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hey you guys for summer school i have to take a poll of peoples favorite songs! so can you post ur favorite thanks (link)
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thats an easy one..
ill be missing you
-p. diddy, faith evans, 311
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does pink and yellow look cute together? (link)
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they usually do.. depending on what your using them for. thats really more of an opinion. its a choice your gonna have to make.
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okay well..ive liked this guy steven for almost 5 years now..he's like perfect..only problem being that we dont go to the same school..and now he likes me back..but recently ive been talking to this other guy and im starting to fall really hard for him..i mean hes jsut as great as steven even having bonous points by going to both my school and church. should i go the safe route with steven or risk it all for this new guy? (link)
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get to know the new guy before you make your choice. keep talking to steven tho. if you end up liking this new guy just as much then go for him. if not then just go back with steven. its not a big deal if you dont go to the same school. hope it works out with the new guy since it would be easier. good luck.
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my dad is a phsyco, and i've lived with it all my life, but now my mom is talking about getting a divorce, at first, i was devistated, but now i want them to divorce b/c i'ld most definatly be happier. AnYwAy, my mom wont talk to me about it anymore and i want to tell her i would support it, how can i do that without sounding lik im a total physco lik my dad??? (link)
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just bring it up and say that you support it if she wants to get divorced. tell her you want everyone to be better off and happier. im sure she wont think your a psyco. i hope it all works out for you. good luck,
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Hi I moved here like last june and I havent had a boyfriend since I moved here and Its staring to really bug me Im 14 what should I do to get a boyfriend? plz HELP!! (link)
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well,
i dont blame you for wanting a boyfriend. just flirt with guys you like and talk to them alot. im sure a guy will come along soon enough and you'll be able to have a good relationship. until then, just keep your head up and make sure the guys notice you. good luck,
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Sorry if i asked you this before:
I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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well if the guy flirts with you and pays attention to you alot, then he might like you. theres no real way to tell. getting him to notice you is easy tho... flirt with him and talk to him alot. it'll all work out for you. good luck, and if you need anymore help then just ask.
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ok i had sex for the first time about 2 weeks ago.. my bf had a condom on and everything but all i keep thinkin bout is me gettin pregnant.. im not showin any signs like.. gettin sick or things like that.. i cant really remember when my last period was so i guess i cant really go by that.. but i keep like totally frkin out! when do the signs start to show.. and if u use a condom what r the risks of pregnancy!!! please help me (link)
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well, the risk of being pregnant if you used a condom arent very high. its still possible. i think theres like a .1 chance or something like 99% you wont get pregnant. throwing up or your boobs being sore are symptoms. good luck but i dont think your pregnant...
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I gave this girl perfectly good advice and I got a one!! Why are people so rediuclous??? Can people please be reasonalble for once?? ALSO SOME WROTE PAD? SO I DEFINED THE WORD AND SHE GIVES ME A TWO AND SAY OHH BUT WHATS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A PAD AND TEMPON! BUT SHE DIDNT ASK THAT!! wow you people (link)
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well alot of people can be unreasonable.. you just have to deal with it. tell them that they shouldve asked about the difference between the two if they wanted to know. you cant read minds... it'll be ok. good luck,
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my parents and i dont get along. they always try to get into my bussiness and ruin everything.. i dont tell them anything and i am not plannin to either. my problem they think i spend too much time on the computer. i cant do anything. my parents are over protective and dont let me do anything with my friends unless it is with a parent. i am really gettin tired of my parents bullshit. i dont want to go otuside and make friend with the girls out there because they are ALL snobbs. i have tryed it before. and when ever i talk to a guy my mom questions the shit out of about the guy.. i have no idea what to do anymore i leave me parents alone i do what they say but in return they wont leave me alone... i used to barely be on the computer instead be on the phone and they didnt like that either. so i would like to know what to do. can someone please help me.. (link)
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your gonna have to talk to them and come to some reasonable agreement about it. i know its tough with parents. eventually maybe they'll start to losen up. parents want to get in your buisness because they want to protect you. but what they dont know is that theyre not really protecting you. theyre just annoying the hell out of you. just keep working on it. good luck. you'll get through this.
