalked anymore ... i suggest changing your screen name and stuff so he dont know it is you and then i suggest you tell you parents
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oh boy... Stalkers AGAIN?!?!
I have one myself, and boy is she a pain!
So my advice to you is to confront him and ask him why he's obsessed with you. IF he tries to pull something, tell someone in authority (police, principal, parent...) So try that and if he's still bpthering you tell me and I will try to help in any way I can!
Chi
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you have to tell somebody. Because this kid has prolems, he might do something dangerous. take a different route to work
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Wow. You should try your best too avoid him, but not make it look like your ignoring him. Its sounds like he is a danger to you. If it gets too bad, maybe you should talk to someone about it. Not him, he would probably take it the wrong way.
megan.
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I would try to find a tactful way of saying that he might have a odor problem. He might not even know about it. After that, I would avoid him if he is bothering you that much. I would consider telling a teacher or someone if he is harassing you too much.
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Ask him to leave you alone and if he continues to bother you then maybe you should tell your parents, if he's actually a stalker type person that follows you everywhere and knows everything about you maybe you should consider getting a restraining order saying that he isnt allowed to go near you or something, idk thats what happened to my nextdoor neighbor..
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Tell someone about it. Let someone who can do something about it know. If the kid is seriously that messed up then he needs to be stopped. It doesn't seem like this kid is all right in the head. If you're in your jr. year already and the kid hasn't learned about deoderant, then that should indicate something right there. But if he's becoming like that, it could get serious. Tell someone who will be able to do something about it, and let friends know, tell them to watch out for him when you're around. And if possible, try to avoid walking alone.. I mean if you realize he's becoming that serious
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