Hi
Been looking at holidaying in Britain for say 5 days. Really fancy a caravan, mobile home type holiday. However, i dont drive so is there anywhere for relatively cheap accommodation like this where its easy to get too if you done drive.
I dont have kids ill be on my own, just want a few days away maybe do a bit of sightseeing shopping etc and somewhere where i can just chill in the evenings with a book.
Any ideas?
I live in Britain.
If you want shopping & sightseeing then the best bet is London-liverpool/manchester are good but there's not as much sightseeing there.
There's a Travel lodge by Euston station-this may be an option because its close to transport links and the tube, to get you to the shops, the shows and the sights.
Its soo expensive to stay in the city centre, as you've probobly gathered.
Try this: http://www.visitengland.com/ee/
Or:
http://www.hostelbookers.com/hostels/england/
I only suggested London because for a 5 day visit you'll pack the most in there.
However, you could also go to popular places like Cornwall & the Eden Project, Bath, Yorkshire etc. "Britain" also includes ireland, so it could be nice to look at Giants Causeway etc too.
Shopping wise and sightseeing wise, london is the best though. Check this out aswell:
http://www.visitlondon.com/offers-and-competitions/
Hope you enjoy it :)
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I am 16 years old and I dated this guy for almost a year. We broke up last November, got back together in January, and broke up in February. There's something about him that I can't let go so I keep going back to him. I had him over yesterday and we were alone so we were kissing and one thing led to another and we ended up naked. We decided to have sex so he put his erect penis in my vagina for about a minute before taking it out and we did other stuff instead. I'm really worried because that's when I was most fertile. He didn't cum in me but I'm worried about his precum. Should I take plan b? should i be fine? I have soccer scholarships on the line I can't get pregnant I'm really worried please HELP!
Try birth control yes.
But if you can't control your self then you're not old enough to be having sex in the first place.
Its not good enough to say one thing led to another, this could be a baby's life your dealing with.
So walk away from your ex, for good because you're not ready for motherhood yet.
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I have to be honest with you in order to get a full answer to my question. I am a 28 year old guy from the UK and I am a convicted sex offender, having been convicted of historic offences when I myself was a child. The offences only came to light when I walked into a police station and handed myself in without warrant for my arrest. The judge, when sentencing me, said that, had I not handed myself in, the offences would probably never have come to light. He also said that I should look at rebuilding my life and return to University, which I was unable to complete because of the case. Probation officers working with me repeat that and often tell me not to be as hard on myself as I am being. I am going through a behavioral course for sex offenders to encourage me not to reoffend and I am serving a community based sentence.
What I don't understand is WHY do many people believe that, after the torment and destruction I have caused to my victims (plural) when offending and to bring it back up and hurt even more people in the process, obliterating more lives, that I deserve another chance? In my eyes, I should have been put to death, but we abolished the death penalty before I was born. Do I really deserve another chance at life when I have destroyed the lives of my victims? Or am I right and I should never see the light of day again?
Its relative whether or not you do deserve a second chance.
At the very least, if you can't help your victims it'd be a good idea to help those who need it.
I volunteer-I think you should to.
Its great for building back your sense of self worth. Because although what you did in the past was a terrible thing, you, like your victims have to find ways to cope. Otherwise you'll sink into depression and life wont seem worth living.
You can't change what went on int he past, but you can learn to make up for it. It may not equal perfectly, but there's no harm in, for example, helping out with a charity in some way. The people's lives you interfered with will never be the same again, but you can help change someone else's life for the better.
The fact you don't want to live is a decision governed by emotions. Because of this, people will ignore any claims you make about wanting to not live.
I just think you should put your life to good use and help the thousands of people out there that need your help. So I'd contact some kind of ex-offenders helpline and try to take the first steps to change your life, and someone elses.
