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okay well..ive liked this guy steven for almost 5 years now..he's like perfect..only problem being that we dont go to the same school..and now he likes me back..but recently ive been talking to this other guy and im starting to fall really hard for him..i mean hes jsut as great as steven even having bonous points by going to both my school and church. should i go the safe route with steven or risk it all for this new guy?
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Well, to be quite honest, if you're asking, I don't think you should go out with either of them and should get to know them both for a little while before making a decision.
What I mean is this - date them both. Not go out with both, date. The difference is that going out implies commitment, a 1-on-1 relationship. Dating is basically just that you hang out with them, spend time getting to know them, and really isn't that much different from being friends. It's just that you are trying to get to know them because you like them.
Wait until you know which one you truly want to be with.
Keep in mind, this answer is coming from my point of view, where I feel that going out with someone is unhealthy until you are actually trying to decide whether this is someone you want to marry or not. This I have realized from my own experiences.
If you are going to go out with one of them, though, you're kinda on your own - it sounds like both of them are great guys, and I don't know them. You'll see more of the second guy, but you've known Steven for 5 years.
Seriously, tho, get to know them both more before you decide. I'd wager that at least one of them you will end up not wanting to go out with within the year because of things you learn about them and their personalities.
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You have to go with what your heart tells you to do, you just have to sit and think really hard I mean you have known one guy for five years so therefore you probably know everything about him and you might not like the things about the other guy, but like I said you have to go with what your heart tells you!
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get to know the new guy before you make your choice. keep talking to steven tho. if you end up liking this new guy just as much then go for him. if not then just go back with steven. its not a big deal if you dont go to the same school. hope it works out with the new guy since it would be easier. good luck.
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