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Well Hello everyone.My Name is Bridgette Martinez.i have not bee on this Website in a million years.But newayys.im 15 years old.living in a little town called c-town.im a freshmann at wnhs.i have a wonderfull boyfriend.his names is stephen.he is the most awesomestt boyfriend ever.i love him with my lifee.my familyy is the most awesome thing everr.i love my mom with my life.. : ).and then theres my hobbys.!i love to get on myspaceee. : )its addictingg.if you wanna add me on myspace my account is myspace.com/pinkroksloveee you guyyysss.
try and ask me some questions if you want.ill get back to yuhh.loveee : )
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Alright well I had a relationship with this kid for over a year.. we broke up about 3 1/2 months ago and hes dating and im sure im ready to date again.. well my best friend nick finially told me hes liked me since before me and my x went out..and hes liked me for that long. and i only see him as a best friend. his name is nick and i always use to talk to him about all my problems now i cant because he likes me and i dont like him and i dont want him to hate me if i got another boyfriend. theres also this kid andy i guess andys liked me for 3 weeks and hes a sweet kid hes so much fun too hang out with and yeah hes alright i kinda like him but not as much as this kid adam. adams everything hes perfect and i want to go out with him..i would but i like being single and having guys as friends..to hang out with. and i dont want to get hurt again and im sure he wont hurt me. but also theres this kid dylan ever since me and my x boyfrikend broke up all dylan has done was been there for me we hang out almost every day see so much of eachtoher its basically like 'were going out' but i def. dont like him i think atleast and he sed he'd prob. cry if i got a bf, and my BEST FRIEND becky is going out with keith dylnas best friend so all 4 of us always hang and we just started to go to dylans cottage nd it was soo much fun and if i get a boyfriend i wont be able to but its hard because i like adam so much and he likes me and i dont know if im loosing a good chance in my life with him..so i dont know what too do PLEASE HELP!!!
wow..it sounds like your having alot of fun with these boys..and thats cool that your not stuck on just one person...and theres nothing wrong with haveing more than one guy friend..well i think that you shouild gou out with adam..unless you dont want to ruine a good friendship..and all those other boys??well um you shouild actually NOT go out with adam..and you SHOUILD stay single..becuase you and adam can stil be firends and all those other boys can still br friends with you to..nothing wrong with to many boy-friends..well you shouildnt get series with any one..i no you wouild proably hurt all those other boys fellings if you do..well just do what you want to do..and just make sure that you dont get hurt and that those boys get hurt and always be good and dont play around to much!!!hope i helped!!!!
love always
ilovepink101
i've been itching a lot on and near my penis for a few months. does anyone know what this might be?
well you if you shave your penis then that might just be irratation..but if you have like a red rash and it still itches you might want to go check that out or if you dont want to go to the doctor then just look it up on the internet..just search it and see what they say..i really dont no much about you guyz peniss so dont no what to tell you..sorry..hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
Im a 16/f and my boyfriend is an 18/m(duh lol) and we have been dating for 1yr and 2 weeks... are aniversary is on the 22nd of this month and he is graduating on thursday.I want to plan an amazing night for me and my boyfriend...because things are getting better. What should I do to show him how much I really love him... because i want to make this night perfect. He likes my cooking but i want to be alone with him. So give me a perfect night..thanks
well..umm it sounds like you are the oerfect couple!!!lol!!well your not planning to have sex with him are you????well you said you didnt want to e alone!!but ne-wayz..you shouild just go out to dinner with him and get him a card and a littlle something something..you no..nothing that big..your boyfriend shouild be really planning all this..im sure that he has a whole big night planned out for yuo guys!!lol..well all you gotta do is have fun and if you do have sex pleassse use protection!!we dont need anymore teen parents in this world!!e-mail me at diamondsaremtbestfriend101@yahoo.com
and tell me how it goes and what you guys did..just rember to have fun and be safe..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
I really like this guy but he acts like he has me whipped. Is there any way I can still show interest without being so "easy" ?
girll all you need to do is stand up for your self and dont listen to him..you never listen to any guy..espically a stupid boy in shcool who thinks he has you whipped..i had a boy friend who "thought"he had me whipped..and it was the end of me and him..do i mis him yeah!!but you no you ghalft to learn to move on in life and leave those kinda people behind you...yes i think you shouild give up on him and find some on e nicer and some one tjat respects you!!!you dont desrve that..!!not any girl desrves to betreated like shes whoopped by some stupid little boy!!