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Its sunday night and my mom found out I cut and says I can't do my modeling fashion show if they not gone by wednesday because I have fittings and the lady wouldn't let me model with marks all over me. Anyway I wanted to know how to get the cuts to go away by then? I've tried lemon juice. Any other sugeestions?
There is no remedy. The whole point why people cut is to cope, and unlike crying the scars have a lasting impact.
Perhaps in your moments of distress you should've thought about this. The only way is to go to the hospital and they can help glue the scars back together again.
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I am about to be 19 years old and I lost my virginity when I was 15. I Did not bleed ever during sex ever but it just happened to me while i was getting fingered by my boyfriend. He asked if I was a virgin even though this wasnt the 1st time we did this so I dont know what he meant. He said it was maybe normal and maybe popped my cherry cause I was too tight. I was also a bit intoxicated. No pain, and went away after I cleaned myself up. What could this be? :(
Your hyman may have closed itself over again. When its broken-it doesn't actually break. Its still there, just closes over again.
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i am on verge of just dont know what. but i have had enough with this.By uncle is phoning all the money for his kids and the luxuries and when me and my brother demanded anything frm our dad all we got an answer was no money.even my so called uncle said tht. cut to 25 yrs post this torture and sense of feeling deprieved and poor in our growing up days me and my brother today envy everything my cousins get.let me mention its a joint family buisness here in india and my dad has slogged his ass he being the elder one to make it survive.today my brother is married and the story still continues and has played on his mind life and everything. he has to quietly take money from dads cupboard without asking which amounts to stealing.My dad doesnt take any money from business for his expenses.my uncle distorts the accounts running in lakhs buys expensive cameras goes on holidays for his kids. and my parents think of saving for house renovation as we all stay together.and my uncle slyly doesnt invovle my dad in accounts or my brother who has evry right to be invovled. when my uncle was confronted by my dad he shouted and accused my dad back on top of his voice. so my dad kept quiet to keep the family together. he is afraid as im his daughter yet to get a good arranged marriage proposal in my caste here. My brothers life is ruined he isnt progressing in life at job he does or perosnal life with his wife. he is alwyas frustrated and talking about his past and blaming my parents and accusing my uncle and justifing his action.i dont know what to do how to help my parents or solve this matter for good. its been going ever since i can remember but tdy seing my brother go in worng direction pains me. i dont even feel like getting married and leaving my parents in this state.please help should i ignore and die within as all these years or speak out. because my uncle after getting evrything out of my dad will not answer anything but she demand sepration from family business and assets.as his kids are growing up and entering college.but this unfair to us my parents as they alwsy did and still do so much for them.i wanted a seperation when i was all 15 yrs as i wantd my mom n dad just to myself and yes a normal happy family but that time my father i remember till date had said he will never think of breaking the family even for his children.i use to live with the fact that i will get married and get away frm all this mess.but seeing how my brothers life is affected i am scared what future will hold.he has nothing apart frm his small salary from his coroprate job to provide with for his family in future now that he is married.my dad is old now . he wont be there forver to keep my uncles expenses from our joint business in check. his two kids have college fees of 2 lac rs every year and where as we dont even spend a penny as as i stay at home finished my mba with a scholarship and yet no job.because eversince i finished i have been distracted by family issues.i talked to my brother but he become agrresiive now and accuses my parents in front of his wife. my dad keeps crying now and then.please help me what should i do you can i save my family from this. my uncle aunt and her two kids are least bothered by us. they are happy in the own selfish world and dont even respect me and my brother as we are elder.i cant see my brothers life getting ruined. i cant see his past ruining his present and future.i cnat see my mom n dad so helpless. i never knew it would grow so big on my family such issues. im scared as hell what will be the situation even five yrs down the line.is confrotning my uncle the right thing. my father says pulling the last straw wil make evrything fall apart and hamper my marriage which is his top priority now. but i can seem to find peace or happiness after knowing all this. should i intefere or leave it to my dad n brother and god.one thing i swear on god and can tell you whenever household appliances are bought the money goes from the buisness acount abut when my uncle buy lavish gifts for his son my dad doesnt know where the money comes from as my uncles doesnt show or tell.the very same expensive camera i