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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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Hey. I hugged another guy. I have a boyfriend (of over a year a 6months) and my boyfriend who I love soo much got mad, and he doesnt trust me.

what should I do? we are still together, but things are shaky. I know he still loves me coz he told me he did, when he came over to my house to hear the whole story. So that has to mean something.

What are some sweet things I can do?

BTW i have no idea why I hugged the other guy! I wouldn't ever date him! crazy! When I hugged him, I got the worst feeling in the world, it didnt feel good. I got a stumach ache, and wanted to run away. And I felt like I was gonna puke. It was @ work. and after I hugged him, because I felt so bad I ran out of there!

-thanks a million!

I'll rate and leave feedback!

-Kelsee-

If you felt bad about it and regret it, then you should really explain it to your boyfriend...he will prob understand*

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i like this guy, and im not sure how to approach him. he's a friend of mine's friend. but my friend wont talk to him for me .. so i guess im on my own. but idk if he'd be interested if i tried telling him i liked him. i met him before so he knows who i am. but i've liked him almost my whole freshman year and i just dont know how to talk to him about it. he's popular .. im not. and all that stuff. but im just not so great around guys and im wicked nervous. any ideas? any help would be great.

try being just friends with him @ first, and eventually when you get to know eachother, if he likes you back, he will make a move*

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are there any excercises to get rid of love handles, or at least help?

oh love handles actually look good if your into bellydancing @ all lol but yeah...try curls up

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ok well this guy his name is kevin and we've hung out like 2 times with other people and the first time we played ghost in the graveyard and hes like i got becky (me) and he kept like picking me to be it cuase i wasnt playing and then the second time we were at park with my frend sarah and these 3 other guys and like we were there for a long time and if i said something funny he would always laugh and like he would look at me and he is absoluatly HOT and i like him alot and i dont know if he likes me ... cause im not the girl who would go out with a guy i mean i never have so what do i do?

tell 1 of your friends to talk to him about you...ask him about his feelings for you..and if he says he likes you , then you should start talking to him...ask him for his sn or #

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i was just wondering what the website or where do you go to download the program or whatever to go on more than one sn (aim) at a time? thanks in advance.

try linking your screennames...

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Okay! Im 13 and have the oddest fear. I go to bed at like 1 30 AM and than ill go to the bathroom at like 2 and ill go to the bathroom and than go to leave but ill be too scared. So ill end up sleeping in the bathtub!! Its cuz im afraid someones in the house but no one ever is. Is there a way to get over the fear?

try leaving all the lights on..in the hallway, your room and carry a flashlight. Or even a knife if you must...*

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Ok, 13/m, Im out of town, my girlfriends birthday was four days ago and I dont get home for 3 more days... we havent been going out for long, but i still want to get her sumthin nice that says i love her and that im sorry i missed her birthday... any ideas?? thanks

Try getting her perfume and bodywash set such as pretty in pink from victoria secret...and then make sure you add in some chocolates & roses*

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this is a very long story... i will give you the short version... i am going into 7th grade.. in 6th grade i started middle school... i only had like 13 friends cuz most of my friends went to a different middle school... well anyway i met this girl that i thought was my friend... but she turned me really really really mean. Down at heart i am nice but i cant help what comes out of my mouth! I met this boy... brendan... i fell for him... very hard... but i was mean to him so he hates me now!!! And it kills me inside... i cant tell you how many times he has made me cry! Well i want to start 7th grade on a clean slate and be nicer to EVERYONE especially brendan... how can i do that?

think about what you say....make sure its something you wouldn't mind if someone said to you...treat others how you would like to be treated...and if you think something will hurt someones feeling...just dont say anything at all

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You know how there are websites where you can adopt virtual pets and care for them? Does anyone know of any websites where you can do that with real babies? not pets?

neopets.com

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I'm thinking of getting side bangs. I have a small forehead and just below shoulder length hair. I'm not sure but i think i was going to get them the length so the reach about three quarters up my cheeks (level with my nostrals). Would this work with me and do you think side bangs are just a fad?

side bangs end up looking cute on almost anyone..try it out and if you dont like it..you can just use pins to hold your bangs back

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does anyone know any sad and depresing songs i can listen to. break up songs, madning songs, or sad songs. ill rate 5s.

