Question Posted Friday September 22 2006, 12:02 am
Hi im a 13 yr old male and i like to wear girls panites thongs and bras...is there anything wrong with this , is this normal, is it like a sin to do it?
Thanks , answer asap please
redhead6154 answered Saturday September 23 2006, 10:26 pm: umm yeah theres something wrong with that..its not a sin but its kinda weird if you ask me. i wouldnt tell your girlfriend that or she'll be freaked out. if you like doing that..well i guess go for it. but yeah its kinda weird.
ShaunyD answered Saturday September 23 2006, 6:40 pm: Dude they is nothing "wrong" with this. It quite possibly is a sin if your a strict christian, but so is everything else.
How can there be anything wrong with something that makes you happy and doesn't hurt anyone else?
Is it "normal"? if you mean do a lot of people do it then probably not. Does it matter? Not really. Although someone did make the point that it is bad if your stealing other peoples underware, but thats the only problem I can see here.
Dont let other peoples opioions keep you from doing what makes you happy.
sizzlinmandolin answered Friday September 22 2006, 1:14 pm: If you can't help yourself from doing it it's a problem. It's also a problem if you aren't buying your own underwear, you're stealing other peoples.
As much as people on this site will tell you that there's nothing wrong with what you're doing, it's still not a good idea to do it. It's just not accepted. Yes, it's important to express yourself, but in a certain context. To be a happy person, you need to succeed socially. If people find out about this, you won't. End of story. Sometimes you just have to give up a part of yourself for your own good.
My advice to you would be to stop wearing women's underwear, at least for now. Once you are older and are in a very committed relationship, tell your partner about it. Don't tell anybody else. She may accept it and maybe enjoy it, but others won't. So keep it under control and keep it to yourself. Good luck. :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Friday September 22 2006, 10:53 am: First of all, ignore the person below me who wrote that it's weird.
No, there's nothing wrong with it. It just makes you a little different, that's all. It's more common than you might think... I should know, I worked in lingerie store!
It may be against your particular organized religion, so it may be considered a sin, but what you have to think about is the fact that you can't take everything that the Bible says literally... or else it would be a sin for girls to walk around with their hair showing! So just look at what you think of it, and if it makes you happy, do it! [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
clarayow answered Friday September 22 2006, 9:52 am: Yes there's something wrong. Ask yourself do you see most guys doing it? Is it a common phenomen? I guess the answer is pretty obvious.
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