had begged my uncle to buy for my brothers wedding recntly he flatly refused saying no money we have in buisness . its going in losses. and after three months his son my cousin all of 18 yrs gets its as a gift. no one tells us or asks us. we just see the camera one fine day in our living room.My grandfather who technically owns the business has been brainwashed by my uncle making my brother the idiot angry man of 30 yrs.so my grandpapa alwys houst at him too. and when he came to know of the lavish expense of the camera he asked my uncle why he bought to which he replies it for my brother and all of us!!! do you not sense slyness here?or is it just me?i told my dad this but he as usual of his sainthood let it go. so did me n my brother. but today when i see my brothers life getting worse day by day because of some third persons doing in the business. i cant see my brother suffocate for the rest of his life and die.my ada is all alone now. he wants to fight i feel but cries alone because of his own sons doings according to him.i am 27 and according to our indian society someway burden on him. i dnt know what to do. i dont want to break relations as i am aware i have to get married first but nor can i see my family suffer.i want to end this. at times i feel my father nevr had a brother.at times i feel like ending my life (dnt wrry i wnt lv my parents a lot)but 12 yrs of the nonsense issues have taken its toll on me.me my parents my brother coz of this are alwyas fighting. i dont even remember last time we sat together for meal or smiled laughed.my uncle and his family are far away from this . they happy freaking out and chilling in life with not a care in the world. i feel like hating god for doing this to me and my family and making my dad so stuppid. maybe if he was sly and smart like my uncle and thought about fending for his kids first today this day wouldnt have come and my brother would have been happy stable peacefully living his life with his wife.i dont now what to ask you but just tell me something. some ray of hope coz i see only dispair and fights and sorrow in my parents and my brothers eyes. i thought maybe i should start going to the office and see the accounts myself but my uncle gives me such dirty vibes that i can even sit for minute in his presence.my dad all these years has been handling the workshop floor of repairing the cars. and our office where we rent them is in another area.so direct cash has been handled by my uncle always. investments have alwyas been made by him too , though he has made them on his own name only always and never ever told or advised my dad to make.another reason i never got to the office though i would love to go is beacuse of my aunt's sisters husband,who is always there in our office most evenings mornings as there is joggers park nearby. this even i find unprofessional and he talks to me and treats me as if i am an outsider in my own dads office.
should i start going inspite of this and be crocodile skin now and go to office and see the accounts for my brother? or is it not needed or too late now? what can i possibly do anyways there?i want happiness and peace not even any kind of luxury or comfort for my parents and brother.please tell me what should i do. i always hated family politics dishonest people but today i have lived my life in them , i shudder to think what and how my in laws will be. i have seen more than i needed to in life and im just fed up.pls pls help me.im just emotionally mentally exhausted now like my brother and dad.my dad faces some new issue accused by my uncle over money assets property evry day.my uncle very slyly expects my dad who has way crossed retirement age to re novate the house for him and his kids and where as my uncle himself being all of 48 doesnt want to think or take the responsibilty himself or share it. my dad has always been the one to set the business eduacte my uncle and make hin an engineer evrything. but my uncle just beacme an engineer in life and sat on the business mamanging it thats it. now growth no developing it further nothing. so techincally he hasnt done anything much in life.he expects my dad to take the burden of selling our village property as we live in the city now and with that money re furbish the house . again this is selfish. my aunt is too creatinf emotional drama by saying i mortagage my jewellery and give money but i want good rooms for me and my kids!!! and yes till date she is mortgaging it!! the money is nowhere in site to pay in advance to the architect.me and my brother have too grown up in modest surroundings. i fail to understand this demand and emotional torture to my mom always. every year they have been travelling to some far away place in india for recreation. my parents never asked where the money came from to them. me and my brother never even stepped out our city because our dad was always busy with office work and mom in housework and kitchen.i want to set this straight. enough of scarfices my parents made and made us make. this has lingrd on my brothers mind but i have decided to bury it in the past. how do i get my brother out of it? how do i make him successfull and have a sense of happiness and calmness in life to help my dad and move on in life and be smart instead of hampering your own self and parents.if you can advice me i would be obliged. thankyou
Do you have any idea how ridiculously long this question is. As much as I'd love to help, to be honest I can't be bothered to read this.
