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I am 16 years old.
I have one brother, a mum, and a dad.
I also have a hamster, Pearl, and I consider my brother's hamster as my own as well, whose name is Waffles haha.
I love in southern Maine and have a site on facebook.com.
it's under holly mason.
send me a friend request and tell me who you are and I'll accept you.
That's me! =]

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I'm not good with names so bear with me here. I use this face cleaner rutine thing to get rid of pimples. But it stings [pretty bad] for about 20min. Don't get me wrong or anything, it works great you can see results in two days. But is it supposed to sting like this? (link)
probably not, you should change cleansers.


I have a really back pain in the back of my head. It won't go away, it is a thumping pain and it just will not go away. i already had tynenol.. i don't what to do... HELP ASAP! (link)
ask your mom to take you to the doctors, maybe they can help.


Ok, I wasn't sure where to put this but here I go.

The last few weeks, just under my eye.. like in the corner next to my nose it has been twitching.

It's driving me CRAZY. It doesn't twitch when I put my finger on it so i've been walking around with my finger on my face most of the day.

The girl that I work with said it was to do with tiredness.. but i'm not sure!

Can anyone please tell me how to get rid of it, i'm sick of it!

18/f if that helps at all...

Thanks in advance! (link)
That's totally normal. It will go away in time and just try to ignore it. Good Luck!


ok well i feal like such a bad person. Like im aalways hurting. Because my boyfriend went to the army and i feel bad cuz i talk to guys but not flirt and i feel like thats wrong. And i drank a couple of times n i feel bad for doing that. i feel like im such a bad person and i jsut want to die. i dont know what to do HELP! (link)
You didn't do anything wrong as long as you weren't underage. Don't blame yourself for that. live and let live. ol Hope you feel better! =]


im 15. i still love my ex, travis. but he treated me like crap. so ive been trying to get over him and i met this guy named dillion. he is really nice, cute, and would never treat a girl bad. and i was considering goin out with him. and then my ex starting talking to me and he was saying he thinks we will probably go out again. i was so happy but i dont want to get hurt AGAIN but i cant help it no matter how many amazing guys i meet he is always the one i want. dillion is goin to be upset. and i will feel really bad because he was so great to me. what should i do (link)
Well, I wouldn't go back out with travis if I were you. That's going to be hard, but you need to try getting over him and moving on. Try going out with dillon and if that doesn't work, go back to travis, but give dillon a shot.


hi you answered my question about dressing 2 my figure, and you suggested i wear a strapless push up bra. I was just wondering why a strapless one? why not one with straps? (link)
well, first of all, because if you wear one with straps, then they will show. You don't have to if you don't want to. Hope I helped.


ok so i dont know how common this is but my boobs are two different sizes. It's been that way for about 2 years now but i always figured they'd just even out. Im 14/f and one is a 32A n the other is a 34A. Is that bad or normal or anything? (link)
Don't worry. breast develpoe at their own speeds. This is definitly normal. plus, at least their not a huge size difference. Don't sweat it!


13/f/8th grade. i have baby-sat my own brother and sister before, but that is basically it. i am going to start baby-sitting the kids on my street and in my neighborhood. any advice on how to start? like what do say to parents, what i should have them pay, what emergency numbers i should have, anything at all? (link)
You should probably charge between 5 and 7 dollars. Then, just casually mention to the parents that you're starting a baby-sitting service and they should provide the emergency numbers for you. Good luck =]


I`m well liked at school, I have alot of friends. However, I find myself being mean at times. I try not too, but a sarcastic remarks slip out constantly, and I tend to gossip. I've cut down alot, but I'm trying to stop all together.

Any tips on how to be a sweeter person?
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Well, it could be the TV shows you're watching or if you sleep with the radio on turned to a rap station and it's just stuck in your mind. God luck!