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
hey i need help!I really dislike this guy my sister is wild about. he just got home from a trip and he stealing her away from me. while he was gone i thought we had so much fun but now its a mess. i can't confront her because she has a.d.d and she goes crazy and leaves so i need advice
wow...it sounds like you ahve a problem..well you sg=houild talk to yuor sister calmly..well never mind..because of the a.d.d. part..well i no if you try to talk to them together,your sis an her boyfriend...maybe hell try to calm it down a bit..but you got to also no that if you talk to your sister she might think that you jealous of her..why dont you like hte guy??you shouild just give him one chance..any way you dont halft to like him..all you got to do is say like hi and bye..you dont halft to start a whole conversation with him..and about your sister you shouild approach her more..like its summer now...so when you guys are doing nothing you shouild just go ask her to hang out or something..ust try your best..e-mail me any time you want..im always here..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
Me and my best friend have been best friends for ages.but now i feel she is going off with another girl.If i talk to her about it she goes your my best friend not her,but yet she still goes off with her.
what shall i do?
well it sounds like some one is a friend hog..well dont worry about it becsuse im just like you..well maybe you shouild talk to them both and tell them that you feel kinda left out..and maybe you shouild try hanging out with them..maybe it will be mare fun than you think..im sure your best friend doest realize that shes actually hurting your feelings..but if you try to hang out with them for once than you all might be able to be good friends.thats how i cam this year...my best friend went to this other girl and never even talked to me..i couild of cared less about the girl she was hanging out with..so i wouild always pull her aside and try to take her away from them..but she finally told me.."why dont we all hang out ,i no that you will like her and she will like you as the same.."i finally gacve it shoot and now me and that girl are best friends and we talk every day on the phone and we always go places to gether...so just give it a try and if you dont like it i don what to tell you!!
hope i helped,
love always,
ilovepink101
ok well my best friend set me up on a blind date with her boyfriends best friend. well we hugged and we cuddled in the movie and i gave him a hug at the end of the date and i thought everything was fine but his friends didnt think so and hes saying im prude because i didnt kiss him. should i have done more i mean i would have but i mean i didnt want to take it to far on a blind date and i always wanted the guy to make the move i was never to (btw i have never hadeout before)so i wasnt sure if it would go there i was worried i would mess up! please help!
well you shouildnt kiss anyone on a blind date.. ans sont worry about what people say about you..but if you feel you shouild of kissed him than you shouild of......but dont do anything because your firnds tell you to..anyways he shouild of made the first move anyways..what is it now a days????all the girls are amking first moves.. you dont do that you wait till he kisses you...well i hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
ok so im going to be hosting a pool party..so of course i cant just not swim..! im also expecting my period the day of the party..i never use tampons so i dont think they will work the first time.. i hear they hurt and are tricky to use the first few times. what am i to do? any way to delay my period? im desperate enough to try stressing myself out on purpose because i hear stress delays it..what else can i do? should i try using the tampon? last month my period didnt come until like 10pm...will it come on the same time (10pm) this month?
5's for juS ABOUT anyone
well you got a little problem hear!!!well you cant wear a pad because it will blow up and blood will leak out of it and everything..my friend did that and her pad got like really big and blood was leaking everywhere..you just might halft to not go swimming..you know u jus might halft to use a tampoon..but you no how they work right???well when your leaking it expands..because its absorbing the leak..and if your going to be in water your tampoons going to be pretty expanded..well thats why they reccmoneed tampoons for people who has had sex more than 3 times..only because they no how it feels to have something in them..(unless the guy had a small you no what)and im not saying for you to ga have sex 3 times..but you do what you feel is right..my opiunion you shouild just go ahead and wear a tampoon...or your other choice is for not to swim at all.. you choose..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
at my school theres some people that think im hot but they are more like the losers and the popular people ignore me and tell me im ugly.. why is this? but people outside my school think im pretty good looking ..why do people do this
well people in school and people on the streets or in your neighborhood are 2 diffrent kinds of people..well i no how you feel about all the losers liking you...i once had this gay boy like me..and it was so embarrissing he wouild always embbarrsse me because i wouildnt go out with him..but im use to going out with the popular crwd..like when i go out with somebody every 1 has to no..people halftt to like oo yeah did you hear about them..well all the popular kids dont like you because their to bussy getting boners on the cheerleaders and all the girls that play sports...and dont put your self down just because i specific guy doesnt like you..your beatufull and dont let any on tell you any diffrent!!!