Its clearly an outpouring of emotion, and when you initially wrote this, the rules stated to make it short.
Please name the question the same next time, and make it alot shorter. I DO want to help you with your family issues, but there are too many questions being asked.
Thanks, I look forward to answering a more condensed down version of this!
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I have a at who has been pregnant twice and is pregnant again . Some yellow kind of bloody fluid leaked from her ... area . & this has never happened before . I dont have money or insurance to bring her to the vet , what should I do ?
Not trying to be nasty,just an observation, but if you don't have the money to take her to the vet (it'd be cheaper if you insured her) then you shouldn't own a pet. Its like you wouldn't have a child if you couldn't afford childcare.
Anyway, back to helping you. I don't think you should worry. Its nothing too serious. With any animal, including humans, discharge is more common during pregnancy, because there is more pressure on the vaginal area.
If there is blood involved, there's nothing you can do yourself. But it'd be best for your cat if you did get help from a vet. She may be suffering with an infection, or it could be preterm labour.
I know you can't afford it. But it is what you signed up for when you acquired her, and I'm sure you don't want her or her unborn kitten to suffer?
In future, if you have not already take out an insurance policy. It will cover the costs of vet treatments, and has proved useful to me.
Please don't think I'm getting at you, I just don't want any animal suffering-as I'm sure you don't.
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My mom complains about me sitting round the house all dau but NEVER lets me hangout with my friends! Is that bs?
I think she's hinting its time for you to get a part time job.
As you get older, you're expected to pay your way more and more, and by the time you're 18 even pay a little rent.
Its more productive in her eyes for you to be out all day working and earning, not hanging out with friends. Would she be paying for you to hang out with friends?
Its very unhealthy to sit around the house all day. Perhaps she want you to realize this. I also think if you started something to fill you days with, a job or a voluntary job, she'll have more respect for you, and let you see your friends.
Work hard, play hard.
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so there is this guy who I have had a lot of eye contact with twice we even locked eyes for quite a while and suddenly, he started to avoid eye contact with me
It's like when I look at him, he wouldn't look at me anymore.
Could this be because he lost interest in me?
It depends if he's shy or not. If he's shy: he likes you. If he's not shy: He has lost interest.
Though eye contact is a common feature of human interaction. Twice?! I think you may have blown this out of proportion.
There are many other signs-it may not be what you want to hear but thats because we come to conclusion quickly when we like someone because are emotions govern decision making.Anything he does, you'll think its because he may like you.
Having said that, you need to look for other possible signs. But don't let it consume you, and don't get to hung up on it. Us girls have intuition, a kind of sixth sense. If you sense he likes you, he probably does.
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His name isnt jason but im gonna call him that Jason came here from Ecuador and i wanna know are immigrants allowed to get married? :/
Does he have a visa? If not then know he can't because its illegal for him to be in your country. Marriage does not grant him access to your country-you knew said where you're from, but I'm guessing the US?
If he's illegal then forget it.
So, if he was serious the first step would be to apply for a visa which means he can live in your country. This can be temporary and then can switch to permanent. He can then apply to be a us citizen-this takes YEARS after all the tests etc.
Then you can think of marriage.
Consult the ecodorian embassy in your country if you're still confused.