Hi im a 13 yr old male and i like to wear girls panites thongs and bras...is there anything wrong with this , is this normal, is it like a sin to do it?
Thanks , answer asap please (link)
It's a chemical embalance and it probably means you were meant to be a girl so talk to your momm aboout it. Though on the other hand it could just be a curiosity. If you start liking guys, then you were probaby meant to be a girl, but if you like girls then you probably just want to know what it feels like to wear the same things as girls. Good luck and talk to your guardian! =]


well over the summer ive lost 30 pounds i usually get my period on the 14th of the month and its now the 21st! can losing weight make your period irregular? (link)
It could if it's a drastic change in your diet. You may want to gain a couple pounds and loose them gradually. Good luck! =]


so i started birth control about a month ago. i was just ending my period. i'm on allesse. so i started taking the pink pills.. and i started the green ones three days ago. i still dont have my period and there's no chance that i'm pregnant because i've never had sex. is this normal? (link)
It could be a side effect from the birth control, but if I were you, I would ask your doctor about it.good luck! =]


I am 13 F, in the 8th grade. i amabout 5"3 and i am reallly skinny. I am only a 34A, but i was jw how 2 dress to my figure so it like makes me look chestier, and just how to make me look better becuase i am super skinny. an advice? (link)
You could get a strapless push up bra. hope it works! =)


My boyfriend was with a girl for 6 months. Now weve been together for almost two months, but the other day he called me his exs name. What do I do? (link)
You're going to have to confront him first and if he still has feelings for the girll then you need to decide whether he's worth it and if you can live with the slip up! good luck ;)


i like this guy adn today he was kind of being rude to me like saying, you look like a monkey ( we were doing something about monkeys in class) and you smell like a monkey. and you are retarded. i was really hurt because i like him and i don't like it when he says that. does this mean that he finds me annoying or something? what should i say if he says it again? (link)
Just tell him to stop and if he doesn't then maybe he's not worth it. Hope it goes well! ;)


At school for Homecoming week, we do spirit week and each day has a theme. One of our days is Celebrity day. I don't know what celebrity to be. I'm told i look like Samara from "the ring" but i dont want to be her. Does anyone have any ideas of a celebrity i can look like. For pictures of me check out my myspace or my advice column
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http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=jeanine278972


Thanks (link)
Well, you could curl your hair and be miley cyrus or you could straiten your hair and be alexis bledel form gilmore girls. Hope I helped! :)


I am in love with this guy. And he feels the same toward me. However, he is better than me in every way. He's smarter, better-looking, and so on. This makes me feel inferior and insecure. I feel I'm not worthy of his love. I feel extremely small when I'm with him. I wish I could be as intelligent as him in order to be more worthy of his love. I hate myself. I hate my shortcomings. My biggest fear is that he would abandon me because of the fact I'm not as great as him. As a genius, he has every reason to despise me. He outshines me in every area. Whenever I detect a tiny sign that he might ignore/hate me, I feel like dying. Because of these, I'm not myself when I'm with this guy. I care TOO much about how he thinks of me. I appear very nervous, hypersensitive, and stupid. And this makes things worse. I am over-conscious about every word I say to him. I fear something I say would sound silly according to him and that he would despise me. I feel I'm just a silly little girl in his eyes. I know in fact he loves me. But I can never enjoy his love because of my feeling of inadequacy. I feel I need to be a much, much better person to deserve his love. I always try to be smarter so as to be "equal" to him, yet only end up making a fool of myself. This drives me crazy. What can I do now? (link)
Um, well no one can make you feel inferior without your permission, so just try to act normal. good luck =)


i like captainL but i don't know how to ask her out. Can you help? (link)
I think you should ask her out.


i mean i know he likes me but why won't he ask me to the dance.

It's sooo obviouse that he likes me but he won't ask me out.

why won't he?

help please! (link)
Well, he could be shy. Why don't you make it easier for him and make moves that you like him too. if that doesn't work, ask him yourself.


There're twelve days 'til homecoming & I need a reasonably priced dress. Where's a good place to buy one? (link)
JC PENNY'S or MACY'S




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