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
well it all started in 2nd grade when my friend and i thought it would be fun to try and have sex so now im not really sure if i am a lex, bi, or striaight. i always thought it would be more comfortable having sex with girls and if i ever needed to practice making out a girl would be better i really have no idea and im scared...if i am a lez or bi i dont want to tell my friends cuz they might feel uncomfortable...and i kinda wanna wait till im older to see if it all changes and if i doesnt im gonna tell my parents..i just need to some help! please! thanx!
well i think all gurls have those urges to do it with other girls..and i think almost everygirl kissed another girl..and that is true if you tell your friends they are going to feel vey uncomftable around you..and people will call you bad names..and its just terrible..but you shouildnt saying anything about it now because you dont no if your straight or lez or even by...so you shouild just keep that to your self friends wise..and you dont need to tell your parents right now..and your making a right choice waiting till you get a little bit older to see what is right for you...or to see what choice you have made..well i hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101
is there anyway to keep my eyeliner on longer.. like so it will stay on and not get off.. i dont want a type of eyeliner i just want tips
well you couild bye the real brands..or you no what i do...i use the eyeliner pencils..i dont use the ones with that weird hard thing that you push up..i use black and white pencils..the pencils are easier to put on and they stay on alot longer..to make your eyes look really pretty yuo can put eyeliner on at the top...like at that top of you eye..its kinda hard to explain..but just buy a pencil their like 2 bucks..alot easier..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
Okay I sweat really bad under my arms.ALL the time. And I've tried every deoderant there is! Nothing helps.And it doesn't smell it's just sweat. Help?
well umm it seems that you need tom use a stronger deorderant!!you no my friend always use to sweat..and she didnt no what to do..well she finally found a sloution...she used mens dedeorant. i no it sounds like so nasty but mens deordeant is alot stronger and nobody will no..wel nobody new about hers just me..and its nothing to be ashmed of..you just put it on in the morning and put some on before you go to bed,..hop i hlped..
love always,
ilovepink101
theres this girl and her mom died like in november and i live right down the street from her and she is seriosly every where i turn: my house, school, swim team, bus,my brain, i mean seriously she ia everywhere. she is so weird and annoying but when she was at my house once she said that i am her very best friend so now i cant do anything about that because my mom would kill me, id feel guilty, and id practically be the meanest person on the planet. i really do not want to be her friend anymore but i cant get away from her. any suggestions? ill rate you
well you no you cant be mean..because you no tht she proably lost her best firend!!...her mom...and im sure her and her mom were very close..so shes trying to get over the fact that her mom is gone and trying to find a friend..and thats the number one thing she needs right now is a friend..its really hrd to get over that your best firend died..and she may never get over that..but you hlft to break it down to her..you shouild tell her to cool it on coming over..and tell he r that you dont need to see her as much..and just say something that you wouild say to your self..my mom always told me to treat others like you want to be treated..just put your self in her shoes..with a mother gone and im sure no friends...the least she couild have is you..so try to be nice and dont scare her off...e-mil me anytime you want and tell me how it goes ok!!
hope i helped!!!
love always,
ilovepink101
I used to be a really bad kid, like Id sneak out with guys and get drunk and do sexual things. Around New Years Eve (04) I got caught from this and had to go through a drug class. Then in Febuary (05) I got drunk with some guys and got rapped. People have been saying stuff about me because of this. My friends boyfriends tell them not to hang out with me because "I attract niggers, drugs, and alcohol." And my friends parents will say "if you keep hanging out with her youre going to get rapped by black guys." Im not a bad kid anymore, I have moved on from this and do not do drugs or sneak out with guys anymore. I have started being nicer to my mom and decided not to keep anything from her *so everyday I tell her everything that happens even stuff I do with guys.* Is there anyway I can make people stop saying this and realize I am not the same person I was?
wow thats pretty sad..and in feel really bad for you...and i no how you feel...i had a best firnd named chelsea..she got raped from my bestfriends brother...and chelsea got pregneat...and people called her a whore and every one stopped hanging out with her and my friends pulled me away from here..she had to get an bortion and every one called her a murder and she had to quite school and she was only in 7th grade..and it made me feel so bad inside..well i dont no what to tell you.. shouild tell your friends and their boyfriends that you changed and thta you got help..and you shouild ask them for one more chance..but you did a great thing by going to get help..and good job on doing better..as for my friend she is geting home schooled... but about you.. you shouild just sit them all down in a room and talk to them all and ask them what they think about you and you correct them if they are wrong about you..and you make sure you tell them that you are not the person you use to be and you are a much better person now..and if they still dont get convinced, then honey they aint worth it..dont waste your time of day to try to convince them..just give t 1 more try and make sure you do it well... wel you can e-mail me anytime..keep i touch with me and tell me what you did to solve your problem..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
I'm moving schools this summer. I went to visit my new school, and very few ppl were nice to me. Everyone else knows that i just came from a privite school, so they hate me and treat me like garbage. I no that all privite school students are different, and i know that i am! I really don't care what other ppl think, but i really want to make friends at my new school. How can i show them that i'm a normal person and not a snobby rich student they think i am? I really want to make friends their, but it's so hard when they don't know the real me. How can i show them?