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F/16
Okay i will be going into college in 2 years, and i Really want to study for a field agent, but my boyfriend doesn't agree with me. He wants me to have a job where i can spend some time with him, and our future kids. He says i need to find a job where i'm going to have time for him, and be able to spend time with the kids, not a job that i will probably never be home, or always have to travel places and blah, blah, blah. We are planning to get married and have children, but anyways. I really want to become a field agent, and i don't know if i should look for another career to satisfy him, what should i do, i don't want him feeling sad ???. : /
Thanks very much-
You're 16. That's far to young to be planning ahead about kids etc-you know it NEVER goes exactly as planned?
Your boyfriend seems very controlling. 100% do what you want, not what he wants.
If he can't accept that, then tough, you're better off with someone who loves you and respects you with what you want to do.
You know, relationships that are formed in teenage years seldom succeed to adulthood. Not trying to get you upset, but just a though for you. What if you quit college and then split up for another reason? You'll be without the guy, AND your dream job.
I'm sorry, but it's your life, and you are metaphorically blind if you think your boyfriend can be this bossy. Its like a mini dictatorship!
If he feels sad that you have chosen to do a course that makes you happy, then honestly he's not worth it! But hey...if he loves you he may come round to the idea.
Also 'he wants me to get a job where I can spend some time with him'. You don't have to be an economist to know how terrible the job market is at the moment. You accept what ever you can-part time work is scarce!
Follow your own career desires-because you are your own person-your not joint to another person, and your not obliged to do as he says to maintain the status quo. In love decisions are made on emotions, which is why I'm trying to help you step back and make a balanced choice.
Whichever you choose, good luck :)
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I'm really confused about this, I place my penis inside her but it doesn't ENTIRELY go in, half inside half outside! There's something inside like a layer that stops it from going in , this must mean that she's a virjin right?
By the way my finger also goes in easily and doesn't reach that layer.
So how much distance is there between the outside layer and the inside virjinity layer?
High five to all.
-Thank You.
You had sex. You're not a virgin.
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Blue spots , seven blue spots on my legs and 2 on my hands. I did NOT hit them or injur or fall myself on'em !
Any ideas?
High fives to everyone
Thank You-
Take photos of the marks, in case they disappear. In any case, you need to see your GP.
Are you sure its not from your clothing, like fabric marks?
We're not doctors, but I think you should go and see one. Quickly.
Don't worry, its probably nothing. Anything weird these days and everyone jumps to 'cancer'.
So don't panic, take photos of the marks and book to see you GP as soon as possible.
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i want plastic surgery to make myself look like im in my 40s that way um nobody will insult me and mistake me for a teenager so wheres the best place to get it
The plastic surgery industry is worth billions, because of people's desire to look young not older.
To make one look younger, they can tighten skin, lift eyebrows, however it is hard-no impossible to make skins ag etc. on purpose, just to make one look older.
I'm guessing you're a girl not a boy? If not ignore my advice.
You can use make up to make you look older. This is actually what I do.
Try these:
http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=how+to+do+your+makeup+to+look+older&oq=make+up+to+look+older&gs_l=youtube.1.1.0i10j0i5i10l4.79.79.0.2127.1.1.0.0.0.0.352.352.3-1.1.0...0.0...1ac.1.11.youtube.eIwRQtf8Kns
You also need to work on your image. If you wear clothes from younger brands, then you will look young. Wear plainer clothes, alternativley clothes that add abit of sophistication to your appearance, like blouses:
http://www.dorothyperkins.com/en/dpuk/product/clothing-203535/blouses-shirts-1973671/blush-tipped-placket-shirt-2115152?bi=1&ps=20
Wear earth colours, and try to avoid leggins!
Its also about how you act. its especially hard if you want to FEEL young (we all do) but look older. You have to act mature. Read books instead of going on facebook all the time. Be intelligent and knowledgable.
I'm not saying act like an oldie, but to APPEAR older you have to act older, and really that comes from within. Done right, it feels great.