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ok me andmyb/f were in his pool and he stuck it in me for like 3 min but ti kept comin out(in those 3 min) and he said nothing came out of him ....we didnt use protection, wat is the chance of me gettin pregnamt??????? (link)
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you could definitly be pregnant.. you should definitly take a pregnancy test to make sure your not.. good luck
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How can I convince my mom to let me start wearing tampons?!! (link)
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why wouldnt she let you wear a tampon?? i think your gonna just have to talk to her about it.. i cant think of why she wouldnt want you to tho..
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My sister is almost 16 and going through this stage where she thinks shes better than everyone, especially me. She's always pushing me around.. and everything she says to me is some sort of comment to bring me down. She mocks me and tells me to shut the f*** up and all this other inappropriate stuff for NO reason. I just ignore her, because its stupid to even bother arguing with someone as immature as her. But sometimes i get so mad, I just want to punch her in the face and put her in her place. I've talked to my parents and they know that she THINKS she's so hot. I cant ignore her any longer, im sick of her thinking she has the right to walk over me. (And my brothers and sisters.) How do I stand up? And dont tell me to sit down and talk to her. You dont understand - this girl will NOT listen that way. (link)
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tell her to stop messing with you because it just makes her look like an asshole. eventually its gonna come back and get her. i understand the feeling but theres just not really much you can do about it. good luck,
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i have this friend. and he is always talking about my boyfriend(in a bad way). i like my friend but i dont like that he is saying stuff about my boyfriend. i told my boyfriend that he was talking about him and he got really mad. i even told my friend that i told my boyfriend what he had been doing, and now HES MAD AT ME! should i say sorry for something i dont think is my fault?
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tell your friend to stop talking about your boyfriend. tell your friend your sorry for telling, but he shouldnt have been talking about him, and that you just want everyone to be cool with each other again. good luck,
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Ok this will be sorta long but I rate high. There is this guy that I have always liked, at certain points in the year I would like him a lot and others it would be like good friends. But now I'm really starting to like him a lot, but its summer now. I will see him next year at school though. How do I get his attention and maybe get him to ask me out. ( He liked me a little during the year but not enough to go out) (link)
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you cant really make anyone like you, but you can try. you can try to flirt with them and make sure they know how you feel, but without saying it. good luck, im sure everything will work out for you.
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so i have a friend lets call her J. she used to be my best friend but now we r growing apart. she dose swimming and i was being a good friend and going to her swim meets. and the last swim meet that i went to she thought that my friend,V, was mad at her. so i asked V if she was and she wasnt so V went and told J that she wasnt mad at her. but J just kept on talking to her other friend and ignoring V when j kept on saying how much V was ignoring her and wen V left she was like oh my gosh did you see how much she ignored me just then??. and she alway shows off and cusses and makes fun of people, only around boys just to be like them. since she was being mean, i decided to hang around some other friends, like A. one day wen A is not there J comes up and says:
"dont tell me you are actually starting to like her?!"
me: "who, A of corse i have always liked her!!"
J: "watev"
and A thought that J liked her!! so wat do i do about both problems?? (link)
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um... sort of lost. but im going to try to help. i think you need to tell everyone that you dont want to get involved in their problems. tell them that theres no reason to be mad at each other, because no one is really mad at anyone, for any reason. good luck.
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im about 132 lbs. 13 yrs old and around 5'1". when i wake up every morning i look really thin and good. like in a healthy way. but by the end of the day i look really fat. this happens every single day. i wake up looking good and then i go to bed looking like i gained 10 lbs. i feel like if i try to starve myself ill either stay thin or lose a lot of weight but when ever i try to i just eat like a pig no matter how much i remind myself of the things people have said to me about my being fat. help please. im desperate. thanks
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i know how you feel with the food thing. but, if you even could starve yourself, dont. its really really bad for you and only bad stuff happens. you either end up starting to eat again and then you gain alot of weight, or if you starve yourself for long enough, you will die. but back to your original question, try to do stuff to keep yourself busy so you'll forget about eating all the time. and get yourself away from the food. like try hanging out outside sometimes instead of being indoors, and bored. good luck!