well all those people are jelous..and dont try to change for them..trust em you will make friends...and those people are obviously the snobbs you no.and they will like you...they dont even no you and some people are nicer than others..maybe some of the girls will give you a chance..but you no your just like me i am moving to another school this year..but i didnt visit the shcool..and so what you came from a priviate school..it shouildnt matter if you just got out of jail they shouild stil give you a chance..and its true people always think private school girls are snobbs..and half of them are not..but you be you and you dont change for those people at the shcool...qnd dont forget to be good and have a good school year..e-mail me so we can keep in touch..so e-mail me soon...
hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101
Ok here it is, my boyfriend hasent called me in like 3 weeks and i called him 3 times in the past week and he hasent returned my calls. When i called him last Sunday to tell him somthing his mom pick up and i asked for him and she said "who is this Brittney" (My name is not Brittney) I have no clue what to do!!!!! Can you help me?
sorry to say it girl but it sounds to me that your boyfriend is playing you!!but dont take it personal..maybe brittany is a friend or something..but i no that the first thing to mind that he is cheating on you!!man i wouild be piced if my boyfriend didnt call me in 3 weeks..i get mad if my boyfriend doesnt call me in 1 day..i wouildnt do good with your boyfriend..and you shouildnt put up with him..you shouild call him and try to get a hold of him and break up with him..my x never called me..i tryed to break up with him and he didnt call me in 2 weeks and it took me 2 weeks to get a hold of him to break up with him..all you gotta do is call him like at 10 o' clock am and just say it..or call him late at night..or you can block your number and he wont no whos calling so he might pick up and talk..well you do what your heart tells you..but this guy sounds like a major jerk...no iffence...i wouild also be piced if his mom asked me if i was brittany!!well e-mail me and tell me your decison..keep in touch!!
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
13/f
I have dandruff and whenever I wash my hair, my hair is all moisturized and great. But when my hair dries my scalp gets all dry and itchy. I have tried all the shampoos but they do not work. My question is: is there any kind of moisturizer (besides something where you have to get your hair wet) to use when my hair dries?
well you need to go to a slaon and ask them if your hair is alright...you neeed to get pert 2 in 1 shampoo or you shouild use head and shoulders...you shouild use head and shouilders because it is for dry and damaged hair and its for dandriff....dont worry you are going to be fine..i use to have dandriff..its nasty..people think you have a lice...make sure its dandriff and not lice...ok...well e-mail me and keep in touch and tell me what happens..but i do recomenndd head and shouilders...
hope i helped,
love always,
iloveponk101
ok, so i went to my friends pool party, and it was 4 hours long, so i got soooo sunburnt that i look like a giant tomato!! and it really hurts!!! but that's not what i'm concerned about. i got like sooooo tan!!!! is their anything that'll make me get whiter again? WITHOUT surgery?!! i rate high!!!
oo...your funny....surgery , tomato......dont worry about it...your tan will go away eventully...any wayz people look good with tans..boys like tanned girls...if you hate tan then you wouild hate to be me..im naturally tan...so that means if i go to the beach i will get sosososososososososososoosossossoso dark!!!!lol!!!well dont worry you dont need surgery and your going to be fine.. next time if you dont want a tan put some sunblock on !!!your silly!!!!!lol!!!!!!
hope i helped!!!
love always,
ilovepink101
my parents are way overprotective. like my friends are allowed to stay out til 11 or later, and i have to be back before dark! what can i do?
well sit down with your parents and talk to them about you curfew..ask them why dont they let you stay out till like 9 or 9:30.. and i no 1 thing there going to tel you is that your not your friends partents and that your parents are protective and your friends parents can do whatever they want..well just try 1 more time with them and if they still say no then i wouild give up lol...welll just let them o that they can trust you being out late ..hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101
Hey uhm im 13..and im not the u kno most preppiest girl out there. I have black hair and brown eyes..I want sumthing to do with my hair cuz im tired of being so tomboyish. Im not the skinniest girl so does ne1 have ne tips on how i can be a little more girly without being preppy?
welll ummmmmm... really why do you want t o change your self????you shouild like who you are...wel you can try to oose some weight if you want to!!you can eat more fruits and veggies.. and you can stop eatting junk if you do..and you dont have to be a prep to be beatufull..well you can put your hair up in like a pony tail..and if your hair is short then just let it grow out and be proud of what you got..but you can always by the pantene pro -v shampoo that always helps me with my hair.... or you buy thermasilk..never by the cheap brands like suave ok..that shit damages your hair..and maybe you can start putting a little bit of amke up on..like a little bit of i shadow and mascara and i liner...thats all in use..i dont use base or foundtaion in ruined me face..ii looked like a ghost...lol...but that doesnt mean you are..so try it and e-mail me with the update on how you look..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101