Why not volunteer with children etc? This will boost your confidence, and, usually when you're in a position of authority, you feel alot older and develop into a wise person.
I think really this is a question of self esteem. On a deeper level-its not you who wants to do it-you're fine. Its people around you saying you're like a teenager, and putting you down.
Make sure you suceed in all aspects of your life not just your appearance: e.g: your job, your social life etc, and the rest will follow suit.
Don't let your desire to look abit older distract you from the present, because blink and there's no going back. Do it in moderation. Live for now.
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apparently my mom still tries to treat me like im still in high school even though im 24 almost 25 which is not a teenager and i inderstand how stupid high school kids seem to act as in listening to stupid music watching stupid and corny movies and go to stupid drinking parties and yes i understand people in their early 20s still act that way but i do not nor did i ever and im sick of her saying that teenagers are my age group when theyre most likely not so anyway how can you end it and be aware of it please help
It took me several reads to understand this question: who says (apparently).
For one you need to stop worrying about this. You know, not trying to be nasty, but many people your age have bigger fish to fry: mortgage to pay,
advancing in their career.
As long as their mother loves them-its not really a concern.
If you want to act older, have goals. Do well in your job. Engage in politics. Read intelligent books. Though many teenagers do this already.
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Hi everyone my nails are so brittle and thing and break super easy! Literally a chunk from the middle of my nail will come off and than my whole nail breaks. I've tried Sally Hansen brittle dry strengthener nail polish but it doesn't work at all!! What vitamins or nail polish would help? Thank you!!
You can get special nail and hand moisturizers that strengthen them.
Don't wear nail polish whilst making them strong again, because the nails will turn yellowy for lack of calcium and vitimin D from the sunshine. Clear polish may look pretty though.
If Sally Hanson polish doesn't work for you-I think you may need a proffesional manicure. They can treat your nails according to what they need, and give them some TLC.
It may be expensive, but Sally Hanson works for many people, so if it doesn't work for you perhaps your case is quite extreme?
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You do slightly, though they're more pronounced in other people I think.
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i & my partner had unprotected sex on 20july for 6times after 3hrs i had unwanted 72 pill, my period date was 23rd july but whn i checked it out yesterday through prega news i was pregnant. how could it became possible????? how do i got pergenant even after t5aking pill?
Well...doctors recommend to not just take the pill for the day/time after but before you have sex as well.
So you've created a new life. Time to put your sex life on hold and focus on that now.7
If you plan on not keeping the baby, not having sex is the best contraception, and so is wearing other forms of protection.
Make sure you know the facts though-this is a persons life your dealing with.
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17/f
I have the urge to have sex but I don't want to lose my v-card. IDK, I'm pretty desperate for it and I kind of hate how I'm always fantasizing.
Right, but you've not asked for any advice??
You've done well to keep it, I say save it for that special someone. If you're always fantasizing try to put that energy into something else like getting a good career or something, to distract yourself from it.
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I have a ten week old Maltese , Yorkshire terrier cross , she is lovely , but then all of a sudden she turns in to a snarling , teeth bearing nightmare ,for instance today she was just happily sat on my daughter knee , nobody bothering her and she just flipped , it was quiet frightening to watch ,any advice please would be great
It could be the diet. The leading brand of cat food in the UK contains lots of extra additives in it, which made my cat go like this as a kitten-very hyper.
Consider altering the diet-sticking to dry food can ease any hyperactivity, whilst she is still a puppy.
Perhaps something outside the home has disturbed her? How is she with children/other dogs?
To be honest, I think this is still part of the settling in process. Most animals go through a phase like this.
I'd just make sure I'm constantly giving her attention and wearing her out during the day by playing with her, so she's too tired to be aggressive at night.
It could be a hormone thing. i'd say if it carries on after you've tried my advice, contact your vet, or take her with you to a pet food store and ask the knowledgeable staff their why she may be aggressive.
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