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why dose it have to be all about her
so i have a friend lets call her J. she used to be my best friend but now we r growing apart. she dose swimming and i was being a good friend and going to her swim meets. and the last swim meet that i went to she thought that my friend,V, was mad at her. so i asked V if she was and she wasnt so V went and told J that she wasnt mad at her. but J just kept on talking to her other friend and ignoring V when j kept on saying how much V was ignoring her and wen V left she was like oh my gosh did you see how much she ignored me just then??. and she alway shows off and cusses and makes fun of people, only around boys just to be like them. since she was being mean, i decided to hang around some other friends, like A. one day wen A is not there J comes up and says:
"dont tell me you are actually starting to like her?!"
me: "who, A of corse i have always liked her!!"
J: "watev"
and A thought that J liked her!! so wat do i do about both problems??
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well, j seems to be having some social problems at the moment. so i think you and a should just let her cool off for awhile. dont tell A that J does not like her though...because that jsut causes more problems. if you want your friend back then just ask if you two can talk alone. dont yell at her or tell her she's being mean. just say that you really like A, but you still like her. tell her that you want to be friends with both of them without causeing any problems. i really hope it works.
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um... sort of lost. but im going to try to help. i think you need to tell everyone that you dont want to get involved in their problems. tell them that theres no reason to be mad at each other, because no one is really mad at anyone, for any reason. good luck.
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