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I'm 15/f and I've had a boyfriend for about a week who has been my best friend for a while. My problem is that he's been trying too hard to become close with my friends. I know that sounds stupid, but I just don't want his relationship with them to be as close as his relationship with me. I like that he's a separate part of my life than my friends are and I really just want it to stay that way. I'm just used to my friends stealing my close friendships away and I don't want that to happen with him. Am I being too paranoid? How exactly do I tell him how I feel? (link)
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i understand how you feel. you dont want him to be as close with them as he is with you. first, let me just say, usually these "best friend" relationships dont usually work, so good luck. but as far as not wanting him to be so close with them, theres nothing you can do exceot for bring yourself closer to him than they can ever be. there isnt a way you can tell him not to be close with them without sounding like an asshole.
good luck,
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Ok, so I've liked this guy and I've liked him for at least 4 or 5 months. We are pretty good friends, like we hang at parties (if he doesn't have a gf at the time) and we talk to each other online ALOT. Well, he doesn't know cuz he's had on and off relationships and I'm scared if I tell him it will ruin our friendship. But that's not what I'm asking advice on. Well, I told a best friend of mine that I liked him a loong time ago, like when I started liking him. And I still like him to this day and this friend told me she has started liking him too. And she tries to brag to me about funny conversations they've had and I feel like she's taking what I have of him. and i just don't know what to do....:(...I'll take any advice you have...please... (link)
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well i think you should just talk to her and say that you dont want your friendship to get ruined because of this. make sure you stay cool with her even if he ends up going out with one of you. you can tell her how you feel about it. you may feel like you dont want her to be with him but you've gotta be nice about it. just say you plan on going out with him eventually. i understand you feel like you have dibs on him. so,
good luck,
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on some peoples columns why do they have stars? like if you go to Browse Comlumnists. What do they mean? why do those people have them????
PlEaSe AnSwEr!!! (link)
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its their rating. like if you have 3 stars next to your name that means your rating is a 3.
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Ok I went out with a guy named kasey... and I knew everyone thought he is a bad person.. and He does bad stuff and everthin.. but he really treated me soo good.. Like I was lyin down on a bed.. and he picked me up and was like carryin me.. and I had my legs around his waist.. and my head on his shoulder.. and he just like started dancin with me.. but he was like holden me.. and then he wispered in my ear.. I love you .. and kissed me.. and then I new.. I really loved him (or I thought) and I really thought i did.. and then he broke up with me.. and I was sooo hurtt I cryd and cryd and I couldnt controle myself I was dyin.. and i had started cutting again and I wouldnt stop.. and then the next day he asked me back out.. and I said yes.. and then I looked in his pro and go why am I not in your pro.. and he goes I was jk.. so he was kiddin bout asken me out.. and I was sooo hurt I grabbed a nife and was bout to slit my throat.. but sunday had her bf call the cops on me.. and they came to my house and came in my room and found me holden a nife to my throat...
well here is the problem... I am now in a relation ship with a guy named mike.. and everyone says he is a player.. and has cheated on his gfs alot.. But I really like him.. and I want to believe he wont hurt me and stuff.. Well he is gone for 3 weeks camping with my friends bf.. jimmy.. so me and my friend are goin up to visit them friday.. Im not sure what to do cause I really dont want to get hurt again and I want to give us a try and all.. and I want to believe it will work out.. What do I do HELP!
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"almost everyone is going to hurt you. you just have to decide whos worth it." you should give him a chance but he is likely to hurt you if hes hurt other girls. seems like you've had quite some drama with guys. im really sorry about that. try to work it out with this guy but if it doesnt then dont sweat it.
good luck!
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