I miss you so much by TLC, November Rain by guns & roses, Unbreak my heart by toni braxton, Since you've been gone by kelly clarkson..

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okay i have a stupid virus on my computer!! do you know how to make my computer go back to the day before it happend because i just fixed everything and my brother went online and the virus is BACK after a week of being gone. Im so mad and i really really need someones help!!!!

try rebooting your computer...

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I have this friend and she hangs out with me all the time and stuff but shes kinda mean to me and sometimes it gets to the point where im so sad that i cry . what should i do?

Tell her you dont like the way she treats you and it makes you feel bad...if she doesnt listen, then that means shes not a real friend...and you shouldnt hang out with her anymore

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right this may sound very VERY stupid but what is xanga?!?!?!?!? people talk about it all the time and i have no idea whatsoever what it is... could someone please give me any idea of what it is/or does. thnx lucee xxx

its this website where you make your own page and post entries...and your friends leave you comments

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i want to go for the preppy look this coming school year
like how should i dress to look preppy and what stores could i shop at that are not expensive
and could you please give me the website to the stores
thanks

i love abercrombie and hollister...though hollister might be a lil expensive. Try aerospostle or american eagle

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Since it's summer and school is gonna start soon I wanna get a killer tan by tuesday! I'm really white. Like as white as it gets, by /i can tan sum what easily. I wanan get really dark, as dark as I possibly can get. What should I do? Should I go out in the sun evening today, all day sunday, monday, and tuesday and then put on an artificial tan? If so, what tan should what tanning product should I use? And what type of product works best.. spray or a lotion? Thank-you very much!

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Go to a tanning salon! I love this place called Hollywood tans...they will give you the perfect shade you want*

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Sometimes I have my days where I actually feel confident, but most of the days I have no self esteem whatsoever. I always compare myself to other girls, and I hate it. I know looks aren't everything, but it seems like I'd be happier and more outgoing if I just looked better. I already wear makeup, experimented with differenent hair colors and styles, and different clothes. But there's always someone who looks 348349x better than me, and it bothers me. (Even though it shouldn't.) Any suggestions on how to gain self confidence and quit comparing myself to other people?

Try going to a place like hechts and asking them to apply make up on you...they can show you what will make your face look better. Go to a salon and ask the stylist, what she thinks will look good on you...I recommend Aveda Hair Salon & Spa. Don't compare yourself to other girls....every girl has some good qualities and some that are just average.

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Me and my bf have gone out for 6 yrs.
Well one day I started to get tired of seeing him 24/7
So I told him that and I think he thought we were breaking up.
I only wanted alittle alone time
A week later I saw him with another girl
and I asked him what was going on
but he told me we broke up so he moved on.
Now im really jealous and been trying to to tell my bf I never really wanted to breakup with him I just wanted alone time and he keeps saying thats considered breaking up.
Does anyone have any advice on what I could do?

well if he started dating within a week of your breakup...he might not be as attached to you as you think or on the other hand, he might be trying to make you jealous. But talk to him and let him know you werent thinking when you said you wanted to break up & that you want to give it another try at your relationship

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hi well first of all i know some of you might think why in the world do you want to be a prep? and all that stuff but i dont care what you think if you are just going to like criticize me ok.

and people who are willing to help, how do i be like a prep?

i mean i know i kinda like talk like a prep and all that but i am Asian and stuff and i am not rich at all so i cant really go shopping at Holiaster and American Eagle outfitters and all that and this one person thought i looked like a devil worshiper. like what the heck! i am so not a devil worshiper... i mean i heard of someone telling me that i talk like a prep and everything but how do i really really look prep?

i really really need to be a prep...

its a survival of high school...and trust me, you dont know my school

i rate high for people who tries to help and if you mock me i report you and get you banned

Well you dont have to be rich to dress preppy...try abercrombie..they have real cute clothes but im not sure if that is considered preppy lol but i love it.

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Aight, I just had my first taste of love, and now, I'm pissed off at people who look for just sex appeal or hotness. That's not true love, it's just how they look. How can I get un-pissed without seeing a therapist? Thanks, and by the way, I give 1s to wiseasses.

Theres no reason to be pissed...there will always be different types of ppl in the world...you can try showing them your point of view but dont try to change them...when love finds them they will change on their own( :

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